He now lasts an hour and a half and I can't help him that long! Is this normal?
Q. I wondering if this was normal or not. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now. Before that he was single for 7 months. When we first started dating we fooled around every night for about a month and a half. At the beginning he woul...
A. 18 March 2015: Its got nothing to do with porn... once your having regular sex there are certain moves that get you off and they can loose there appeal after awhile. Keep trying new things to keep it fresh and also if there is a favourite position finish him off ... (read in full...)
New to oral -- would he have been put off?
Q. {Two questions combined} this is really embrassing but yesterday i had a boy go down on me for the first time. he wanted to do it and i didnt ask but i was so worried that i would smell as we were at a festival and that my downstairs was really u...
A. 15 August 2013: Don't worry your down stairs will be beautiful and your boyfriend will love it... Nicely trimmed hair is my favorite but really when your turned on it's not going to matter.... (read in full...)
Does he not want a future with me?
Q. Hi everyone, I just want an interpreation to a line my boyfriend said when drunk,although I know I shouldn't be paying much attention to it but still! So I'v been dating this gorgeous man for 3 years now and we went to an engagement party...
A. 29 April 2013: This is a tough question but you need to get his view out when he is not drunk.... it could be a thing that he himself doesnt want to face, but for the sake of your relationship I think you need to have an adult conversation and raise the topic when ... (read in full...)
I'm experiencing weird feelings towards a male married coworker! What does this mean and what do I do?
Q. This is going to sound bad probably but I need advice or someone's thoughts. I am married, I've been with my husband for a few years. We have had ups and downs like all marriages, though sometimes I wonder if we are suited to be together forever, we ...
A. 29 March 2013: Hi - the burst of romantic feeling you are experiencing is the heady stimulant drugs your body produces when its in the first stages of meeting someone new.... read any book on courtship stages and it outlines exactly the dopamine and other drugs ... (read in full...)
My wife suddenly announced that she doesn't love me and wants a divorce! How can I get over the heartbreak?
Q. I have been with my wife for 11 years and married for 6. We have 3 children together! A week ago she said that she has no feelings for me in fact she hates me, and she has not loved me for the last 5 years! She wants a divorce! I have always stayed ...
A. 26 March 2013: Hi - I have seen this happen to a guy with his wife before and its actually because she was having an affair and had discovered that she really didnt love or respect her husband anymore. The more you hear the more you understand that stories suc... (read in full...)
Is there any hope for a man who is sexually "broken"?
Q. Ok. Here it goes. I'm 30 and have never been in any sort of relationship with a woman. I keep to myself mostly and don't really enjoy going out and doing much of anything. I've been feeling very lonely lately and it's been getting worse. It's ...
A. 10 March 2013: Hi - you're not broken... most guys know how to make themselves come very quickly through masturbation... you know exactly the right moves to make it feel best for you - when you're with a woman she will do things that are different and feel diff... (read in full...)
Is this a normal amount of communication for a busy guy in the early stages of dating?
Q. I've just started dating a lovely guy but I'm really not used to dating so would like some advice! He's a few years older than me, got a really good job which I know comes with long hours and a very big workload so I know he's obviously busy a l...
A. 9 March 2013: Hi - I think your over thinking big time... and of course this is 100% normal is the first exciting part of the relationship. texts in my opinion are such a problem because everyone expects an instant answer and for variety of reasons people cant or ... (read in full...)
The 4.5 year boring boyfriend or the exciting new guy
Q. Hello, (Sorry, this is a long one, but I feel that each factor is important) I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. We are currently in our 3rd year of university. Anyways, last Summer I spent 3 months of it in my home ...
A. 28 February 2013: Hi - I think you have done a good job of thinking things through with this email - reading it I think you know that your current relationship is over and you are already trying to move on. I suggest that while it will be hard sorting out the ... (read in full...)
Frustrated that online guys only want sex.
