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writes:I met a guy 2 years ago in a tech event. We became friends that day and since he had to move away after wards, we started keeping in touch by emails once a month. I emailed him and he always replied back.The once a month thing became in a twice a month thing to a whenever we like it thing. He travels a lot due his job and still communicated. We enjoy our friendship and emails, and now instead of me always emailing, he does it too sending notes to say Hi and stuff.So, I decided to call and he was excited to hear me, I was ecstatic. I talked as a parrot that I don't know if I did a fool of myself. He said it was nice to hear from me, to listen to the voice of a friend from so long. I said I would call whenever I could but not as much I'd love to. HE SAID OK. Is this going anywhere, like does he really wanted it to go forward? Just OK? I live in England right now, so he knows long distance calls are expensive!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 November 2008):
Well since you are 3000 miles from eachother then there is only so far that it can go.
It does appear you are moving closer but I am not sure where you want this to go unless you know you are heading home to the US soon and are going to be in the same place as him for a number of years.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Deema +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Well you're just gonna have to wait and see now !!!! But, just so you don't end up losing your self-esteeem on the way and feeling you're doing all the chasing, presumably he has your number too? Now you've made that first call, whynot leave it up to him to call you, and see what he does. If he's interested he'll call, and if he doesn't then you got your answer. Men won't call unless they want to. Its that simple. Let him do the chasing now - or spend the rest of your life chasing him. x
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