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36-40,
anonymous
writes:We had a mutual attraction at first sight, like, we just stood there and looked at each other for 5 seconds before i realised i had to open the door. Whenever we passed each other in the corridor, he’d hold eye contact with me but I’d look away, when he passed my table (i sit in a corner near a window, so whoever intentionally turned to look at me would be pretty obvious), he would glance and avert or totally ignore me at times. Once I entered his department to talk to someone, he was watching me from his table the whole time.Whenever we bumped into each other in the corridor, he would hold my eye contact and he’d walk real slowly or sometimes just not know where to walk. Recently, we met in the corridor and i mustered the courage to smile at him but looked away quickly. Ever since, he has been looking more, like he'd "check" to see if i'm at my table at the start/end of the day. recently, when we bumped into each other, i looked up and smiled real nicely at him. he smiled back!now, he "checks" if i'm at my table at the start/end of the day. but in btwn, he'd ignore me sometimes..he’s known to be really quiet at work, doesnt gossip much, is mostly alone, soft-spoken and serious-looking. we are from totally different departments. erm, is he interested?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou are a female, like me, so what do you know?
interested in looking at a person/checking if she's there indicates a level of interest, whether you like it or not.
and i dont know which century you are living in, but its 2010 for me here. to hell with the men like the chase thing. cause I personally like to chase too. theres nothing wrong with saying hi.
and its not as if we have a great chance to have longggg conversations cause we arent even in the same company though we share the same office space. and fyi, i dont live in the states unlike you where everyone is chirpy and friendly and whatnot. i live in a conservative asian country.
and passing an interview and talking to a girl doesnt have any direct connection, sorry. i dont know who you think you are, but you talk as if you know him inside out.
puhlease.
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reader, Empressjai +, writes (12 June 2010):
 Interested in what?!!! Looking at you? Checking if you're at your desk?...erm..yeah he is. But if you mean is he interested in getting to know you....i can't say as he hasn't SAID anything to you in that respect. So what if he is really quiet, doesn't gossip and is mostly alone...i am sure he can string two words together and drum up a conversation. He managed the interview to get the job son i am sure he can communicate if he wanted to. Don't waste your time unless he steps forward with something to say along the lines that he's interested. Unless you want to do his job for him by stepping to him first. Remember...men like the chase..you take that away from them....it's all over.
Bide your time, check out other guys as you could be in for a long wait with this one.
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