Q. I am extremely frustrated in my dating life! I seem to be attracting guys who are just interested in me for sex. I am not sure what it is, it could possibly just be my ethnicity. I do not dress scantily, or act flirtatiously or inappropriately. When ...
A. 17 February 2013: Hi Guys in their twenties want to have sex with no committments and then in their thirties are settling down and having families. In late thirties, men who are single have either been single their entire lives and perhaps just do not know how to ... (read in full...)
He was maintaining a relationship with his ex-girlfriend on and off even while we were a couple. Do I confront him or forget him?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I post this because I seek your advice on what I should do. Perhaps this posting is a little unnecessary, because in my mind, I think I already know the answer. I met my boyfriend of one and a half years at work in New Zealan...
A. 10 February 2013: Hi - I think you know the answer already and when it is making you exhausted constantly thinking about it and trying to make it happen it is not good for your health both physical and mental. The truth is this man will never be with you, he's a... (read in full...)
I want him to enjoy oral sex, like he did in the beginning!
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I was a virgin when I met him. We didn't have sex until 9 months into our relationship. But before I lost my virginity to him, we would have oral sex and he would sometimes spend 45 minutes going ...
A. 16 January 2013: As a man, I love giving oral sex to my girl friend - I sometimes treat her to a long slow build up to the actual oral sex for her and then we cuddle and go to sleep, I dont initiate my own orgasm - I know that there will be times were its all about ... (read in full...)
Things aren't going too well in my life. How do I pick myself back up?
Q. I recently finished my degree, more or less, and am now trying to find work in the same city. I was paid for the last year of my degree (it was full time research) and opted not to stay on at the same place as the question was raised when I hated ...
A. 11 December 2012: Hey there - it sounds to me like your going through a period of readjustment after finishing your education - for people who are driven and determined to finish things once they have done so, there is often a feeling of being let down and confused ... (read in full...)
I thought a couple of hours in a hotel would be ok, he wants more. Am I wrong for feeling silly?
Q. Iv been seeing this man for a while now it's become sexual,but because we are both divorced with young children we dont have sex in our houses because we are not comfortable with that just yet.Anyway I suggested to my boyfriend that we should book ...
A. 9 December 2012: I think he feels like he really likes you and having sex in a room for a couple of hours makes it seem like a meaningless casual encounter and not a wonderful first time between you both. to me it would feel like Im hiring a prostitute for an hour ... (read in full...)
Is running out of things to say normal in a long distance relationship?
Q. I'm away in a different country for 3 months (my bf and i have been together for 2 years). We talked about how important communication is, so we are writing each other messages almost every day. However when we can skype (once a week) then it seems ...
A. 6 December 2012: Fantastic! Great to hear that things are ok at the moment. Ive only got one week to go them home!!
YAY!... (read in full...)
Is running out of things to say normal in a long distance relationship?
Q. I'm away in a different country for 3 months (my bf and i have been together for 2 years). We talked about how important communication is, so we are writing each other messages almost every day. However when we can skype (once a week) then it seems ...
A. 2 December 2012: Hi, Im in the same situation as you, Ive been away 2 months and will be coming home in two weeks, thank goodness!! My partner and I talk frequently and yes you end up basically talking about news... what I have done etc. What you are experiencing... (read in full...)
I fell for him and my heart is broken
Q. Hi aunts and uncles. I am suffering extreme heartache and I would like to know how to get over it or reduce the pain. I'm waking up at 6am crying as reality hits that he doesn't want me and has left me and for someone else. It's going to sou...
A. 25 November 2012: Hi - I went through exactly what you have gone through... falling madly head over heeling in love at the age of 38 - and it was the same for both of us in the beginning. Then she realised that other factors meant more to her than me and she ended ... (read in full...)
How can we get our sex back on track so we're both climaxing?
Q. I'm a bit sexually frustrated. My husband doesn't last a long time in bed these days. When we used to have sex more frequently, it was rarely an occurrence, but now, he might last a minute or two, not enough time for me to climax. He's not into the ...
