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I started on this sight about 4 years ago looking for help as a lot of the others on here do and i found myself in a great community ! I dont have a degree but i like helping people out with there problems or curious questions from time to time.
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How can I prove I'm not messing around?
Q. I have met up with this girl. We were getting on fine for a month, then I stayed there one night, and the next morning. She asked me to leave, she said she was unwell. I left and rang her in a hour, she told me that I was cheating on her, while I ...
A. 1 December 2013: Just tell her the truth and that she should have asked you instead of accusing you ... And you should also tell her she shouldny be invading your privacy ?! ... (read in full...)
How do Atheist men date when most women are Christians or believers?
Q. Many women are believers or Christians etc. I'm not saying you can't date at all, that's absurd, all I'm trying to convey is that your dating pool is rather limited. Like at my college, most women seem to be believers. I know this because in ...
A. 1 December 2013: I don't think your dating pool would be limited ! People from all walks of life with different cultures and religious backgrounds find love with others who believe different thing! I'm a raised catholic but its not something i believe in or stand by ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again?
Q. What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again. I'm a sexual person who loves being touched by men. Is it bad to have sex with them if you use protection? Why is there such a stigma to meaningless sex? Yes, its ...
A. 1 December 2013: There is nothing wrong with it !! U can only look at this topic woth a feminist opinion because men can do this every night of the week and be called a hero but when a woman does it shes a slut/whore/ dirty.! I think a lot of men also don't want to ... (read in full...)
Sex life with fianceé is suffering. How important is sex to women in a relationship?
Q. I just want to know how important sex is to women in a relationship, and also if it is important to them to maintain a healthy relationship. My fiance and I just got engaged a few weeks ago and we've been together for a year and a half. The first ...
A. 30 November 2013: If your fiance has been diagnosed with a uti of some sort she is probably going through a lot more pain then u realise !!
She knows that your sexual relationship was great and now that she is in pain when u guys are together she doesnt feel like... (read in full...)
Its such a slap in my face that my ex would end up with this girl who had made my life miserable
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last December but we're still friends. However, during and before our relationship started this girl who liked him tried everything in her power to break us up, she threatened me and tried to get some girl to beat me ...
A. 30 November 2013: You never know sweetie he could be doing all this for attention !! He obviously knows she use to intentionally hurt your feeling ( whilst giving him attention) and he is bound to know that upset you !!
Its definalty a kick in the face
Dont make a b... (read in full...)
Are my dating rules really too strict?
Q. Here it goes again:(. My mother just had a conversation with me that I have too many rules when it comes to guys, and that's why I don't have anyone in my life. Some of my friends agree,I am looking for some opinions here. Though I do ha...
A. 27 November 2013: I think the whole txting thing is a bit silly !! When i even text my friends i dont say there name !! I know who im having a conversation with because the name is on top of the conversation!! Ans even if he did just say your name in a text it doesnt ... (read in full...)
Is it sexual frustration or overwhelming chemistry? Should I go for it?
Q. Hey everyone!!!! I have been single for a couple of months now. Me and my ex broke up mutually (i wanted to break up for a while before we actually did). Since we broke up though i made the decision to stay single for a while (i have had 3...
A. 26 November 2013: I think you should go for it !! Heads up being in a relationship which starts out as sexual tension is amazing thats what i have right now ... Nearly five months down the line at its still sex three time a night ! We just know exactly what are bodys ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant. Should I leave my Bf? He's addicted to porn, uses weed and now he's cyber cheated.
Q. I'm 7 months pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has been messaging a girl he knows on Facebook, suggestive and flirty messages. She suggested they do something sexual, to which he replied "will it be soon?? I can't wait to stay in the room ...
A. 26 November 2013: You already know you dont want to be with him ! If hes ignoring the fact that u dont want this anymore then your going to have to go for plan b !!
So get rid of the couples visa... Get your own and forget about his ! True he has a right to be arou... (read in full...)
Is there really ever a good time to break up with someone?
