Is there any chance I can get him back?
Q. my boyfriend of 6 years ask for a break of three week and got it he came back sayiong we are over and that he knows it will be hard on me for the next three months but he said he text me then and we be friend. is this the end or is there any way i ...
A. 12 June 2010: It's wishful thinking. He wants out i'm afraid.... (read in full...)
How do I show my brother's friend that I want a relationship?
Q. I like this guy, a lot. He's cute, funny and nice to everyone.. I am a bit nervous talking to him since he's my brother's friend. And I like him a lot..how do I show that I like him and want to be in a relationship?...
A. 12 June 2010: You got to wait for him to approach you first. Believe me if he was interested in you he would have hinted by now. Remember he is your brother's friend and if things went bad it could make their friendship awkward. So he will be thinking about those ... (read in full...)
I'm 21, he's single and 29. Could he be interested?
Q. We had a mutual attraction at first sight, like, we just stood there and looked at each other for 5 seconds before i realised i had to open the door. Whenever we passed each other in the corridor, he’d hold eye contact with me but I’d look away, ...
A. 12 June 2010: Interested in what?!!! Looking at you? Checking if you're at your desk?...erm..yeah he is. But if you mean is he interested in getting to know you....i can't say as he hasn't SAID anything to you in that respect. So what if he is really quiet, ... (read in full...)
Why does this guy keep standing me up?
Q. I am dating a guy who is 4 years older than me. I met him through a friend and we immediatley hit it off. We started dating and then we decided to be exclusive. We've gone through the I love you's and how "perfect I am for him..." The problem is I'm ...
A. 12 June 2010: This guy does not love you. He may say he does but words and actions must match if you are to take him seriously. He's all talk and not much do! If he loved you he would not keep standing you up..he does it because he knows he can and he knows you ... (read in full...)
I feel like I've been dumped without the closure!
Q. Hi, would like people's opinion on this as I'm confused by my current situation... I've been dating this guy who's in the RAF for about 6 weeks now, we met on a dating site, and have had 3 dates. We have been getting to know each other, and things ...
A. 12 June 2010: I am so sorry this has happen to you. But it is clear to me that this guy did a 'wham bam thank you mam' act on you. I have nothing against dating sites but you need to be careful when you use them as there are a lot of unscrupulous men out there ... (read in full...)
Why would a married man make it very obvious he is attracted to you, create sexual tension, but never say anything?
Q. All married guys out there, I need some help please! I have become very attracted to a man I have known for some time. He is married (I am divorced) and I gather his marriage is not too good lately. I know he has had an infatuation, or massive c...
A. 8 June 2010: What are these deep feelings you say you have over a man that doesnt talk to you? You say you know he has feelings for you - how do you know this when he fails to talk to you? So all a man has to do is to stare at you long and hard and hey presto! ... (read in full...)
I don't want to end the relationship but I want him to stop being mean and texting other girls!
Q. hey there i have quite the problem and i have no clue what to do about it...my bf well hes a jack ass but he can be so sweet too... two weekends ago i found out the three times during our relationship he texted a girl he had sex with before dating ...
A. 8 June 2010: Leave....before its too late. Come off planet infatuation and return to earth before you really get hurt... (read in full...)
Shocked he reacted this way! What happened?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for almost 6 months. We've gotten close enough to talk about moving in together. Last Friday, I was at his house, we were sitting outside talking. Having a few drinks. He starting asking questions about my past. ...
A. 8 June 2010: Sorry this had to happen to such an honest person but i feel this guy lead you down this path so he could finish things. He was looking for a way out of this living arrangement and he found it. He sounds like a coward and not very emotionally ... (read in full...)
What kind of signs am I giving off?
Q. Dear Cupid, Just a quick question. There's this boy in my life who I find attractive and he finds me attractive back (though I'm taken for but he's gone for work - I am NOT cheating). He's stayed overnight at my house twice in the same bed, nothin...
A. 8 June 2010: You stated loudly that you have not cheated. You allow some guy to sleep in your bed twice and that isnt cheating? If youre that liberal then why dont you tell your bf and allow him to sleep with some girl and only cuddle. Your guy is away and you ... (read in full...)
It must mean something if he replies, right?
Q. ok so around 3 years ago i met a guy fell madly in love he was my first love, he had only been single 6 months previous to getting with me he was with his ex for 4 years. he stayed friends with her throughout our relationship and she started ...
A. 8 June 2010: What it means when he answered back was that he wanted to see if you were ok, that's as deep as it gets. He has a gf and has clearly moved on. The thing is youre the one that is fixated on wanting him back bcos you say he was your first love. you ... (read in full...)
