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writes: OK, this might sound really stupid, but I would like you to advise me on what to do at school. I'll try and be as brief as possible but here is the situation:There's this girl I like in my class, who I think might like me. I'm not sure but I have a feeling there is a connection there.First, do you think I should ask her out?Secondly, what types of things do you DO with a girlfriend? You know, do you sit with them or not, leave space giving them room to breath, intimacy... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): Yeah - ask her out...why not?? If you really like her then you should go for it - and you'll be alot happier without having to worry about this all day!!
Be brave!!
When you're on a date - well just be yourself and only do what both of you are comfortable with. Just HAVE FUN!!!
Good luck x x x
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Go for it. That's how my relationship with my bf started. He sent me a message online after we met telling me he felt a connection, and we were friends for about two weeks before we started going out.
As for things you do with a gf, you watch tv, play cards, go to the movies, talk, talk on the phone, and other things, but sometimes you can fall into a rut, so it's good sometimes to do something completely random.
And don't forget the little things: like saying I Love you(when you finally feel that you really do), buying her something like maybe a rose with a little teddy bear in it from time to time, sending her cute messages like "I miss you" online, etc. etc. etc.
Because trust me, if you don't tell these things to her, other guys will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): This is really too cute!
Yeah, you should probably ask her out, after all you have nothing to lose! Study halls are great for that, or maybe during a partner activity in class, you could ask her to be your partner and then when your alone ask her for a date.
And as for what to do, sometimes I find talking on AIM(MSN) is enough. The mall is a great place to walk around, have snacks...etc. The movies are good too. Taking friends is great too, unless she feels uncomfortable about it. Be open with eachother dont hide things from her. Try sitting next to her in class, but not every one, give her some time with her friends and herself. Intimacy... comes naturally ;) so dont worry about it.
xox
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reader, just-ask-xx  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Hi, well I think you should ask her out!! It sounds as if you like her and she likes you =D
As for what you do with a girlfriend, it's different all the time, I suggest holding her hand sometimes and then going further if you both want to, for example kissing.
Good Luck
love just-ask-xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): i was in a simular situation about two months ago. Trust me i think you should ask because otherewise you will just keep wondering whether you would have got together etc. However make sure she doeesn't have a boyfriend- that is incredibly embarressing and i know. Anyhows you have nothing to lose so go for it. some advise: ask face to face when she is alone and try and make it at a convienent time (after class maybe). So good luck on that aspect.
Part two: maybe you should wait till you have a girl friend before you worry bout this. For best advise there are loads of websites available to give expertise- just google it. From me, just do what feels right, try to include her and be with her or she will think you aren't interested in her. Likewise, don't do the opposite, don't stalk her or the like or she will think you are creepy and needy. However just don't read into it to much and you will be fine.
Good luck mate
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