Q. I've been dating someone for 3 months who has started to get clingy and needy. He's a very nice man and has many wonderful qualities but he is way more into this relationship then me. I'll give some examples of his needy behavior: He tex...
A. 26 November 2013: Tough situation!!
I mean its sweet everything he was doing for you ! He was trying to show you he was happy to be your man while you were the damsel in distress needing things fixed around the house ! Cute !
But you know mabye its not that you... (read in full...)
How could his kissing someone else have helped with my trust issues?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. In this time I have suffered a bit of anxiety which has led to me being insecure and distrustful and spying on him and his internet history, accusing him and being quite needy and creating drama in ...
A. 25 November 2013: The thing is for so long u mistrusted him ! Like you had a reason that you secretly thought that he must have been doing something behind you back for so long and then it actually happened and now you feel relief because your thinking to yourself i ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and my boyfriend messages his ex
Q. My boyfriend of nearly two years has been texting his ex behind my back, I caught him at a glance by seeing her name on Facebook I said nothing but when he was sleeping I looked the messages are harmless when sober but some are when he was drunk and ...
A. 25 November 2013: Im sorry your going through a terrible experience when your pregnant its such a shame !! You need to confront him about this sit down and talk about it you shouldnt be under this much stress never mind argueing when in your condition!
What mess... (read in full...)
Am I about to be used in revenge sex with a longtime friend?
Q. This is a long and complex story of infidelity and revenge sex. So here's the short version. My friend had been cheating on his wife unknown to me. I've know them both since childhood. I kept our friendship at a respectful distance because I could ...
A. 25 November 2013: I think you handled this yet you didnt say no you said not yet which is great because her actions over the next few months will prove to you if she is serious about wanting to be involved with younor if she is just infact using you !!
Be carf... (read in full...)
Tiny sand-like scabs in my bed after sleeping with a guy...what is it?
Q. I've been sleeping with this guy for a while, and tonight he came over to visit me before he goes on a trip for 6 weeks. So we slept together. But after he left, I noticed my bed was full of what looked like sand at first. I picked up one of the ...
A. 25 November 2013: If he just got a new tattoo then its more then likely its the tattoo scabbing itd usually how tattoos small little scabs along with peeling of the skin !! It could be anything he could have a skin rash or spots on his body he is picking !! I doubt ... (read in full...)
Should I marry a girl I love and have had a five year on off relationship with but has cheated and lied to me in the past, but has now said she has changed, or should I stay with my new girlfriend of five months who I have a steady relationship with
Q. Hi guys, Anthony here, I am looking for some advice please as I ‘ve go myself into something of a dilemma! Should I marry a girl I love and have had a five year on off relationship with but has cheated and lied to me in the past, but has now said...
A. 24 November 2013: First off you shouldnt be making this decision based one its either girl number 1 or girl number 2 your going to end up with !! Life doesnt work like that !!
To be honest your ex girlfriend is a bitch !! She has literally used you as a door mat for ... (read in full...)
He thinks of me as something that I'm not and I can't stand the thought of seeing disappointment on his face
Q. I have met a great guy and we have been dating for a while now. The next step on the cards for us is sex but im terrified of him seeing me naked. See I used to be extremely over weight and I lost it all naturally a few years ago but my body still ...
A. 24 November 2013: Have you had sex before?
I know its hard when you have self confidence issues and unfortunatly the solution to your problem is that CONFIDENCE !! Theres so many things that can help with the slight imperfections of your body that you think are ther... (read in full...)
His questions are making me uncomfortable -- am I just being paranoid?
Q. Why do I feel this way about him? Am I being paranoid? I've been seeing this guy my friends husband set me up with. They say good things about him all the time and he seems nice so far. I starting a well paid job in a few months and h...
A. 24 November 2013: Just tell this man for your own piece of mind that you would like if he was checked before you took your relationship any further ... Offer to do it yourself aswell so your both of the same level and he doesnt feel like your insulting him !! Tell ... (read in full...)
I thought my Co-worker was just a good friend. So why has he been asking me explicit sexual questions?
