Did he take advantage of me?!
Q. I was making out with my boyfriend tonight and he decided to take things further by putting his hands up my top while he lay on top of me kissing. I kept pulling his hand out of my top but he just kept going back to sneaking up my top! I kept ...
A. 29 August 2008: Yeah, this is the third time he's said he's sorry and won't do it again.
When he does be sure to remember that we told you he would and then dump him and cut contact straight away. I hope he doesn't go too far and you don't get raped.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
Did he take advantage of me?!
Q. I was making out with my boyfriend tonight and he decided to take things further by putting his hands up my top while he lay on top of me kissing. I kept pulling his hand out of my top but he just kept going back to sneaking up my top! I kept ...
A. 25 August 2008: DUMP HIM!... (read in full...)
I love both my ex and my girlfriend. They give me ear ache about eachother. I need to pick one.. but which one?
Q. The Girl I Am With Now Is Called Tasha I Bin With Her Nearly 2 Month Now But I Was With Her A Year And Half Befor The Ex [ Natalie ] When I Was With Tasha For The Year And Half Tasha And Nat Were Best Mates But Then They Fell Out And I B...
A. 25 August 2008: From the way You Talk Like This, I would say that you are very immature for your age. And I think you need to be single for a while and not lead them both on.
Only you can decide who you like more, but the fact you think you like both of them say... (read in full...)
My girlfriend feels too dependent so she wants to break up!
Q. i don't know what to do at this moment. i am very confused as to what i should do in my relationship. i have been with my girlfriend for just a little under two years and we really make each other happy. we do have our fights here and there but we ...
A. 25 August 2008: long distance relationships are hard. It's so easy to stay in and stay on the phone or on MSN rather than going out and that can stop you from making friends.
It can be done though. You just have to arrange with her that you will not call every ni... (read in full...)
I can't fall asleep until really early in the morning, but when I do I sleep for 12 hours. What is this?
Q. I know this has nothing to do with love and what not.. but I think I have sleeping issues? I'm definitely a night person and I can stay up really late, even if I want to sleep early. I just find it difficult to sleep. but when I finally do, I sl...
A. 25 August 2008: Well if you are only mentally tired then do something to get your body tired. Go for a run, take the dog for a play in the yard, do some push ups.
It doesn't have to be a full day of exercise, just something to make your body think it's good to ... (read in full...)
I don't want to give up everything for him again, what should I do?!
Q. Im a 29 yr old mature student. Me nd my boyfriend met nearly 3yrs ago. He was in the country on a visitor visa, he overstayed the visa and didn't work, he relied on his best friend who was here legally. His friend decided to leave the country ...
A. 25 August 2008: Well he needs to get a decent qualification at home so he can come and work in the UK. We always need more nurses or doctors or other useful people. Tell him to find out what they will accept and hit the books.
He just has to keep trying. If he go... (read in full...)
Could you explain to me about calories?
Q. Hey. Can anyone please tell me how calories work? Ive been going to the gym for a wile nou. 300 calories a day, is it engough, i dont see calories on any food packets? How many calories is one kg? Or is it totaly differant? I know nothing of calo...
A. 25 August 2008: Everything has different amounts of calories in. I just ate a bag of crisps with 169kcal, but if I ate a bag of carrot sticks they would have a lot less. In many countries it has the number of kcal (calories) on the packets, but otherwise you can ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him the full story of my having cheated or leave with him what he already knows and deal with my guilt on my own?
Q. Ok so here's the situation... Back in March I cheated on my boyfriend. I was out for a friends birthday and saw an old friend at the club. I ended up getting very drunk that night (no excuse) but my old friend pursuaded me to share a taxi home with ...
A. 25 August 2008: Why the hell would you want to protect the other guy? He took advantage of you when you were drunk. How is that in anyway worth protecting?
However, I think you should not tell your boyfriend everything. You told him you were very drunk and stup... (read in full...)
Why would my ex want to ruin my chances with this new guy if he's the one who broke up with me? What can I do?
Q. I have a really bad feeling that my ex bf has said something to the guy new guy ive been dating to turn him off me. But i dont know what because i never did anything to him to hurt him. He was the one who broke up with me. The reason was because i ...
A. 25 August 2008: Your ex sounds like an idiot. But just seeing him around doesn't mean he can ruin things for you.
Have you spoken to your new guy about the ex and told him that you think he might say something to break you up?
If you talk to your new guy and... (read in full...)
If I really am liking her less, then should we just break up? I want to know what I am feeling and what I should do.
Q. I've been dating this girl for 6 months now. We meet up only once a week but we keep communication open the everyday. From our 1st to 5th month I was a jealous, possessive person, and I would get really suspicious make a big deal out of it if she ...
A. 25 August 2008: Only you can tell what you are feeling I'm afraid, but since you are so young it is a lot more likely to be infatuation and obsession than real love.
