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writes: Should I be concerned if someone in my family is watching animal porn? Is there something wrong with him or is there a reason why they like to watch that? It makes me feel sick about it, but i'm not sure what i'm supposed to think about that.
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reader, jonny five  +, writes (25 May 2010):
when boys are young,(ages13-17), and they start watching porn, they experiment. they will go through phases, where they prefer certain types, (i.e. asian, black, butts, boobs, etc.) so it is probably just experimentation, and nothing to worry about. but dont mention to them that you know, because it will only make them feel weird and awkward.
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reader, celt111  +, writes (11 January 2009):
Well first of all i agree with Farris
sex with animals must be popular if theres websites and videos on it.
And whether your family member likes it or not is his desicion not yours so don't beat yourself up about it love.
I say jsut forget about it ok?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): I guess most of you arn't men or watch alot of porn on the net. so jo il keep this as short as possible. i would say that this family member has proberly not got a girl friend and may struggle with relationships of that nature have you ever asked them or tryed to help them with that? in my experience of porn every man like to watch it most girls to those who can explore there sexual sides are quite healthy people and have nothing wrong with them so dont make it weird for them. whilst its just on the computer i expect its addiction looking for a harder fix each time they go on. the worst thing you can do is to alienate them and make feel even more lonley (like suicide)yes i agree things are proberly not going very well for them. dont make it worse by not understanding.have you ever asked if there lonley? maybe they think something is wrong with them physical and theyv turned to porn as there only souce of intermacy. of couse that would evecherly lead to harder stuff "no companionship no limits"
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reader, fairhalflin  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 i dont think you should tell him anything...
everyone to thenselves...
its creepy, i admit.
and i would stay clear away as possible...
well think about it in this way.
they surely wont be bugging you.
and poor person to who is in fancy with...
((Shivers))
just dont swell on it...
it really isn't a problem you shoudl spark an interest in.
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reader, DeeDoc +, writes (6 January 2007):
 THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Run Forest, run! Steer clear dear. There is a reason why he is watching animals and humans as oppose to humans and humans. I wouldn't hang around to understand why either!
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reader, Farris +, writes (6 January 2007):
 I'm not expressing any like or dislike to these kinds of films, but I think the people that have said that this guy needs therapy are a little out of line.
The fact that these kinds of films exist mean that there must be a much larger amount of people that like these films then we would imagine. After all, they wouldn't make the films if no one would watch them.
Anyway, it might just be curiosity or a joke... But even if it's neither of these things, it's probably best that you keep quiet about this. Some people like vanilla, some people like chocolate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): I think that is just it. That is a scared power and so should be respected. Watching anyone, anything have sex just isn't my cup of hot cocoa.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): haha, I find it pretty unsettling seeing any animals having sex. *closes eyes*
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): Well that would be pretty unsettling if I saw my neighbor having passionate sex with his/her dog. Then again, I found it pretty unsettling to see a dog having sex with a cat as well. 8S
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): It's the pervsion of it or that fact it is taboo...that excites him. More often than not...people wouldn't go out and screw the family dog or what not.
I would find it unsettling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): Well there was this woman in the UK who expressed sexual acts with her horse and was caught and charged with animal abuse. I mean, she must really loved her horse to strip her clothes off and do things to him.
This also reminds of that video of a donkey chasing around a fat dude with his massive schlong hanging loose. They should have cuffed and charged that donkey for trying to have sex with that guy.
What about that dog that humped that poor kid when all he did was trying to get up from falling down playing hockey? I say, we should send that dog to therapy for trying to rape that kid.
[laughs]
Seriously though, as with Sahshii, it's POSSIBLE that s/he wasn't getting off on animal porn and was on his computer as a joke of sorts. Heck, some of my friends occasionally send some rather disturbing things over to as a visual prank of sorts. [sigh]
Aside from that though, like Willy had mentioned, it's pretty much none of your business. They might or might not need therapy. You say it's not normal, but who's to dictate normality? You say s/he needs help and it makes you sick, but who's to say s/he needs help in the first place. You being sick is your problem, not anyone else's. It's like me getting rather sick of narrowminded religious people, but I'm not going to kidnap and throw them into an asylum for the mentally deranged, though that would be an excellent idea... 8]
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reader, willywombat +, writes (4 January 2007):
 How about minding your own business. Sorry to sound harsh, but this is their problem not yours is it not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't know if he's getting off on it but its humans screwing the animals.
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (4 January 2007):
 I was a little unclear on this. Are we talking animals screwing humans? Or your family member getting off on animals screwing within their own species?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): It's one thing to check it out briefly at a party because everybody's curious. But for someone to own one of these videos, I think is a big red flag.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): Actually, animals enjoy having sex with humans. I know this sounds disgusting, but it's usually a fact. They are not being "forced" to do it like rammsteinfan suggests.
It is even said, and documented that dolphins "make love" with humans they are close with.
There was also this strange guy in our town who was caught having his dog anally penetrate him (just off a freeway so plenty of people to watch it happen) - but yes he was charged with animal abuse.
Watching animal porn is pretty disgusting really but I'm sure it doesn't mean he's going to go out raping animals so no need to lock away your pet dogs / cats / hamsters.
Why let it bother you so much, why not donate to an animal charity or advocate world peace to thr world or something. It'll be more constructive than complaining to dearcupid, that's for sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): I agree with the three other posters, bestiality is abusive!
As far as whether or not there's something wrong with the person who's been watching it, that depends on why they're watching it, and to what extent. It could be a case of morbid curiousity or just a sick joke, and thanks the ye olde internets it's very accessible. I wouldn't worry much unless you find more than one or two instances of it. If it's simply a matter of finding this in your cache, I'd let it go. Their intellectual curiousity is not something that you'd want to have this awkward conversation about.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (4 January 2007):
 As the two below have said yes it is very wrong and i would consider it to be animal abuse.
Though i wouldnt go as far as reccomending therapy i would reccomend that this person needs to be talked to and talked out of watching anymore beastiality.
If it is true that they are just curious it should just be a phase and it should pass.
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (4 January 2007):
 Beastiality is not a healthy sexy fantasy and yes it is sick and unnatural.
This person needs councelling and fast. I would go beyond that and recommend that these mental issues are addressed with a qualified therapist.
I hope he gets help and stop encouraging these websites to promote animal abuse.
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (4 January 2007):
 I myself think that it is wrong. I think that it is animal abuse! The animals are being forced to do this! But to the watcher, there is probably nothing wrong with them. Probably watching it out of curiosity! So don't be too upset with them...say a prayer for him.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): Well, I can honestly say that I'm pretty sure it's not technically natural, but most fetishes seem very strange to people who don't share them. As long as it's not doing anyone any harm you don't have a solid reason to confront them about it. Sexual curiosity can take people down all kinds of roads that others might find distasteful, but if it helps, that sort of thing is often just a phase.
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reader, Sahshii +, writes (4 January 2007):
in plenty of cases its a total misunderstanding, maybe this person was not watching it, maybe someone searched it as a joke...
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