Like what
he writes?
... Add *onty to your favourite agony aunts
Want to get in touch?
... Send *onty a private message | | | *onty's profile:24 year old male working as a Quantity Surveyor in North West England. Came to the site for help on my own relationship and like the idea of being able to help people with their problems whilst also getting advice on mine.
Love all sports; football, golf, pool, swimming, etc.
Hate chavs, extremist religious people and carrots. |
|
The Last Laugh... Is it really on me? ;)
Q. Hi, it's Andy00. I just thought I would share something with all of you. As you all know, I went through a horrible case of heartbreak 10 months ago, after my distance relationship was cut off by the girl I love (it still hurts to this day). But h...
A. 2 July 2008: Andy its been a while mate, been off this site for ages! Your you tube link is well top, really enjoyed that, in fact its very true of my relationship at present! Take it easy fella and keep it up with the music!!... (read in full...)
My pregnant fiance says she doesn't know if she loves me anymore! How can I sort this out without pushing us further apart???
Q. my girlfriend is hving my baby, she is 12wks along. We had numerous conversations about starting a family, getting married etc before we got pregnant. We went and looked at rings, tux's etc. We do not live together. Since becoming pregnant she has ...
A. 29 June 2008: Mate, I am going through exactly the same thing here in England, we were together 4 years and when she fell pregnant she doesnt want to know me. I am having to speak to her mum to keep me updated on where she is up to on the pregnancy!
Its s... (read in full...)
Why do I keep having these fantasies about having sex with a DOG?
Q. Hello everyone. I am 19 a 19 year old college girl. I have a pretty good sex life, but lately I have found myself masturbating more and fantasizing about k9. I swear to you I have never done it and have not even touched a dog down there, I don't ...
A. 10 September 2007: You are at that weird age where hormones are running wild and who knows what effects it has on the brain. It's not something I havent heard before so dont panic. Leave it as a fantasy and it will fizzle out.
Enjoy it as a fantasy if it turns yo... (read in full...)
Why do men look at other women?
Q. Why do married men--or any man for that matter--stare at other women when they want to be with you and they love you and all that stuff? Men are so confusing sometimes I'm surprised I have nerves left....
A. 25 July 2007: Great answer from miss attitude, if you've got a perfectly good bike, you dont need a new one! Tell your bloke to stop being greedy, he should be happy with you, and dont live your life feeling inadequate! Give him a talking to! ... (read in full...)
I can't decide if I want to be with him, or be single
Q. I have posted a problem on this page once before and last time it proved quite helpful so I thought I'd try again. Last time I wrote that I hated cheaters but I turned into one and was debating whether to tell my boyfriend. I decided i would. ...
A. 25 July 2007: You are only young and it is understandable that you both want to experience other people, as setlling down at that age can be tough, seeming dauting. You seem to be a mirror image of one of my relationships, we had both cheated on each other an... (read in full...)
Do people just come out with spontaneous compliments sometimes?
Q. Hi all, this is just something that bothered me while my girlfriend and I were together, and kind of still does. (Very quickly: We were together for 2 years, separated by 200+ miles, broke up 3 weeks ago) Anyway, we'd be on the phone sometimes,...
A. 19 July 2007: Eyes wide open has said it all there Andy. P.S. Check your mail I have sent you another war and peace essay. lol!... (read in full...)
How do I adjust from being a boyfriend to being a friend?
Q. Hey all, yes, by Christ it's me again. As a lot of you know, this is my situation: 2 years relationship Coped with distance of 200+ miles Ended just over 3 weeks ago, suddenly. There's been some development over the past couple of days. We...
A. 18 July 2007: Andy I have only just realsied this is your question, check your mailbox next time your logged in, I sent you a reply before I read this. It mentions that I never really got the just friends business, because i would find it complete agony t... (read in full...)
He doesn't show me his love the way I need him to show me! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 4 about 2 1/2 years. Im very in love with him but he doesnt take me or the relationship seriously.He doesnt pay enough attention to my needs and I have emotional needs.I know he loves me but he doesnt show me ...
A. 16 July 2007: Great answer from 'Been there done it' (great name too). Most people after a while take things for granted, e.g. people are so touchy feely when they first go out, but after about 6 months this stops, because we take for granted the person is go... (read in full...)
What's wrong with us fat girls?
Q. Whats wrong with fat gals? Im a fat gal. I take good care of myself. Better than a lot of skinny gals. Why dont i get noticed? My best friend is skinny and she smells ,always have dog hair all over her cloths ,her handr are dirty ,whx do guys like ...
A. 16 July 2007: I dont think it has anything to do with your size. From what you have posted you are slagging your best friend off over the internet, saying she smells and is dirty! A much nicer person would approach their friend about this and not to the whole ... (read in full...)
I kissed my boyfriends coworker
Q. I kissed my boyfriends work friend. The girl he was out with was upset he offered to walk me to the car although i dont know if she actually saw the kiss. me and my partner go out with these people regularly and i cant guarantee he wont be told...