If you have got over your infatuation then perhaps you could just go back to being friends.... (read in full...)
I think my relationship is falling apart because I support sex after marriage...
Q. I am 18 yrs old and im a virgin... I've been in a relationship for about 7 mnths... im still havin problems givin it up... I told my boyf dat I blieve in sex after marriage... he still gave me a try but now I think my relationship is fallin appart...
A. 25 August 2008: Well this is kind of the point of no sex before marriage, that you have to know that he IS going to commit to you for life before you let him have you.
Although the other point to no sex before marriage is forcing fathers to provide for their ch... (read in full...)
I need to know if it meant something by me having sex with another man.
Q. I had sex with another man, how do i know if it meant something? He's married with 2 children, i've got a boy friend and 2 kids. But the feelings i have seem more then just sex and he was really loving. Please help....
A. 25 August 2008: Just because it was wonderful once, doesn't mean it will be like that if it happens again.
If you were both bored with your relationships and could really let yourself go because it was a naughty, one off thing that would be secret and never sp... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wrote a poem for me, can you explain what it means please?
Q. my boyfriend who is soon leaving for boot camp wrote this poem. i'm not very well at understanding poetry. So, i cannot tell whether it does with me or not. could someone explain to me what this poem may mean; 'love is an unexpected flower that c...
A. 25 August 2008: That is so romantic.
He's comparing you to a flower. Like when you are walking through a field with hundreds of flowers (or through town where there are hundreds of girls) and a special one just catches your eye and it's far more beautifu... (read in full...)
Did he take advantage of me?!
Q. I was making out with my boyfriend tonight and he decided to take things further by putting his hands up my top while he lay on top of me kissing. I kept pulling his hand out of my top but he just kept going back to sneaking up my top! I kept ...
A. 25 August 2008: Any guy that continues to do something after you have told him to stop is not only taking advantage of you but committing sexual assault.
I'm not saying you should call the police or anything as that would be pointless but technically, he did assa... (read in full...)
Can my cousin kill her unborn child by drinking water and vingar?
Q. if you drink water and and vingar can u kill your unborn child, because my cousin does that and i was wondering can that happen ?...
A. 25 August 2008: I think this is more an old wives tale.
Drinking dilute acid can't be any good for you, but your stomach is FULL of acid so I don't think it's going to have any specific effect such as an abortion.
However, if you make yourself ill whe... (read in full...)
I can't fall asleep until really early in the morning, but when I do I sleep for 12 hours. What is this?
Q. I know this has nothing to do with love and what not.. but I think I have sleeping issues? I'm definitely a night person and I can stay up really late, even if I want to sleep early. I just find it difficult to sleep. but when I finally do, I sl...
A. 25 August 2008: Well you just have to get up really early. Force your sleeping pattern in to the place it should be.
Sleeping 12 hours is normal at your age as you are still growing, plus you sound tired if you are missing sleep through the week.
Get up at 6am... (read in full...)
Starting a new relationship - How slow can it go?
Q. I have always believed that if a romantic relationship is to be formed between two people, it must happen quickly. If things go slowly and drag out, then usually someone ends up "friend-zoned". With this in mind, is it reasonable to expect...
A. 25 August 2008: The feelings can come very quickly, I agree with you there, but that doesn't mean that everything else has to come as quickly as well.
You can see her not very often but when you do then keep it romantic and not friendly. Hold her hand, put your... (read in full...)
Can I continue to sleep over at a male friend's house after I get married?
Q. i am a 22 year old woman who has a guy friend for about 8 years. my boyfriend knows that i see him. my boyfriend and i want to get married. My guy friend and i say i love you all the time, we hold hands, we cuddle, though, i sleep over his house. Is ...
A. 25 August 2008: Hey, I used to do exactly the same thing with my mate Matt. He's lovely and had absolutely no interest in me in that way. However, when I got my boyfriend who would later become my husband it all stopped.
The way I think of it is "would I like it ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my boyfriend who leaves me stranded at work and is meeting other women on dating sites?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years. He goes out when i am at work and leaves me there stranded ( we only have one vehicle). He is on many dating sites and always changes his password, when he figures i know to much to who (the other w...
A. 25 August 2008: He's clearly told you that he's just using you as a house mate with an internet connection.
Why are you even asking us about this? Did you honestly think anyone was going to say "Oh he sounds like he had a poor relationship with his mother, ... (read in full...)
I have an illness that has prevented me from dating but I'd like to give it a try!
Q. I have suffered from an illness in which I could not go outside on my own which started when I was a teenager. I had a couple of dates when I was a teenager but never met anyone special. I am now 41 years old and had counselling 5 years ago which ...
A. 25 August 2008: I think online dating could be good for you, or even speed dating, since you are in a hurry!
Do something a bit daring and have fun. But since you are inexperienced be very careful. There are a lot of jerks out there, especially at your age as m... (read in full...)
