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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): it shouldnt really matter. my gf is smarter than me but she likes me for who i am and not for what i try to be
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reader, ptownpetey87  +, writes (14 January 2008):
 its not a competition... if you love her, that stuff doesnt matter!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): Why does it matter? She will be better at some things than you, and you will better at other things!
Why are you worried? She is going out with you because she likes you just as you are. If you are that worried about it - say to her that you are worried...
But be proud of her - as she is proud of you for your strengths =] x x x
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reader, Crisy  +, writes (12 January 2008):
 just be proud of her.
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reader, xxbaybeegal +, writes (12 January 2008):
 lool, you make me laugh your only 10-12 and this girl wants to get good grades thats why she's smarter. just dont do anything eg. trying harder to be smarter than her or she might notice. but you want to go on revision sites, reading books, extra cirriculum sites and stuff to jog your brain a bit, but when you think about it she only smarter than you because she concentrates on her work so you might wanna do the same. ps.. you have like years ahead of you before college and unniverstiy so make the most of that time
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reader, Addie +, writes (11 January 2008):
 Well, why does it matter if she's smarter than you? If you want to be smarter study harder for school, and it shouldn't matter to you or your girlfriend either way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): Lol bless ya! Don't worry, its no big deal :) xxx
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reader, MetalMan +, writes (11 January 2008):
 i can see where these guys are coming from and they're right to an extent, if you want to get smarter you should wok hard and study in school, but it shouldn't matter how smart either of you are just have fun together
and if your still hung up on her being smarter then think about this, no test can truly mesure how smart a person is, i mean most tests on subjects are about remembering stuff and recalling it on the day or how you interpret infomation. even I.Q. tests arn't a real mesure of somones intelligence because people specialise in cirtan areas or aspects of logic and reasoning like i suck at languages but exell in applied reasoning it's just what your good at. so go out and find out what that thing i for you and do it
but try not to worry about it and think yourself lucky that this clever girl choses you over everyone else
good luck, hope i helped
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reader, Variety +, writes (11 January 2008):
 Get over it. If you really like her than something like this shouldn't matter. What rule is there that a guy has to be the smarter one in the relationship? If that is the case then all men would be smarter than women lol. If you want to be the smart one you know the answer...find a new girlfriend and then miss out on all the fantastic things you could be doing with this one. Or focus on the things you are good at. Love is not a competition so this shouldn't matter. x
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reader, just-ask-xx +, writes (11 January 2008):
 Work harder in school but why does it matter if she's smarter anyways?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): You are young so dont let it get to you, but do stick in at school and research stuff on the internet. Put some effort into getting smarter and you will get a better job when you are older.
take care
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (11 January 2008):
 Accept it. Why does it matter anyway. Study and Pay attention in school if you want to be smarter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): Concentrate on your schoolwork and read plenty of encyclopaedias, dictionaries, and generally have an enquiring mind. The more questions you have, the more answers you'll be given, the smarter you'll get.
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