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writes:Is it wrong at the age of 22 to have the desire to have a baby and get married? I'm not with anyone at the moment, and I know that I need to get a better job and a house, but the feeling has been overwhelming me lately, and I don't know if I'm wrong for it.Thanks,DV1 Reply to this Question
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reader, DV1 +, writes (29 May 2007):
DV1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I would move on searching. Having a baby is everything to me. Part of being with someone's partner is knowing that a future exists with them, whether close, or a long distance away. I'm with a woman that never wants a baby, I couldn't in my right mind stay with her. It wouldn't stop me from loving her, but I would have to end it. It would hurt, but I want to have a family and get married. I don't want to refer to someone as my girlfriend when I turn 50...
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Question.
What if you do find the woman of your dreams; she has everything you look for in a woman APART from wanting children, what choices will you make then?
i only ask this because it isnt always easy finding the things we want in life and sometimes fate/destiny whatever you may want to call it has a way of throwing a spanner in the works.
Im not knocking your enthusaium for your commitment to bringing a life into this world but you need to consider all avenues and what you might do when you get there. Do you reconsider your needs for the love of your life? Or do you move on searching?
I do hope you get what you want from your future and going back to school is a commendbale thing to do to achive your personal goals but just be aware that we dont always get what we want all the time and sometimes have to make hard sacrifices for the things we love.
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reader, candy00s +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Course you arent too young to be thinking this way. Its a shame there arent more guys out there who are mature enough to think like you do. You are still young and have plenty of time, meet the right girl and fall in love.You are normal! :D
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Oh my God, I'm such an idiot. I swear, I can read... I just missed that vital part of information.
Sorry. But my advice is still the same. It's normal to want the marriage and babies - even if you are a guy. It's great that you're going back to school, congratulations! I think you'll make a great daddy. For now, while you're waiting for that special girl to come along, build up more and more life experiences so that you'll be able to tell Little DV1 all about your exciting life. With time comes wisdom.
Anyhow, so yes. Do the school thing and I think that going back to school is a great way to meet eligible ladies!
Sorry for not reading more carefully. Gah!! Anyhow, DV1... judging from the great advice you give to oters, I know you'll make a fabulous father and husband when the time comes.
xxIndia
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reader, DV1 +, writes (28 May 2007):
DV1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIndia, I'm actually a guy looking for a girl... I'm trying to get back in school, so I can get paid better money to do what I like. I really want to find that special girl to fall in love with. I want a baby so bad that I'm aching inside, because I've got a lot of love to give to it, and a lot of lessons to teach it... I want the corny romance movie...
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (28 May 2007):
He sweetness,
It's totally normal to start to have these urges. As long as you keep a responsible head on your shoulders, and make sure that you figure out your finances, career choices, etc., you should be alright. You are perfectly, PERFECTLY normal.
Good luck in finding a guy to share your dream with. He's out there somewhere!!
xxIndia
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reader, soliderswife06 +, writes (28 May 2007):
its not wrong im 20 and im married and i want a baby so bad the only reason i havent got pregnant yet is cause my husband is deployed so you know we cant you are at that age alot of women want to get married and have a baby around our age you just have to wait til you find that someone special and you will just dont look for it itll come to you when its time for you dont worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2007): no it isn't sweetheart. i too ..myself have had these thoughts and i am only 21. it's just the fact of finding that someone whom i'd like to spend the rest of my life with. no worries, i am sure you're not the only one with these desires at the age of 22 : )
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reader, batman +, writes (28 May 2007):
 its not wrong to want to get married or have a baby im mean ur an adult age 22 but i think u might need to find some 1 u really want to spend the rest of ur life with
hope this helped
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Nah it never is too young to think that.
I know for a fact some people younger than you do, the difference is that your much older and much more mature from what ive seen.
All you need is that special someone, because age wise your old nough and so are you maturitywise so i see no obsticals other than the ones you stated
Good Luck In The Futre.
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