A. 7 November 2012: Hi - viagra is a drug which targets the blood vessels in the penis helping them to dilate and increase blood flow, so the penis becomes filled with blood. It allows the man to have an erection easier and for longer... but it does not man lasts any ... (read in full...)
Husband made weird comment about 2 co-workers who have cheated. They are going on a business trip together. Should I worry?
Q. I need some advice on why my husband with say some things he said before leaving for a busines trip. He has a job that requires him to travel from time to time. He woke up this morning and was reading some work emails and he said he hated the idea...
A. 3 November 2012: I think that your husband is definately worried about his own reaction should one of them come on strong to him - could he resist the temptation to have sex with these co workers. What do you think his morals are like? You married him and can judge ... (read in full...)
He's a great guy. But I don't want a relationship now. How to handle my confusion?
Q. He is truly amazing, he is everything I every wanted in a man, except for a few things, one is his and my children don't get along very well so every other weekend is super stressful for me. Finances are super tight so he can't contibute as much as I...
A. 12 May 2012: I've been in this situation and its super hard on the man - but at the end of the day you need to do whats right for you and your kids. This will hurt both of you - no doubt about that but its better than leading him on further and further and not ... (read in full...)
No sex drive since the baby arrived -- should I tell him to get his needs met elsewhere?
Q. Ok so I had a little baby girl about 9 months ago. And since then Ive had about zero sex drive. I get horny occasionally but im just not in the mood. This has put a serious strain on my relationship with my fiance. I know he has liked our mutual ...
A. 7 May 2012: Hi - You know this is a bad idea and saying you love him so much your willing to let him go else where is not really how you feel - its avoidance - you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel.
And also I can think of heaps of ways of makin... (read in full...)
I have let a 19 year old chat me up, and now I'm wondering, what's the harm?
Q. Been a silly girl I know. But have let a 19 yr old chat me up, he's obviously only after one thing, trouble is, I am 40. We're both single. But... Anyway, I have been single 4 yrs now, and working non stop, I keep thinking so what! Bit of fun? All...
A. 4 May 2012: Im thinking its a good thing - as long as you use protection and just have a light hearted approach to it. he will most likely not be your boyfriend and one other thing what ever you do dont let your boy catch you at it with this guy - then this fun ... (read in full...)
She said I was her best boyfriend and then broke it off with me!
Q. I had been dating this girl for about two months. one day she told me that I'm the most amazing guy she had ever met. She said i'm exactly the kind of guy that she wants to marry and have kids with. Then she told me that she has no feelings for me ...
A. 2 May 2012: Hi - unfortunately people say and do things without really meaning them - it could have been something she has said to every man she's met as a way of making them feel good about themselves - its obvious she didnt really mean it so time to move ... (read in full...)
I'm falling for my ex again, but she's not giving me any assurances
Q. Hey everyone, My problem is getting back with an ex. We broke up about 2 months ago, after a nearly all that time waiting for her I started to move on but then she suddenly wanted me back. I happily said yes as we never broke up for any decent r...
A. 27 April 2012: I'm thinking that you should try just relaxing and going with the flow aas well - that may include doing things without her, meeting new people even dating.... if shes not willing to committ then dont waste your time - she's likely never to be very ... (read in full...)
He's stopped going down on me! What can I do?
Q. Hey there! I've been with my fiancé for a year now and we will get married in the Fall. I love him deeply and so does he. One little thing is bothering me though... at the beginning of our relationship he went down on me a lot and then he stopped. ...
A. 20 April 2012: For me - if there is something you dont liike doing in a relationship but you love the person, you communicate openly but STILL do it because its a way of showing love. giving without the need for getting something in return is the core of a loving ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend shouts he loves me during sex, what does this mean? And what is the difference between making love and sex?
Q. Hi All, I would like some opinions please!! the last two times me and my BF have had sex, it seems different somehow. He kept telling me he loved me when we were doing it. When a guy says this during sex, does it mean he loves you , or loves th...
