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Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.
I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.
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Why do I feel attracted to other guys when I have a wonderful boyfriend?
Q. I am currently at Uni. I have a wonderful boyfriend who i love but sometimes i get attracted to other guys and wonder what it would be like with them. It makes me feel awful and my boyfriend has picked up on it. Any advice is welcome. ...
A. 28 May 2007: It sounds complety normal.
Even in the strongest relationships they finds others attractive.
As long as you dont stray theres nothing wrong.
If you are thinking about having relationships with them maybe your insecure in this relationship... (read in full...)
Is it wrong at the age of 22 to have the desire to have a baby and get married?
Q. Is it wrong at the age of 22 to have the desire to have a baby and get married? I'm not with anyone at the moment, and I know that I need to get a better job and a house, but the feeling has been overwhelming me lately, and I don't know if I'm wrong ...
A. 28 May 2007: Nah it never is too young to think that.
I know for a fact some people younger than you do, the difference is that your much older and much more mature from what ive seen.
All you need is that special someone, because age wise your old nough an... (read in full...)
Why do I never feel like having sex with my boyfriend?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and things are great but i never feel like having sex... other sexual acts are ok... but wen it comes to sex i never really feel like it. its not that hes bad in bed coz he's really good but i just never ...
A. 28 May 2007: Simple answer could be you feel like your not ready to have sex with him again. Even though you have you may not feel ready again. Just wait ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends are so bitchy to me because I have always liked football!
Q. Sorry for the length! I'm a girl and I love football and I've always been into it since I was little. Obviously this always made me popular with the guys and I've got loads of mates who are guys, who I really get on well with. I've had no problems ...
A. 28 May 2007: Just ingore the gossipers, there childish. They proberly call you a slag because you are talking to the guys they like. Men love woman who enjoy the sports they like and they proberly hates this. Do not quit your job over this its petty. When a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him but I would NEVER do that! I'm at the end of my tether with this, what can I do to prove I'm not?
Q. I am a 24 year old girl who is having trouble with my on off boyfriend i love him loads but he keeps breaking up with me because he thinks i am cheating on him i have never cheated and never would but he just doesnt believe a word i say, how can i ...
A. 28 May 2007: Theres seems to be no point to this relationship. You may love him but he doesnt trust you therefore doesnt truely love you back. As they say relationships are built on trust and unless its a two way street it will never work out. Tell him o... (read in full...)
Will going on my laptop all the time affect my eyesight?
Q. hi im 14 and on my laptop all the time if im not going out ill be on it all the time im awake. Im quite worried about what will happen to my eyesite its perfectly fine at the moment but what will it do to me and how long have i got till it starts ...
A. 27 May 2007: Try sitting further away from the screen to help. Also i belive the recomended screen time is 1 hour on 15 mins off. And i do believe to much time on the PC can affect your eyes, so do cut back. The blurry eyesight could be down to tiredness or ... (read in full...)
My mother caught me masturbating and now I feel soooooo ashamed!
Q. am i normal? im extremely curious and i heard some girls in my class talking about masturbating so i decided to try it, i was in the shower one day and out of curiosity i layed on my back and let the water drip onto my 'area' and i pulled back the...
A. 27 May 2007: It will deffinently be embarrasing, but you wo will get past this. You should talk to your mum about it because advioding this will just make things too akward. Your mum should understand your both mature enough to get past this. Dont be ashamed i... (read in full...)
Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?
Q. Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?...
A. 27 May 2007: YES. The short answer is time heal all wounds. But to help the process just do things that will keeep your mind off this person.
In my opinion the hurt will never be fully gone but you can move on... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with her......
Q. hi i met a girl on msn, she lives about an hour away on train, ive met her loads now and i think ive fallen in love, problem is that i dont see her that often and the longer it goes on the more painful it is not seeing her, what should i do?...
A. 27 May 2007: Keep at it. As other said Long Distance is hard, but keep at it. The way you talk about her it should be worth it.
Keep the relationship fresh talk as often as possible, and organise meet up whenever you have time.
Make an effort. Good luck... (read in full...)
I am a bit worried because I think some of the substance got on my clothes and hair. Could I be infected with this?
Q. Today at school I did a sewer lab in Chemistry. I am a bit worried that I caught a disease, because in this lab we deal with microorganisms, pee, and fecal matter. We run tests on these. I am a bit worried because I think some of the substance got ...
A. 23 May 2007: Well first i reckon you should talk with your Chemistry teacher, they will most likely know the risks of the experiment you did.
