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writes:I am dating a guy who is 4 years older than me. I met him through a friend and we immediatley hit it off. We started dating and then we decided to be exclusive. We've gone through the I love you's and how "perfect I am for him..." The problem is I'm leaving for college in a few months and we weren't sure if we were going to try to make it work or just give up. 2 weeks ago I called him a few times because he was MIA for a few days and once he answered he told me that he thought i was "locking him up." I was pretty devistated because I thought at that point in our relationship that we were close enough to be able to call each other daily. Anyway, the next day he apologized and said that him being locked up with me would be the best thing for him. He loves me, I'm perfect for him.. Blah blah blah. We were okay for a few days until he went MIA again. Called a few days later saying that he was just really busy... We had plans to go to dinner and I was waiting around for him but no call or text. So next day, apologized and I gave him another chance. 2 nights ago he asked me to go to lunch with him on my break and then we'd hang out last night and go to a fair together. Once again, stood me up.... I do love him and I don't want to let him go. But do you think it would be best? Guys out there- Any ideas why he's doing this??? Another girl? Sick of me? Just any kind of input would be awesome. Thanks.
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reader, Empressjai  +, writes (12 June 2010):
 This guy does not love you. He may say he does but words and actions must match if you are to take him seriously. He's all talk and not much do! If he loved you he would not keep standing you up..he does it because he knows he can and he knows you will take him back regardless. he knows he has the upper hand in the relationship. There is little respect, trust or consideration here. It looks like you don't place much value on yourself so he doesn't either. You allow him to disrespect you, so he does. Looks to me like he's not that into you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010): he is not worth it,find a guy that is twice as nice and i think you will be happier. hope that helped, good luck x
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