I always go in this rage of jealousy- throwing his stuff away, confronting people.. heeeelp!
Q. Hi everybody. I need u guys help. I need to stop jealous for no reason to my boyfriend. We been dating for 4 years and we fight like every week for same reason. That's jealous things. I don't like any girl look at him or talk to him. We have all ...
A. 8 June 2010: I agree with SOON567..your bf is feeding your jealousy because he enjoys the thrill it gives him. He likes to tell you about other women just so you can go into a rage which tells him how much power he has over you. That is cruel and wicked. You ... (read in full...)
Is this an indication he is thinking long-term?
Q. The guy I've been dating for the last 2 months has started asking me about what I'd like to be doing a few years from now... would you take that as an indication that he could be thinking about the idea of us being together long term?...
A. 8 June 2010: This is a slight indication so dont jump on it and start over-analysing and dissecting it to bits. He is merely seeing where your heads at, if you have your life in order and if you have a life that you love. He doesn't want someone who hasn't got a ... (read in full...)
I love 2 very different men!
Q. Dear Cupid, I love two very different men. One is my boyfriend guy #1) of 1 year and 3 months, and we are very serious. He has talked about marrage and having a baby and getting a house. We have a great sex life, i can always talk to him, hes ...
A. 8 June 2010: Here's what you do...get some clarity into your insecurity issues. You only fell for guy2 bcos you were lonely and wanted some attention.If you and guy1 was that serious you would not have gotten involved with guy2. You claim that guy1 is your ... (read in full...)
One Sided Friendship
Q. I need some friendship advice. My friend spends all her time with her boyfriend, and a lot of friends are getting mad at her for it. Yet, I tould her I wanted her to be happy, yet I still want to feel like we both are putting in effort to our fr...
A. 8 June 2010: That's because you are doing all of the work in your friendship. Your friend doesn't value your friendship like she does her relationship with her bf. She drops her friends for some guy and treats you like crap. Her energy is going into her ... (read in full...)
After all this talking on the phone, texting and talking online I still cant tell if he likes me!
Q. one day me and my friend and her boyfriend and his friend went out after days i been told he fancys me which i did too but he asked my friends boyfriend for my msn so we can get to know each other, i didnt mind so he add me but its been 2 months now ...
A. 8 June 2010: This is just the start of the dating process...guy asks out girl to see if there is any connection....any compatibility between them.It sounds as if this is what this guy is doing. He is taking his time in checking you out and you should be doing ... (read in full...)
If he liked me, wouldn't he make more of an effort?
Q. Recently I have been getting close to a good friend of mine. We've been friends for about a year now, and recently it's developed into something more. We have all the same friends and see each other at the same night clubs every week. We kiss and ...
A. 5 June 2010: Absolutely!!!! if he was serious and into you, he would make more of an effort to be with you, spend time with you, get to know you more intimately, find out what makes your mind tick, what your goals or dreams are. But instead he keeps his distance ... (read in full...)
Is this cheating or what?
Q. i have a girlfriend and shes amazing i love her, but this other girl kinda likes me and i like her back but thats not the point, with this girl i can talk freely because a few weeks back something happened and it stuck its funny but i think now its ...
A. 5 June 2010: I have no idea what you are talking about. If you want a coherent answer you will need to elaborate on your question.... (read in full...)
Does size really matter?
Q. Hi my new parter in life was married for 25 years to a very nice guy. for many reasons her marrage broke down like mine. we met almost 2 years ago on on the very first night we made love it was a disaster. the main reason was she was, what i thou...
A. 3 June 2010: If she says that she is satisfied with you sexually i think you should listen to her. What it looks like is that your insecurities over your size is coming to the surface and making you feel inadequate in comparison to her x. This insecurity will ... (read in full...)
Should I believe him that he will leave his wife for me?
Q. Hi i am divorced and currently dating my first boyfriend. We met a year ago.......he is still married and also says i must give him some time to sort out certain issues then he will file for divorce. He has sorted out some of the issues...now i need ...
A. 3 June 2010: You give me no more time...this may be hard to hear but this man is stringing you along. He has no intention of leaving his wife and he is telling you rubbish and lies to keep you hooked. There are plenty of men like this around. But trust me, any ... (read in full...)
Should I just let the liar fly???
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I noticed he was acting strange. He stated that he had to have a meeting with his cousin for their new business in jersey. He tried to leave me to go to new jersey on my birthday... to have a "business ...
