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writes:I am currently at Uni. I have a wonderful boyfriend who i love but sometimes i get attracted to other guys and wonder what it would be like with them. It makes me feel awful and my boyfriend has picked up on it. Any advice is welcome. Reply to this Question
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reader, candy00s +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Sounds like something we all do! As long as the only thing you are doing is looking then its not doing any harm. Just try not to check other guys out in front of your boyfriend! As long as you still love your boyfriend im sure you will be able to work through this. Perhaps you have been together for a long time and feel like there is more out there.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (28 May 2007):
 It's only natural for you to feel attracted to other guys, especially now that you're in University where there are so many of them around. You're still very young and you have a lot of living to do before you finally settle down. Your boyfriend has foreseen that when you go to University there will be a lot more talent there to oggle and will feel a bit insecure about it. He also knows that you'll get a lot of attention. You need to decide whether or not your relationship is strong enough to withstand this attention from other guys. The fact you're having thoughts about what it would be like to be with them shows me that there are cracks in your current relationship that you need to work on but only YOU can decide whether or not he's the right one for you.
Eve
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (28 May 2007):
 It sounds complety normal.
Even in the strongest relationships they finds others attractive.
As long as you dont stray theres nothing wrong.
If you are thinking about having relationships with them maybe your insecure in this relationship.
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