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*aran_n_ryan
writes:Hi me and my boyfriend (of 2 years) have been trying for a baby now for the past 9 months im 21 and he's 22 we have been best friends for 5 years before we got together so we know its the right thing and we have had a few finger crossing moments but no hope.......and then this month i was 7 days late on my period, throwing up my breasts have been really tender and all the usual signs we were so excited...we had 2 tests come up negative i rang the doctor and they said i had to to wait for my hormones to build up for the test to show.The problem is i started bleeding this morning light at first and now it just feels like my period i feel so lonley...my bf is just carrying on trying to make me smile but wont talk to me about it properly he just keeps saying ''you might still be'' while smiling.the thing is i feel really low like i have failed can aybody give me advice like can you have periods while pregnant??
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reader, utterlypink +, writes (2 November 2008):
dont feel like you have done anything wrong, nature takes its own corse and i have known people to have a period while pregnant, you really need to talk to your bf, beacuse if your going to have a family with this guy, you should be able to talk about everything with him, your not alone you have each other and things will work out, try not to worry theres plenty of time left...
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 November 2008):
You'll just have to wait for the test and see.
Try using one of these kits that tells you when you are at your most fertile. They claim to have a fantastic success rate.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Deema +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Yes you can and though a test shows negative you can still be pregnant. However, I guess you do also have to face the fact that you may well have been pregnant but something caused it not to continue. I've been in your situaition and it is very hard. I understand how you feel. You're not a failure, its just not time yet, but your time wil come - thats if you're not pregnant already!!! If you did just lose the foetus, its natures way of getting rid of something that wasn't perfect, so don't beat yourself up for that, yourbody just knew better, and you can be thankful for that. Don't think your man's not affected by this either. He will be just as desperate as you to make youhappy and men feel it just as much as we do, theyjust dont show it to protect us. So turn to each other, take your time and just believe it will happen - and it will. Good luck. (Besides, its fun practicing!!! :)))) )
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