A. 27 March 2012: What I meant was that as a young man, I had a very romantised view of love and was fearful of using the word during relationships because perhaps it lead to marriage kids etc when I wasnt ready to. So it only came out after six months and at special ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my depressed brother. What should I do?
Q. My brother is 19 and dropped out of his coarse. He has been looking for work, but in this economy it isn't easy. He isn't sure what he wants to do. Also his best friend committed suicide recently. It was a shock to everyone, including him. My broth...
A. 27 March 2012: Hi - you need to act on this quickly - he sounds very vunlerable at the moment and he needs help for the depression.
Take him to a doctor so that he can get some medication for the depression. The doctor will be able to recommend the next ste... (read in full...)
Boyfriend shouts he loves me during sex, what does this mean? And what is the difference between making love and sex?
Q. Hi All, I would like some opinions please!! the last two times me and my BF have had sex, it seems different somehow. He kept telling me he loved me when we were doing it. When a guy says this during sex, does it mean he loves you , or loves th...
A. 27 March 2012: Hi - if a guy says he loves you during sex it may mean he loves you all the time and the intimacy of the moment during sex allows him to express his love for you.
I would say if the man did not love you, but enjoyed the sex he would say somethin... (read in full...)
Was she interested or is she just flirty with all guys?
Q. Hi, you can call me M I'm an 18 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend. I don't count myself as very good looking, I'm short and overweight, and this makes me very shy and nervous when talking to girls. One night I was in a club with my fri...
A. 22 March 2012: Hi,
You have her number right? So why dont you call her and ask her for a coffee or some non threatening small thing... not a date but just a chat - or even just tell her you had a good time when you went out and what is she doing this weekend.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend can't orgasm during sex?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together nearly 5 months, and we had sex for the first time about a month ago. Since then, we've had sex around 10 times but for some reason he can never orgasm, even after we've been doing it for 1 hour. He can orgasm ...
A. 15 March 2012: Hi - I wouldnt worry too much, it sounds like you have found ways for him to achieve orgasm. there could be a number of reasons why he wont come with penetration alone.
The angles required between you, the position of your bones, how wet you are ... (read in full...)
In a breakup why do people take the cheaters side?
Q. I was watching George Clooney's The Descendants the other day. The movie is about a character that doesn't know his wife was cheating on him. Everyone knew and didn't tell him. He never treated the wife bad or cheated on her. She screwed him over ...
A. 12 March 2012: I agree with the other aunts on this one most people who cheat are not the side people go with unless 1. the partner is controlling, abusive or lazy and non loving. then people make excuses like well they werent good for them and the cheater will... (read in full...)
I know I love my boyfriend more than he loves me!
Q. I need some help guys. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. I love him to death. But I'm pretty darn sure that I love him more than he loves me. He tells me he loves me, and I believe him. But it's not the SAME. I know ...
A. 25 February 2012: I've been were you are at.... your totally in love with him and its so unfair that its not equal.
I used to have this fairy tale that love will always be enough between two people, but life's not like that.
I really wish and hope you can fin... (read in full...)
How do I let him go, when I'm not even sure that I can?
Q. Hello again aunts and uncles. Title speaks for itself really! How do you let someone go from your life, when you genuinely don't think you can do it?? I know what people will say as i have commented on many posts just like this, "keep yourself b...
A. 12 February 2012: I posted a similar question not long ago and the answers I got did help. At the end of the day, things will get better, but its been nine months and I still think about my ex alot - too much probably.... and I'm dating lots of different people... ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my mom's ex boyfriend from 23 years ago!
Q. I really need advice,I recently found my moms x from 23yrs ago when I was little he took such good care of me,then a few yrs ltr they went seperate ways,we tried to stay in contact,but failed,now after 20 yrs we are re-united,I have been really ...
