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*ranhquy
writes:Hi everyoneHe sent me a text msg and said:" BaBee .. I miss you alot" and then later hetold me that he was just a wrong message. ( he sent it to his gf) I always keep wondering whether he sent me a wrong mesage or it was his plan. He did many other things that make me think that he had a crush on me.( He was always around me) I waited for him to say first,but i could not keep my feeling inside and then one night I called him and said I loved him. He told me I should find someone better than him...don't be sad... there were plenty of fish in the sea. He said he knew how hurt i felt and promised that he would treat me normally like before.( He would not avoid me)MY question is that whether he has a feeling for me or he's just playing with my heart, and how to know it.P/s:Now I still have to keep tutoring him like before cuz if i stop helping him like, he would think bad about me.
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Let it go. The text wasn't for you, it was for his girlfriend. He has made it clear that he's not interested. Leave him and his girlfriend alone and stop reading into things.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 November 2008):
If it's hurting you to see him then don't. He's not going to think badly of you and does it really matter if he does?
I don't think he is playing with your heart, I think you are just hoping that message was for you. I'm sorry to be cruel but he has a girlfriend and has told you he is not interested.
You have to take time away from him and try hard to get over him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, branhquy +, writes (2 November 2008):
branhquy is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for advising me. Should I flirt with another guys to make him jealous and to show him that he is nothing to me. what's your opinion?
Thank you very much
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reader, branhquy +, writes (2 November 2008):
branhquy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for giving me your advice. He's so mean like a jurk. Should i flirt to another guys to make him jealous and show him he's nothing to me
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reader, Miss Potter +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Hey!
If it bothers you seeing him when he comes over for tutoring then stop it, its not worth it.
Also I think he does send those "wrong" messages to you on purpose - as it is very unlikely that your name is right next to his new gf name in his phone contacts list. Why he does this? He is playing with you, I am not sure about his motives though - just for fun? to get your attention? keep you interested in him? Anyway after you told him you loved him and he obviously doesnt and he persistently is sending you the wrong messages I think its only cruel to you that he does what he does.
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Your question is one I don't think other people can answer. But from what you said, I think he's just being sketchy. If he IS saying things to you like that when he has a girlfriend and then he's telling you you should find someone better than him... Eh, I think he's just trying to have fun. I would not want to be with him if he's doing stuff like that.
To answer your question on how to know whether he's messing with you or not. I think you just have to watch what he says. One huge hint you have to use for your advantage is that he's saying he may have a crush on you ...but he has a girlfriend?... Nah.. big clue right there you should not be messing with him.
If you can't really watch what he's saying, you can always talk to him... like while you're torturing him or something
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