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writes:I am lonely, only just married. I got married only eight days ago, and I am already feeling I made a mistake. He is very neglectful of me emotionally and sexually. I am a very attractive woman. I am a very sweet, kind woman. We have been living together for a year and a half. I thought marriage would be good, but all I can think is how I'm stuck with this neglect for life. He works opposite my schedule, so we barely see each other, and he picks up overtime when he doesn't need to. He is always criticizing me and everything I do. When I get hurt, he thinks I'm too sensitive. He is never sorry. We got married at the courthouse because he thought a wedding was a waste of money. He didn't propose, just handed me the ring. I haven't got a wedding ring yet, just the engagement ring still.
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 Do you love him?
If you do" wedding ring or engagement ring is not the matter of all.. Church wedding can plan later too. Saving money, maybe he is thinking for future.. The thing is, if you are not sure anymore about this marriage then better think of divorce now before its getting more hard between two of you.
But think also" MAYBE" you two are been together already for a year but just got married 8 days ago. Don't you think that maybe its part of a bit adjustment, being now a married person! Every couple just got married is having this adjustment. As a single person we still have freedom to do everything we want, free thinking etc. But when we get married, everything needs changes. As a woman, we are now suppose to be responsible specially at home. Take time, relax, give your self also a time to relax and think. Think it hard because maybe if you divorce him then you feel sorry again to your self. So think it over ok.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 In some places you have something like 30 days to annul a marriage without going through the hassle of divorce.
If you are thinking of bailing out, it may be opportune to do so sooner rather than later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): I have to ask why did you think marriage would be good? You know what is like to live with this man, agreeing to marry him is telling him you are happy with the way things are.
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