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41-50,
*elplessly devoted
writes:good day everybody... i have a very big problem pertaining to my and husband's situation. my husband's ex is leaving him and found another boyfriend. they have a common properties like the flat which me and my husband are living right now. i am working overseas before he meet me and after that we decide to get married and go with him in his country. as of the presstime, i have no work hence i am now pregnant and just staying at his and his ex girlfriend's home. we have plan of meeting his ex as they have a good friendship but at first his ex gf decline since she is in a hurry and wanted to meet me next time, i feel so upset then. tomorrow his ex is coming to our home and it is our first meeting. i wanted to escape but i have nothing to go. i feel so upset and discourage with my situation right now, even though my husband loves and cares me a lot. it is just disgusting that his ex girlfriend intervenes with the scene. on the other hand, i trust my husband but i dont have trust on his ex since she wanted to win him back. with this please help me and kindly share with your advice and opinion of what shall i do...
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reader, Helplessly devoted +, writes (7 July 2011):
Helplessly devoted is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you every body. Though i surpass the confusion that bothers with me before, pertaining to this situaion, for almost a year i am annoyed and still bothers the situation hence his ex continually visits at our home and ask things such as cleaning items, plants, chair, pillow,etc. I respectfully and politely told her that she can buy what she wants at any store. She is no clear with what she wanted and one day she told us that she now free and just broke up relationship with her boyfriend after helping her painting the other house. She don't want the other house because its too expensive and new. We already consult this things to the lawyer and the lawyer told that the remedies is to sold the two houses and divide the gains proportion to the contribution and the good thing is both houses my husband contribute almost 80 percent and in the end she has nothing to do but to cry...
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reader, katieleeds  +, writes (16 July 2010):
Why do you have to meet her, I would refuse, he's with you now so its not necessary to meet her, even though they are still "friends". If he is so insistant on you "meeting" her, why not meet at a cafe or pub rather than at your home ?
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (16 July 2010):
 nothing to worry at all. i once one time in this position. that time im not married yet. my husband ex is already married to another man but she still had a feeling to my husband. i meet her, we are 3. me, her and my husband. i did nothing. i just respect the fact that they have past before and they have one son. inside of me i feel not really good, but i never show it. i tried to be civil and just being me. i tried to show that im ok no matter what. a month after that meeting my husband ask me to marry him. now we are ok and his ex never bother us. actually she become nice to me and i have peace of mind. so i told to my self, i did well..... you can do it too....
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reader, Miamine +, writes (16 July 2010):
 She has another boyfriend, your living in her house. They are friends, she dosen't want him, try to be nice and friendly and your husband will be impressed with him. Your his wife, she cannot take your place, especially now you are pregnant. She is just a friend, she cannot compete with you, have class, treat her nice and all will go well.
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