A. 16 July 2007: You could take a gamble and not tell him and hope he never finds out, but this is very risky, because if he does find out, the liklihood of him wanting to still be with you is very slim. But it could work.
You know him better than all of us, is h... (read in full...)
Having a real bad year and not getting anywhere.
Q. Having a real bad year and not getting anywhere! Here's the issue, Home Foreclosured, Stop it with Chap 13 paying court costs thru paychek and wondering if I just sign my vehicle to a relative once the Chap 13 doesn't go through and turn to Chap 7 w...
A. 16 July 2007: It's hard to make sense of your question, and probably the reason as to why you havent had any answers back. Can you explain in a more thorough way, this will give us all a better chance of helping you.... (read in full...)
Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl?
Q. I need a lot of people's opinions on this subject so if you could give me your perspective it would be great. Ok...Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl? I mean if the girl is hitting him on his head because she is so mad at ...
A. 15 July 2007: No walk away, a real man would never hit a girl. I have been hit by a girl and I walked away from the situation. ... (read in full...)
I was wondering if any men (or women!) that have gone down on a girl... well what does it taste like???
Q. This is going to sound strange. My boyfriend went down on me for the first time last night. It was amazing but I couldn't relax! I mean I can't see how he was enjoying it??? Basically I got a bit curious and thought I'd taste... and... :S I thou...
A. 15 July 2007: I have had mates experience this, where it tastes like copper, or like old pennies. I personally have not had this problem as it has never tasted too bad.
Try cleaning with a strong strawberry shower gel before hand, giving it a better taste.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of four years said we needed to go on a break around two months ago, but now she's talking as if we are seperated.
Q. Hey, My girlfriend of four years said we needed to go on a break around two months ago, but now she's talking as if we are seperated. Also, we had booked a trip away together before the 'break' which we decided to still go on. On the trip, she ...
A. 15 July 2007: I have been in your situation twice now and there is not much you can do. I don't know what it is but when you go out with a girl for that period of time, at around 21, they start to change and want to be free to see other blokes. I bet you havent ... (read in full...)
It would be great if anyone could give me advice on possible dates to keep things interactive and interesting.
Q. Hi guys, I’m a bit rusty on the dating scene, as I've not had a proper girlfriend for such a long time now, just over 5 years now! I’m 29, and have recently been on one date with this girl who is quite a bit younger than me, only 21. She replied to ...
A. 15 July 2007: I have had two long lasting relationships with girls that age, so hopefully I may be able to help.
Firstly to ensure you are not in the girl's face from the off, I would recommend you see her once a week. This will give excitement through ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell us how to make me have an orgasm?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been intimate for 11 months now and i have not yet received the pleasure of having a orgasm. We have tried many different things and yet it has not happened. We were wondering if anyone could give us any suggestions on a...
A. 15 July 2007: Have you tried sex toys? A rampant rabbit would give you an orgasm and then he could penertrate you to recieve his.
If you are not keen on this idea, try going on top, a lot of women can only orgasm in this position.
... (read in full...)
I wake up in the morning feeling miserable
Q. Please help me everyone. I'm so upset. Since mine and my girlfriends break up almost 3 weeks ago, I find that I'm waking up in the morning miserable, and I don't know how to help it. This is starting to seem like depression, but I don't wan...
A. 15 July 2007: I feel for you mate, we have all been there and it hurts so bad. But it just takes time for you to get over it and you will eventually meet somebody else who you can have a long lasting relationship with, who loves you just as much as you love ... (read in full...)
Did she end our relationship to date someone else? Any advice?
Q. I am a 24 year old male and have been dating a 21 year old girl for 3 and a half years before she decided to split up with me. The reason being she said I had made no commitment to her in all this time. I tried to explian I am one year off becoming ...
A. 15 July 2007: Thanks for your advice. My girlfriend knew the commitment agreement years ago, which is why it makes no sense. I have taken it as she no longer has feelings for me and will move on.
In a years time I will be a qualified Quantity Surveyor... (read in full...)
Why do men during sex sometimes cum fast and sometimes hold off longer?
Q. Why do men during sex sometimes cum fast and sometimes hold off longer?...
A. 15 July 2007: Like flower girl says it will depend on how turned on we are, but also if we have had any alcohol, if we are tired and how long it has been since we last ejaculated will all contribute to how long it takes.
Cuming fast can usually be down to not h... (read in full...)
Should I enjoy the time I have with him and forget the other lad or shall I spend a much more stable and long lasting relationship with the other??
Q. Well... I'm new to this, I'm an average girl really and not really the type of girl to be constantly bombarded by boys like my incredibly beautiful sister. Well anyway... for once in my life I have got people intrested in me however I'm starting to ...
A. 14 July 2007: Hey, im new to this too, but I'll try my best. My advice would be to stick with your friend and do not go for the lad you are 'loved up' with.
Because this lad is going to uni in 10 weeks, if you did get into a relationship with him you will be ... (read in full...)
| *onty's friends
These are mutual friends, so *onty has
added them and they have added *onty!
|