Since you havent really gone into much detail about your experiment, i would say if your teacher says there is a risk... (read in full...)
Is a 15 year old girl dating a 22 year old different from a 18 year old girl dating a 26 year old? Any views?
Q. Hello, I'm 19 years old and dating a 27 year old guy. We've been dating for a year, ever since I was 18 and he was 26. And everything's fine, no problems here. Recently though, my cousin came and told me that she's dating a 22 year old - and s...
A. 19 May 2007: As the others said i dont believe that your being a hypocrite in this situation.
First of all you were 18 at the time you began to date your boyfriend which is an age where you are much more mature emotionally. The 7 year age gap means nothing when... (read in full...)
What can I do to earn some money???
Q. i want to buy new clothes because my wardrobe isnt up to date, and im not a snobby person, i just like to look pretty. but i never have any money! and i dont no how to earn it. i cant work because i go to saturday school and on a sunday i do cors...
A. 16 May 2007: Well since your exams are most likely coming up i suggest you use this time to study (I didnt)and just get your exams out of the way firstly.
Then in the summer a lot of jobs open up so you can start to search then, when you have alot of free tim... (read in full...)
What do I choose...the awesome school field trip or the party of the year??
Q. me and my school class r going to this awsome feild trip we go there at 7:00 am and arrive to school around 7:00 pm. But the problem is i got invited to THE PARTY of the year. The party starts at 8:00 pm. and i still have to go take a shower get my ...
A. 15 May 2007: Well one way is set out your party clothes and make up so that when you get home you can get ready a quickly as possible. As for your hair situation why dont you ask one of your mates or a friend to do it for you.
If they can get ready with them... (read in full...)
How do I get this guy to stop stalking me?
Q. Right, here's the deal. A taken guy who's been going out with his gf for 8 months has not stopped texting me since we first met. Also, on MSN, he doesn't stop talkin to me. She knows and she's angry. If I have to text him back, it's one word ans...
A. 15 May 2007: Well firstly explain to situation to his girlfriend, this may fix the situation but if it doesnt to fix the MSN problem just block him and he wont be able to talk to you anymore.
If he continues to text you just dont respond to his texts anym... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and I'm thinking about asking 15-year old girl out, what do you think?
Q. hi i am 18 and started talking to this girl who is 15 and we been talking for a while and that lot and i am starting to find her attractive and was thinking of asking her out i am not out for sex or anything for 1 i am a virgin anyway and plus i ...
A. 10 May 2007: I think as long as you dont have sex until she is 16 you are perfectly fine. People will question your motives and her parents may not like it so be wary. But otherwise your fine... (read in full...)
Do guys assume because I wear rings, one them is from a bf?
Q. I would really like to know a guy's opinion on girls wearing rings... (although girls views welcome too!) I have this gold ring that has a diamond heart and piece of amethyst in it. I wear it on my right hand middle finger just about every day ...
A. 9 May 2007: In my guy opinion
In my Opinion these seem like they are presents from someone very special to you, and as you said you got there from you parents, but most people would assume there from your "Boyfriend"
But dont now stop wearing them they se... (read in full...)
I find my boyfriend embarassingly unmanly. What can I do?
Q. Hey, I've recently started dating a guy, I'm 15 and he's 14, but because he's in the academic year below me my boy "friends" think it's weird. Sometimes they go as far as hitting him and tripping him up, "as a joke" For some reason, when the...
A. 9 May 2007: Sound like you need to stand up for your boyfriend. Bullying is VERY serious and is never pretty. You need to tell your friends to stop right now because as you said he is younger than you plus he is only a kid.
As the to him not being a man thin... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to do Sixth Form next year or go to college! Any views?
Q. Im 15, in year 10. I have a year left at school. Im starting to think about what i wanna do when i leave school. I deffinatly want to continue education. Im not sure if to stay at my school and go to sixth form or go to college. is there much ...
A. 8 May 2007: Well i went to a College instead of my 6th Form but i left soon after when i found out i college that the environment can be pretty cold, in the sense that no one knows you so you will not recieve the help in the areas you need.
So i went back to ... (read in full...)
I'm 17--she's older, she lives overseas, we come from different cultures. Should I ease out of this as I feel my family won't approve!
Q. Ive been talking to this Lady online for quite a while now, I feel I know her pretty well. The problem I have is that I dont feel my family would understand if we started dating due to three factors: Im 16(nearly 17 and Im quite mature) and she's ...
A. 16 April 2007: First you have to remember that the internet is a place where people can pretend to be someone different.