Q. I've thought this guy at my work and I were just friends. We talk a lot, about random stuff usually. Yesterday we were texting and he was asking me when I'm going to have kids and everything. I said I don't know. Anyway so we were texting more and...
A. 24 November 2013: He is looking for nude pictures of you and is looking for sexual contact off you !! Tell him to back off he has a partner and two children and his actions are innappropriate !... (read in full...)
2 months later and I can't get over him. I feel alone!
Q. Hi all So I registered for a dating site and met this one guy after a really long time. Finally found someone I thought I liked. We met and hit it off immediately. We got along really well and he would be really eager to meet me and texted me al...
A. 24 November 2013: Your better off that you told him what you wanted from the relationship this could have gone on for months and you would have been even more heart broken ! I know it sucks being away from family and friends but this is your time to prove to yourself... (read in full...)
Would you ever ask an ex to be your plus 1 at a wedding?
Q. Would you ever asks an ex to be your plus 1 at a wedding? I ask because my ex asked me to go to a wedding with him. He was the dumpee. It was 5 months ago we broke up, but he didn't take it so great. We've spoken on and off since, but nothing much. ...
A. 24 November 2013: It could be a number of things he might not yet have told his relatives your relationship is over and doesnt want to answer all those questions like "why? What happened? Are you ok?"
Or
He could still have feeling for you and is attempti... (read in full...)
So what's going on? Has she lost interest?
Q. I met this girl on a dating site. Well, a woman. She is 38. I am 39. We went out for drinks a week ago and ended up kissing. Before the date we'd been emailing every day, and after the date (Friday) I wasn't sure how long to wait, but I sent her a ...
A. 24 November 2013: I think she has lost interest to be honest !! Give it another few days and strike up conversation and see if you get any decent conversation from her!
To be honest if she was interested she would be jumping at the chance to see you again !! Inst... (read in full...)
I care about him, but not the way he wants. What are my options?
Q. Hi everyone, There is this guy I've been talking to and we have just been texting back and forth but we have never actually met. He has been coming on strong telling me that he is in love with me and that he wants me in his life. He wants to meet me ...
A. 24 November 2013: Jesus christ (sorry) but this guy is CRAZY !! Has he gone through some form of break up recently? How long have you both been talking? How do you feel About the relationship .. I know its obvious that he is coming on way to strong but is this so... (read in full...)
Gf and I broke up a year ago, been single ever since. Am I getting too desperate for attention?
Q. Hi guys basically split up with my girlfriend over a year ago after 4 years together I was devastated and still am not healed, I have slept with 4 girls since then and tried to turn them into relationships but the spark was never there so it turned ...
A. 24 November 2013: Its sad how your in such a bad state of mind ! I think you are looking for attention as a way to get through this break up !! What you should be doing is trying to focus on yourself your wants and needs so you can be the best you possible in order... (read in full...)
I thought my Co-worker was just a good friend. So why has he been asking me explicit sexual questions?
Q. I've thought this guy at my work and I were just friends. We talk a lot, about random stuff usually. Yesterday we were texting and he was asking me when I'm going to have kids and everything. I said I don't know. Anyway so we were texting more and...
A. 24 November 2013: Im on the same wave length as younmost of My close friends are girls but when it comes to work i hang out with the guys its less drama plus conversation is never dramatic !! I can talk about girls with them and make sexual jokes or comments but i wo... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable to want to keep this friendship? Or is my boyfriend right?
Q. Ok I have an issue with my live-in boyfriend (of 5 years) that I need some advice on please. I have a female friend at work. We work in the same department and we have become quite close and have started seeing each other outside of work a bit to...
A. 24 November 2013: Your boyfriend is obviously just threatened by this woman and because she has different views on loyalty in a relationship your partner does see that as a potential threat ! Try looking at it from his side !! In reality everybody cheats in relation... (read in full...)
Don't want to miss out on the opportunity but afraid I'll develop feelings for him
Q. Hi, just asking for your opinion. There is this 50's plus amazing guy at work. He is one of those rare types who attract young girls, more than guys their own age! At work, every and I mean literally every girl would do anything to go out with him(I ...
