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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Right, here's the deal.A taken guy who's been going out with his gf for 8 months has not stopped texting me since we first met.Also, on MSN, he doesn't stop talkin to me.She knows and she's angry.If I have to text him back, it's one word answers, but he doesn't stop.I've told him to back off becoz it's annoyed his gf and it's making her angry with me, though I have not encouraged him, if anything, I've told him to stop.What do I do?
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (16 May 2007):
 You can easily block him on your MSN messenger. As for your phone, most networks allow you to block numbers (I had a stalker problem a few years back and called BT and my mobile provider who sorted it out). In fact, annoying messages and phone calls are considered harrassment under UK law and in extreme cases your phone provider can send an explanatory letter to him stating that his actions are illegal. You should not respond at all to any of his communication - it feeds his need for attention and leads to a misbelief that he may stand a chance with you.
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (16 May 2007):
 I agree with the rest. Block him on msn and just ignore his txts or, if possible, go to the phone shop or call your operator and get his number blocked.
If you ignore his texts he'll get bored after a week or so and begin something new.
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reader, love-him +, writes (15 May 2007):
 chick change ur num if poss, if not, ignore the call or text, delete it without even readiin it, and on sum networks u can block a specific number... and also msn...block and delete...that will stop him... if his gf troubles u, explain calmly u try to tel him to bak off n he wont, and say ur just as angry as she is because u dont like him and he wont levae u alone hope i helped, x x x
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (15 May 2007):
 Well firstly explain to situation to his girlfriend, this may fix the situation but if it doesnt to fix the MSN problem just block him and he wont be able to talk to you anymore.
If he continues to text you just dont respond to his texts anymore he may get the message if not you may have to change your number and only give it to select friends.
Hope it helps
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