A. 30 May 2010: You are not in a relationship with this guy. He is a free agent and will do whatever he wants and see whomever he chooses until he find the right girl who he thinks is worthy of his monogamy. I'm afraid that you don't seem to qualify. This guy is ... (read in full...)
He stresses me out 99 per cent of the time so why am I still in a relationship with him?
Q. Lately, I've been feeling drained with my boyfriend of 5yrs.. mind you a very crazy relationship from physical abuse in the past.. he is always complaining about me like for instance he does stuff that i do not approve of and he wanted me to hang ...
A. 30 May 2010: This man is a habit a bit like smoking. You keep promising yourself your going to pack it in but you still get tempted to have just one last fag and then you'll pack it in.
He's a habit that you will need to break because if your energy is drain... (read in full...)
Am I just paranoid? Or is he blowing me off?
Q. I met this guy a week ago and we totally hit it off via texts after we initially met. We clicked really well and he seemed to really like me so we planned a first official date, dinner and a movie. The date went well, I think, we had great ...
A. 30 May 2010: Stop placing so much expectations on this one guy might help. You had one date and all of this obsessing over that one time is what will drive you crazy. You had one date and you say you hit it off and clicked. Remember this is your observation, you ... (read in full...)
I want to be cool and trust him but I don't
Q. Okay so I've been dating this guy for about 4 months now, and him and I started off as bestfriends before. When we were friends right before we dated we had sex. Then awhile later we dated and we have sooo many feelings for eachother and I am crazy ...
A. 30 May 2010: In order to trust him you need to develop trust. You are displaying signs of being needy and you need to get that under control or you could very well push him away with your constant checking-up-on-you calls. You need to get a grip and decipher are ... (read in full...)
I don't know where I stand with my boyfriend, need your help to decipher this!
Q. I don't know where I stand with my boyfriend and would like your opinions. We have been seeing each other for a few months. He works hard but makes time for me. He calls and texts every day. He is gentle and caring and I can talk to him about ...
A. 30 May 2010: It is us girls that find it so easy to talk about love, feelings and emotions. The guys find it much harder as they are wired to do more than say. What i can see is a guy who is showing you how much he cares for you in his actions so pay attention ... (read in full...)
Doesn't want a relationship but still likes me what should I do?
Q. Ok for the past year me and a friend have been hanging out together at mine, theres always been flirting and a kiss. Recently its started to get more intimate. Now i told him a few weeks back that i liked him, and he said he didn't want a ...
A. 30 May 2010: One thing i will stress to us girls...please please please listen to a guy when he says he doesn't want a relationship. He is being honest so accept the truth and if you think getting up close and personal will sway him...think again. He's ok having ... (read in full...)
A 26-year old man is beginning to fall for me after his fight with an ex; how can I solve this?
Q. Hey, I know this may sound weird, but i'll give it a shot: My best friend's boyfriend's brother is almost 26 years old. He recently found out that his girlfriend had an affair with his brother, and was freaking out. Since my bff, her bf and i always ...
A. 30 May 2010: This guy is looking to heal his wounds in the arms of any woman nearby but you are not a woman yet. He is looking for a rebound connection and wants to get with some girl, any girl quickly so he doesn't have to deal with his pain, hurt and ... (read in full...)
Do I pick the guy who I have the history with, or the guy who makes my heart skip a beat?
Q. i am torn between two guys. the first guy i have known him for 8 years, we have been friends with benefits on and off for about 6 years, i always felt like he was the love of my life. didn't matter who i was with i always ended back with him. but in ...
A. 30 May 2010: You have been friends with benefits with the first guy yet you call him your bf??? You go on holiday and become infatuated with some guy in Cuba and now you feel that you are in love with 2 men?
Love is like a seed it takes time to grow and it n... (read in full...)
So unsure about how our date went? Your opinion please!
Q. I'm not sure if the first date went well. He acted kindof awkward and quiet...and when my father yelled at me for spilling coffee in his car, there was an awkward silence. We didn't hold hands, but we took pictures at the Apple store and both wen...
A. 30 May 2010: If he asks you out on another date you will know then that he still wants to get to know you but if not then he's moved on.... (read in full...)
How do I forget this guy when I don't even know why he stopped talking to me..?
Q. Hello dear cupid well right now im feeling really sad and depressed because of a boy, so this boy and i met on myspace we hit it off well and i gave him my number we texted for like a month and then he came to visit me oh yeah he lived in LA while ...
A. 30 May 2010: He's gone. He came saw and conquered and he's moved on. Think about it you got so physical with a stranger you met of the internet. He doesnt know anything about you or you him. You gave yourself so easily he must be thinking if you do thing all the ... (read in full...)
