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writes:I'm in love with a guy ten years older than me but the problem is he moved to Edinbrugh a few months ago and I miss him. I heard off a few of his friends that he'll be coming back for a visit but as you can guess there's competition. A girl I know used to always flirt with him and pull him away from other people as he's speaking to them. People always though he fancied me as he always touched my arm as we talked, he'd always sit beside me or the way he spoke of me to them. I don't want this girl to ruin things but what makes it worse she's the perfect girl for him beautiful, kind, funny, has a beautiful singing voice and she's the most perfect girl in the world. please help
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 November 2008):
Sweetie if he's in Edinburgh he will have so many real girls to talk to that I don't think you need to worry.
You say he's 10 years older than you and that means he's in his late 20's.
He's going to be meeting lots of girls his own age and I think you have to accept you might have lost him for now.
Don't pin your hopes on this guy and look around for someone else to think about.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Alishamoorefan  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 It sounds like he likes you and the other girl is just jealous because she likes him too... If he touches your arm when you guys talk or sits by you that's a sign that he likes you or he likes you... haha... She isn't gonna win his heart if he really likes you like it sounds like he does so... try to keep is attention away from her and on you as much as you can... and don't say all the good things about the other girl.. i'm sure you're way better than her anyway... don't worry i'm pretty sure everything will work out great!
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reader, michele21 +, writes (2 November 2008):
 swearheart no one is perfect in anyway...why don't you talk to him and just ask him you are both adults you gotta say what you feel if you don't you are goin to regreat it i've learned that the hard way sometimes its not what you wanna hear but you feel better that you have it out in the open and if he is a decent honest guy he will tell you the truth about how he feels and if his friends say good things then i don't think you need to worry to much...talking never hurt anyone though
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