A. 24 November 2013: You missed out on a great opportunity? For what sex? To show all the other girls in the office you got to go out with them and they didn't? If you think there is any chance of developing feeling then don't get involved!! If you're able to come aro... (read in full...)
I just want a girlfriend but all I get are mixed messages
Q. This happens to me a lot and I'm getting sick of it. What can I do to stop this from happening? It doesn't seem to happen to any of my guy friends. My guy friends just give me s**t and tell me I'm never going to get laid. When I try to approach ...
A. 24 November 2013: Mabye this girl wanted to change herself she could have felt she was giving it away and building a reputation and mabye she didnt want that anymore for herself! Just ignore this girl she is obviously no good for you! Its a shame you dont go to b... (read in full...)
Is it normal for men to feel insecure in regards to sex toys?
Q. Hi all! I had posted previously about me leaving an abusive relationship. He was very manipulative and plain awful to me. My ex couldnt make me orgasm,so we got a toy to try and help myself, and when he caught me using it he would flip on me...
A. 24 November 2013: I think leave the sex toy out of the equasion for now i mean if was a form of sexual satisfaction survival in your last relationship you dont need it now !! Let the two of you bond first without interferance !! You should let your bodys bond and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend keeping my children a secret from his family
Q. I have a huge problem. I have been dating a guy long distance for 2 years. I met his family a while back and I could clearly tell that he had not told them I was divorced, with 2 kids. I didn't make a big deal about it but moving forward, I'm now ...
A. 23 November 2013: Well I don't think they are going to look at you as a liar its they're own son that they will look to in that way!! He should have told them everything there is to know about you straight out, what's the point in keeping secrets? It only builds up ... (read in full...)
Do I go to the party or make an excuse not to go?
Q. I need some advice on what to do. I was seeing someone from work for about 5 months. He left 2 months after we got together and i left a month later. We were a tight group at work and we both still see the gang we worked with regularly. At first we ...
A. 23 November 2013: Of course you should stay friends with these people!! But i would hold off on the party just for the minute you guys are still freshly broken up so you need a bit of space from one another even if you do have the same social groups you dont wan... (read in full...)
Is it normal for men to feel insecure in regards to sex toys?
Q. Hi all! I had posted previously about me leaving an abusive relationship. He was very manipulative and plain awful to me. My ex couldnt make me orgasm,so we got a toy to try and help myself, and when he caught me using it he would flip on me...
A. 23 November 2013: This guy seems great seriously !! When i was in my previous relationship my boyfriend was ALWAYS going on about get a vibrator so when i went on a trip to london i bought one ! The minute i bought it he freaked out and we were fight for four day... (read in full...)
Desperately craving attention and affection from my girlfriend. Is it her, or our circumstances?
Q. Hi everyone, thank you for your thoughts, I really need your help... I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years. Incredible start to the relationship, it was exciting, such a buzz, never-ending sex, fun, we were students and we met up at the weeken...
A. 22 November 2013: The thing is even though you guys are both a couple Your both seperate people with ambitions and goals of your own !! You should be greatful this woman has so much ambition and isnt giving in to have kids straight away like so many others !! You... (read in full...)
Its great that he's a good dad, but I want to feel important too!!
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years has a 2 year old daughter. I have changed myself to accept this situation and moved past it. But now, when he invites me to hang out with them, i usually don't bc i don't like how it makes me feel around them. And i don't ...
A. 22 November 2013: I think you are being slightly unreasonable !! My parents are divorced and i understand now that both my parents had to move on with there lives but if i think about it and put myself in the situation where i was his daughter i would be perfectl... (read in full...)
How do I approach the topic of sex without hurting his feelings/pride?
Q. Am I putting too much pressure on us both? Dear Cupid, After a long distressing relationship and a painful break up with a dead-beat guy about half a year ago now, I finally met someone wonderful who I adore. He's kind, funny and so sweet. He ...
A. 22 November 2013: I always find having sex with your partner opens up a more comfortable door to talk about it ! Even though its never a problem ! Why dont u try talking about things he might want to try or fantasys you know role play ! And in turn you could always ... (read in full...)
