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Is he gay and if not, is he dateable?

Q.   I know a good looking, cultured, intelligent, highly educated, employed guy in his 40s. I am very attracted to him. However, he is kind of effeminate. He could be a metro. I found out that he lives with another guy and that they have lived ...

A.   3 July 2011: I just couldn't bring myself to ask so I thought I'd be smart and try to find out in an indirect way. Since I couldn't come right out and ask a friend of his, I just asked if he was seeing anyone. She said yes. So, I guess either way it doesn't ... (read in full...)

Is he gay and if not, is he dateable?

Q.   I know a good looking, cultured, intelligent, highly educated, employed guy in his 40s. I am very attracted to him. However, he is kind of effeminate. He could be a metro. I found out that he lives with another guy and that they have lived ...

A.   1 June 2011: Okay. I think he was married when he was young-maybe about 20 years ago or more. So maybe the comment about the guy on tv not being married and therefore, gay, it's because he hss been married. The most confusing aspect is that a colleague, said ... (read in full...)

Ladies, would an effeminate man who had a male roomate at forty and flirted with younger students attract you?

Q.   I asked a q before about a guy who may be gay. He is good lookong, very intelligent and highly educated. He is effeminate but he doesn't dress "gay." However, mamy people who meet him for the first time think he is. His colleagues think he is. ...

A.   27 April 2011: As far as the economics, I think he's frugal not poor. Maybe he's waiting until he gets married so he'll have plenty of money put away. Does extreme frugality justify living with a male housemate in his 40s? I actually know professors, personal... (read in full...)

Ladies, would an effeminate man who had a male roomate at forty and flirted with younger students attract you?

Q.   I asked a q before about a guy who may be gay. He is good lookong, very intelligent and highly educated. He is effeminate but he doesn't dress "gay." However, mamy people who meet him for the first time think he is. His colleagues think he is. ...

A.   26 April 2011: Well, I don't know that he has dated students, plural, I only know of one, in particular.... (read in full...)

Ladies, would an effeminate man who had a male roomate at forty and flirted with younger students attract you?

Q.   I asked a q before about a guy who may be gay. He is good lookong, very intelligent and highly educated. He is effeminate but he doesn't dress "gay." However, mamy people who meet him for the first time think he is. His colleagues think he is. ...

A.   26 April 2011: Well, I don't know that he has dated students, plural, I only know of one, in particular.... (read in full...)

Is he gay and if not, is he dateable?

Q.   I know a good looking, cultured, intelligent, highly educated, employed guy in his 40s. I am very attracted to him. However, he is kind of effeminate. He could be a metro. I found out that he lives with another guy and that they have lived ...

A.   25 April 2011: What if I said that he was in a position where letting people think he was gay would serve him? That is, his profession is such that everyone else is married. Additionally, he works with a lot of women and their issues. If people think he's gay, he ... (read in full...)

Is he gay and if not, is he dateable?

Q.   I know a good looking, cultured, intelligent, highly educated, employed guy in his 40s. I am very attracted to him. However, he is kind of effeminate. He could be a metro. I found out that he lives with another guy and that they have lived ...

A.   25 April 2011: All things considered, I would have thought gay. However, I swear I've seen him flirting with women and looking at women in the way that a straight man wouldn't. I know some guys in their 30s who live together and they're not gay. I don't know ... (read in full...)

Is he gay and if not, is he dateable?

Q.   I know a good looking, cultured, intelligent, highly educated, employed guy in his 40s. I am very attracted to him. However, he is kind of effeminate. He could be a metro. I found out that he lives with another guy and that they have lived ...

A.   24 April 2011: Well, when I say effemimate, I mean his mannerisms and way of speaking. However, I know another man in his field who behaves in a similar manner and is married with kids. He does swish a bit sometimes when he walks. He has no lisp but his ... (read in full...)

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