Knowing that since you never put your country of orgin down you may have to think about her taking advantage over you, seeing as your quit... (read in full...)
My brother is protective of me, but I fancy his friend, last time his friendship suffered! What should do ?
Q. I can't get my brothers friend out of my head! wot can i do? my brother is really protective over me, plus i've already been out with one of his friends and it got serious so their friendship suffered and i don't think he would want that to hap...
A. 11 April 2007: Speaking a brother myself. I would ask him first, if you could date his friend. But Like Penta said you will only have one brother and more crushes to come in your lifetime.
To tell the truth i would have a problem if my sister dated one of my fr... (read in full...)
I dreamt I was holding a guy's hand and in bed with him! Am I gay??
Q. I am a 17 year old male, and i was in a great relationship with the one girl i ever loved and then she broke up with me and i felt so alone. then last night i had a dream about a guy that one of my best girlfriends was dating who i dont know much ...
A. 11 April 2007: Its proberly just a dream.
We cant control dreams, so just think of it as nothing.
Im not in a position to say if your straight or not, only you can know. But since you said you loved a girl you proberly might be straight.
Most likely it is... (read in full...)
Is she frigid? Should I dump her?
Q. I've been going out with this girl for about a month now, and all we've done so far is hugging. She talks about kissing and snogging over MSN, but when I'm in front of her she always finds an excuse not to. I don't want to grab her and snog her in ...
A. 11 April 2007: She may talk about it but the real thing is different.
You two are only young, no need to rush anything.
If shes not ready she not. Dont push her or she will dump you.
Just go slow and enjoy the relationship and your youth... (read in full...)
Ive had it confirmed by the doctor I have miscarried! How an earth do I tell my fiance that I've lost our babies!!!
Q. Hi I found out two weeks ago that I was pregnant, then last night I started having cramps and this morning the bleeding started, I went to see my docter and he told me I had had a miscarraige... My question is how do I tell my fiance that I lost our ...
A. 4 April 2007: Im also sorry. But dont say "I've lost the baby" It wasnt your fault. Just sit him down in a alm room and tell him, if your relationship was strong, he wont are as he has you.... (read in full...)
He acts immature around his friends, should I stay with him or break up ?
Q. The man I fell in love with has known me since i was in the second grade. He knows everything about me and he also treats me as if we were still in elementary school. He loves me back(as he says)but I don't know if I should continue dating him if he ...
A. 4 April 2007: Boys will always at like kids, even men. I still at like an child, and Older men i know act like kids so. So dont worry about it 'cus it will go on for a while (40+ years) He will most ikely at serious around you, so dont make to much about it.... (read in full...)
Can a gynecologist tell if you had sex?
Q. Can a gynecologist tell if you had sex ...
A. 2 April 2007: Sometimes
The Hymen an be broken through other ways suh as falling or Horse riding.
But if those fators are taken out and it is broken they might be able to tell you have had sex.
But i do belive even children have Dotor/Pateint privlige.
B... (read in full...)
This is a bit unusual I know, tomorrow is V's day. (I'm the female) but I want to stay in and watch the FA cup replay!!! How do I tell my boyfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, I am in a bit of a pickle here! My partner and I have arranged to go out tomorrow night (we try and go out for a meal at least once or twice a week) - now, unless you live in a cave, you will realise that tomorrow is Valenti...
A. 13 February 2007: First of all Arsenal are rubbish - Go Bolton
Second you could watch Match Of The Day, or if your boyfriend likes football make it his V days present, maybe a special day in?
If not watch MOTD ... (read in full...)
What do I get a 31 year old man for Valentine's Day?
Q. What kind of things would a 31 year old man like for valentines day?? any help would be appreachiated xxx...
A. 30 January 2007: Perhaps a Football Shirt from his favioute Team (Arseanl,Man U etc), Tickets to a game. But this depends on his love for the sport. Maybe a new accesory for wrok (Ties, Tools) Or even his favoured aftershave
Hope It Helps... (read in full...)
Someone in my family is watching animal porn. Is there something wrong with him?
Q. Should I be concerned if someone in my family is watching animal porn? Is there something wrong with him or is there a reason why they like to watch that? It makes me feel sick about it, but i'm not sure what i'm supposed to think about that. ...
A. 4 January 2007: As the two below have said yes it is very wrong and i would consider it to be animal abuse.
Though i wouldnt go as far as reccomending therapy i would reccomend that this person needs to be talked to and talked out of watching anymore beastial... (read in full...)
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