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anonymous
writes: Hello dear cupid well right now im feeling really sad and depressed because of a boy, so this boy and i met on myspace we hit it off well and i gave him my number we texted for like a month and then he came to visit me oh yeah he lived in LA while i lived in san diego so when he came what ever we made ouut the whole time but then the second time he came was almost the same we kissed hold hands then he left home after that i noticed he stoped texting me and i dont know why? Why it was just so sudden it really hurts and i see that he updates his statues and hes all happy partying with his friends :( i just wanna know how t forget him how do i get him off my head
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reader, Empressjai +, writes (30 May 2010):
He's gone. He came saw and conquered and he's moved on. Think about it you got so physical with a stranger you met of the internet. He doesnt know anything about you or you him. You gave yourself so easily he must be thinking if you do thing all the time with other guys of the internet. Try to get to know someone in the flesh first and not just on the internet because hitting it off via a computer is not the same as hitting it off in person once you start to get to know each other. Sex is an action not an emotion and lots of men can have sexual connection with a woman without any emotional attachments.
This guy is yesterday's news so throw him into the past and move forward. He didn't really know you at all. You both met as strangers and parted as strangers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much i know i need to forget him hes not even worth my pain :(, anyways thanks girl :/
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (30 May 2010):
Think of it this way. He obviously doesn't give you a second thought now so why would you waste your heart and head giving a dam about him? Make a conscious decision to move on from this guy, when you're down and depressed like this you are closed off from other opportunities that may be coming your way.
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