I gave him oral and now I have a bump on my lip, what could it be?
Q. so i gave a blow job to this guy i have known for awhile but the day after i gave him one, i noticed a little bump in the corner of my mouth. Im not sure if it is a cold sore or not and i want to know if i caught herpes?...
A. 30 May 2010: It might not be but visit your doctor to check it out. But if this guy isn't your boyfriend and he is just some guy you know, why take such a risk and give him a bj? He is likely to be having sex with other girls and then you let him put his penis ... (read in full...)
Suspicious that he's cheating
Q. I think my husband is having an affair. Firstly we don't have sex and haven't for a number of years. He does not not seem bothered by this. It all started with calls to his mobile "Text to date, we have found you a love match" he said he must have ...
A. 30 May 2010: Why make yourself sick with worry?? There are clear signs that he is cheating but you keep deluding yourself. There is no smoke without fire. But take a look at your marriage..all the requirements are no longer there. All you have is the ring and ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to change how he views children?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for about 3 months now. We dated for around a year before becoming exclusive. I have two young (grade school aged) children from a previous relationship. I have been aware the entire time that ...
A. 30 May 2010: You can't change his mind so and it will be just one long battle so live and let live ... (read in full...)
What did he mean when he said "take care" in his text?
Q. Im kinda dating this guy and we got in a little fight and he said "I'm going to sleep k night sweet dreams take care muahh" what does take care mean in the text message ...
A. 30 May 2010: You are either dating or not there is no in-between. This is what people say to each other but you are starting to over-analyse what he is saying. This is one of the things that guys hate when us girls over-analyse everything they say. You think he ... (read in full...)
I really love him and want him back, what should I do?
Q. ok im a 15 year old girl. i really miss my ex boyfriend ( we have been separated nearly a year) and i cant get over him. we had been going out about 4 months when my depression got a lot worse and i ran away a few times. i had previously been ...
A. 30 May 2010: What you need to do is get on with your own life. This boy doesn't want to be with you anymore and you need to be more realistic about your relationship in the past. One moment you say you were really close and then the next you day that he was ... (read in full...)
How do I make the next move...?
Q. Please, I need some help here! I like my boss, I like her a lot. I'm 32 and she is 36 both single, you might think that I'm crazy but I don't know, how did this happen to me. The thing is, I can't stop thinking about her. She works 24 hours a day ...
A. 30 May 2010: You need to be careful here and not come over as desperate because a woman can sense when a guy is too eager. There's no doubt in her mind that you like her but just because you went out for a meal there is nothing attached to that....it was a ... (read in full...)
I really like him but I am confused over his mixed messages
Q. I met a man a few months ago, he is a manager of a pub where i sometimes drink and my daughter and her friends drink there. We kissed before but a couple of weeks ago he asked if i would like a drink after the pub shut and i went. we kissed and ...
A. 19 May 2010: hi, this man is not interested in you enough to take things further, like getting to know you better. Men usually know when they are interested in someone and they will not be shy in coming forward. he has stayed in his corner and only looked your ... (read in full...)
Why can't he say were girlfriend and boyfriend when we only date each other?
Q. Hi I have seeing this guy for like 2 months now but i'm not sure if were a couple, so I striaght out asked him am I your girlfriend and he said that we were dateing. So I said ok dose that make me your girlfriend and i wanted a yes or no answer but ...
A. 19 May 2010: You're being too clingy and needy in wanting a title when you are only dating. 2 months is just the start of getting to know each other. You, yourself don't know if he is right for you because it is far too soon to tell and you're blinded by wanting ... (read in full...)
What would you think about this if it was your girlfriend and your roommate?
Q. Folks i would need some advice.The one i get from my buddies always involves alcohol :s this is the first time i do this kind of thing but here we go. Found out a couple of days ago thanks to a lost email that my girlfriend of 2 years with whom ...
A. 17 May 2010: Like attracts like....so if your roommate is a douche then so is your gf. Her wanting 'attention' is a lame excuse for having sex with your roommate. Please...her sleeping in the same bed as him and NO sex...i find that extremely hard to comprehend ... (read in full...)
I can't keep being her doormat, I have feelings too!
Q. Where to start? Around 3 years ago, I went out with a girl I had known for several years she had been in a relationship where her boyfriend lied cheated and even beat her. I got together with her around a year after that relationship fin...
A. 17 May 2010: Hi Anonymous Yes, you have feelings for this girl but these feelings may be blinding you to what is really going on here. She seems to pick you up when she feels like it and then drop you when it suits her. Because she knows how you feel and beca... (read in full...)
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