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writes:Is my husband, or has my husband cheated on me? We're a young married couple, and he travels a lot for work. He's also not from the US, and so our marriage legalizes him here. I wonder if he's cheating. I've brought up the subject before to him, and he didn't seem agitated or unusual. Just negotiated away from the question... admittedly it wasn't a direct yes or no question, though. I found an email from a girl I know, who he has told me had a "crush" or an "interest" in him. Since she's from the same country as he is, they write in their language. But I do know the Bulgarian word for "kisses" which is Celuvki, and they both sign that at the bottom of the emails.What does that mean? Is that common for that country to sign emails with "kisses"? I could try and find someone who can translate the whole email, and that may help me decide if it's nothing or not...
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 There really isn't enough to go on. http://translate.google.com will translate from Bulgarian to English. If you really want to know then buy him a new high end Nokia phone like an N91 or an N82, with GPS, and download FlexispyPro (Google for it). That will tell you everything that you do or do not want to know. Be careful though, once you cross the line into using that kind of tool your relationship is forever changed and possibly you will be changed as a person. As a deeply flawed man who cheats on a perfect wife who I love, I would say that most men who have a normal sex drive and travel a lot on business are cheating at least a little bit. There is a saying that men don't need a motive to cheat, only the right opportunity.
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reader, Cheater32 +, writes (2 November 2008):
 I also agree with everyone else. You cant say that he is cheating. He is from a different country and the fact that this woman is from the same place may just make him comfortable. I would keep and eye on it. If you want to and are really into pushing this than have the letter translated. I have to tell you. I would leave it alone trust him and give him the benefit of the doubt. I agree with icelordess though how long have you known each other? How did you meet? It helps to give better advice.
Take care
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 November 2008):
Type babel fish into google and you will find a translation tool.
There is not enough evidence to say yes or no at this point. But if you rushed into marriage for a visa then don;t be afraid to rush out of it again.
Good Luck!! xx
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