A. 2 February 2012: Hi - I feel this is wrong and you shouldnt pursue this. You're attaching sexual thoughts to a relationship that was a father - daughter relationship back in time.
I know people have done similar things, but I just dont think they ever work out... (read in full...)
No matter how much I ignore him I cant get over him! Help!
Q. I'm still in love with my ex who dumped me 3 months ago. I have to see him every day, and I cannot seem to get over him. He turned his emotions off like a switch and just wanted to be friends. I said no, I needed time to not talk. And we havn't ...
A. 25 November 2011: hi - I've been where you are and yes it is such a rough place to be.
Its been 7 months now since I split with a woman I know is a fabulous person. its true time does make it slowly better, but still you always feel something when you see your ex.... (read in full...)
She said to me during sex "would you just finish" after only 10 minutes! I always thought lasting longer was better....
Q. hi their. I have confidance issues when it comes to how long i last during sex. I always please my partner though oral and hands before sex as she doesnt orgasm through intercourse. Once she had cum we moved on to the sex. I was prolonging cumming ...
A. 16 November 2011: hi - I think with the range of answers seen here there is no tried and true method for this. Talking to her is fine and you never be afraid to do that, but I also think sometimes you should look after yourself. Because your being very generous with ... (read in full...)
Concerned my boyfriend's cross-dressing fetish will take over our relationship
Q. My boyfriend recently confided in me that he has tried dressing in women's clothes. I admit that I had already guessed when I found oversized women's shoes in his cupboard, along with makeup and a few items of clothing. I told myself they belonged...
A. 11 November 2011: ok... to be fair I was like your boyfriend - I enjoyed cross dressing and wearing high heels and things. I do it because its sexy and forbidden and to a certain extent makes me feel feminine - I guess I have a large feminine side. I dont like guys, ... (read in full...)
My ex is driving me crazy! I hate having so much hate inside me, please help
Q. ok, i have written about this a number of times. but its just driving me crazy. we've been broken up for 5 months now. we are at the same university and stay at the same campus and go to the same church. i have tried forgetting him and moving o...
A. 11 November 2011: Hi - youre feeling confused which is understandable, but you are moving on alot already. you have to accept that there will always be feelings for this guy in your heart, good feelings that you should hold on to, but not act on. He sounds like... (read in full...)
Is it normal to still be a virgin at 22?
Q. Um ... I am writing this because I am not sure if it's normal. I am a young female (22 years old), kind of tall, OK-looking .. and I've never been asked out. Like .. ever. I was recently having a casual conversation w/ some of my peers...
A. 5 October 2011: Hi there, I was a virgin until I was 23 and thought the same as you, but I was just shy. It will happen for you, I started working and moved out of home after university and suddenly you have money and you go out more and then someone nice moved in ... (read in full...)
True or False: Men always think the grass may be greener with someone else?
Q. This is a question for men to answer true or false. If you're female, do not answer. This is an unanswerable question by a woman. Here is the back story, or skip to the bottom for the question. Last night while watching t.v. a character we both...
A. 14 September 2011: option A...... (read in full...)
How long should it take for someone to introduce you to their kids?
Q. Hi All, I have been dating a guy for six months, He is separated with three kids under 13. He has not introduced me to them yet.Is that normal? He sees them regularly. Thanks. :o)...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi - its a case by case thing and also how comfortable each person is with the idea of meeting the others kids.
Meeting the kids is a huge step for some people while others thinks its natural and not an issue.
I agree with the others, if the m... (read in full...)
True or False: Men always think the grass may be greener with someone else?
Q. This is a question for men to answer true or false. If you're female, do not answer. This is an unanswerable question by a woman. Here is the back story, or skip to the bottom for the question. Last night while watching t.v. a character we both...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi
I can honestly say that you dont fantasis about other woman sexually unless you have had heaps to drink then you may think about it a little.
BUT - a man in love will remain faithful 99.999% of the time even if a woman throws herself a... (read in full...)
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