What can I do really quickly to improve my skin? I am attending a wedding and I have too many pimples and other issues.
Q. Hi friends. My problem may sound really silly but I really need some help please. I have a marriage ceremony to attend day after tomorrow and I have soooo many pimples on my forehead. I understand that having pimples is normal but it’s too much and...
A. 22 November 2013: For pimples you need to drink a lot of water and green tea !! You need to detox that bad foods that are causing these bacteric .... Im talking at least two litres of water a day !!
Find a good facial scrub ! I have combinational skin and i use clin... (read in full...)
If he's happy then why is he still on dating sites?
Q. Hi everyone, I am hoping someone (preferably with experience of this) could shed some light on my problem. I have been seeing my boyfriend for a bit more than three years. He says he is happy. If he is happy, then why does he keep going to dating ...
A. 21 November 2013: Whats the exact reason he gives you for going on these dating websites? How have your arguments usually played out on this topic? Do you find yourself snooping around or is he genuinely leaving clues around? Whatever the answers in my mind its a... (read in full...)
Came home unexpectedly and found husband in strange situation. Is he gay?
Q. Dear everyone, Hi I have been married to my husband since May 11th 2013. We havebeen together for almost 8 years. He has never shown any signs of being bi sexual or gay. Well the other morning he didn't expect me home for awhile but my daughter...
A. 21 November 2013: What was his excuse for calling the neighbour? ... (read in full...)
If he's happy then why is he still on dating sites?
Q. Hi everyone, I am hoping someone (preferably with experience of this) could shed some light on my problem. I have been seeing my boyfriend for a bit more than three years. He says he is happy. If he is happy, then why does he keep going to dating ...
A. 21 November 2013: Whats the exact reason he gives you for going on these dating websites? How have your arguments usually played out on this topic? Do you find yourself snooping around or is he genuinely leaving clues around? Whatever the answers in my mind its a... (read in full...)
Were you ugly as a teen then become a good looking adult?
Q. In high school were you ugly and then get good looking when you became an adult? I was a cute kid/preteen until I hit the age of 15. At 15 I got a weird facial structure, acne, dry frizzy hair, and am SO socially awkward. I'm 19 and still have all ...
A. 20 November 2013: Yea but what is your diet like? Drinking water should be a huge part of your diet! It helps clear acne and bring out healthy nutrients in the oils needed to produce healthy looking hair ! Take a look at your diet! Are u drinking fizzy drinks eating ... (read in full...)
Never been in a relationship and don't know how to start
Q. I am 20 and am in med school. And till now i have never been in a serious a relationshir its not like am afraid or anything its just that am afraid of commitment. And since i was 17 my the longest relationship is string of one night stands. But this ...
A. 20 November 2013: If you like her then i guess your already showing her the real side of you which your usual string of girls haven't seen.
And its a big step for you and its exciting !!
The fact that you were a little bit of a man whore will help you out in getti... (read in full...)
He tells me he loves me but he's not here for me when I need him
Q. Hi, I'm 19 year old girl and at the minute I'm just lost, hurt, upset and don't know what to do. 10 months ago I got with my boyfriend. He's quite abit older than me, he's 27. Everything has been great really happy then a few weeks ago argument a ...
A. 20 November 2013: Is there a reason why he left? Do you both live together?
Or are you in some sort of long distance relationship
Dealing with sick people and death is usually a hard topic for men !! The can listen to your problems but theyre way of dealing with you... (read in full...)
Were you ugly as a teen then become a good looking adult?
Q. In high school were you ugly and then get good looking when you became an adult? I was a cute kid/preteen until I hit the age of 15. At 15 I got a weird facial structure, acne, dry frizzy hair, and am SO socially awkward. I'm 19 and still have all ...
A. 20 November 2013: Guys get looking as they get older
Guys age beautifully
They actually get better looking with age
Your not going to have acne and frizzy hair forever remember that !!
Trust me your days of becoming a ladys man / man whore are right around the... (read in full...)
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