Can anyone help? I'm in pain after having sex, please tell me how to stop it hurting?
Q. I had sex for my 1st time nearly 2 days ago, it realy hurts i havn't been able 2 sleep rite. It really hurts to pee, i never expected it to hurt this bad. Can anyone help, and tell me how to stop it hurting? X...
A. 25 August 2008: Well unfortunately because it says your age is 10 to 12 then there is not a lot you can do. It's because you are a child and your body is not ready for sex yet so you have probably bruised your insides and damaged the bit where you pee. It will all ... (read in full...)
How can I talk my husband into having another baby?
Q. Hi, How can i talk my husband into having another baby? We have two children boy an girl and i really want another child and he does not. How can i change his mind?...
A. 25 August 2008: Find out why he doesn't want another baby and work on those reasons.
If it's money then say you'll get another job so you can get a chunk of the mortgage paid off before you start trying.
If it's the 3am feeds then tell him you'll do them a... (read in full...)
My fiancee is not interested in having sex much any more, any ideas as to how to increase her interest?
Q. My fiance is not interested in sex much anymore. We have been together for 4 years now and currently only have sex about once a month. This has become a topic of discussion for the past few months and nothing has changed. When we have sex it is ...
A. 25 August 2008: Well a lot depends on how the sex comes about.
If you are both in bed and you just start having a feel around then that can get very routine and very boring very fast.
When was the last time you gave her flowers? Or you both got really dress... (read in full...)
I broke up with a man I really cared about, because he was too abrupt with me, we are now staying in touch as friends, but he recently become more distant, should I just leave him behind and move on or what??
Q. I met a man about a year ago. We hit it off wonderfully and began dating, and for six months everything was wonderful. Our schedules changed and we both accepted that we would have less time to spend with each other but would like to stay in ...
A. 25 August 2008: Well if you did wait and then get back together is it going to be any different? He still won't want to call every day. You still may never see each other.
If he knows it's going to be exactly the same and that you are going to be unhappy with him... (read in full...)
My husband called out our 16 month old daughter's name during sex!
Q. What does it mean when my husband called out our 16 month old daughter's name during sex? My husband and I have a 16 month old daughter. During sex, he called out her name by accident instead of my name, saying, "Oh-----------, I love you!" ...
A. 25 August 2008: Well I think a lot of people will start accusing him of horrible things on here. But remember they have no more experience in the world than you and some a lot less so.
I really can't advise on this one because I think the advice that helps mo... (read in full...)
My ex asked me to have dinner with him and his new girlfriend.
Q. My ex left me and have a new girlfriend soon. After that we seldom contact each other. He knows I still loves him and still in hurt. I moved house recently and gave him a sms telling him my new addr, and I said I do cherish him as a good friend...
A. 25 August 2008: Well you said you "cherish him as a friend."
To him this means either A. You are now ready to be friends if he is or B. You cherish him and want to check if he's still single.
If he thought A then he's asking you out to dinner with his new gir... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to distract myself while my boyfriend is away?
Q. hey (: not a major issue but one i would like some help with if possible, basically my bf is going away for two weeks to america soon, obviously the time difference and what have you will make it hard to keep in contact so i would like some ideas on ...
A. 24 August 2008: Tidy your room - like a real spring clean, pull everything out and move all the furniture.
Go out with your girl friends and have a fabulous time.
Catch up on your homework / hobbies.
Take the dog for a walk. Get some books out the libra... (read in full...)
He called me his sex buddy and that he would tell me in case he sleeps with other women!! Any advice?
Q. I met this guy a month ago but the night we met he went on holiday the next day, when he came home he asked to meet me so i went round to his and we ended up having sex, a week later (friday just gone) he asked to go and see him again this time he ...
A. 24 August 2008: Well if you want a sex buddy then great - keep seeing him, go round and have some fun.
If you want a boyfriend then tell him you can't be his sex buddy and that you risk falling for him if you try. Then stop seeing him and find someone new.
... (read in full...)
She said she cannot commit to a relationship, why then was she flirty? How to progress with this?
Q. I have been going out with this girl for about three months, although we have kind of paused twice whilst we each went on holiday about a month of that. We are both 33, and it has been a year since we both broke up from long term relationships. We ...
A. 24 August 2008: Tell her that you don't like being messed about and don't want to be left hanging for 3 weeks. Agree that you'll talk about it properly when you get back.
She probably just realised she doesn't want you to have a holiday romance.
Take control,... (read in full...)
My girlfriend pays me no attention, we only have sex, if she wants to, what do I do about this?
Q. My girl wont pay me ant attention, she only have sex with me if she feels like it what should I do?...
A. 24 August 2008: Are you wanting her to have sex when she doesn't feel like it?
If so then tough crap. She's not a blow up doll. She doesn't have a DUTY to you.
Or are you just saying that is the only time you'll see her... that she just comes along, uses yo... (read in full...)
I just got my period, and for three nights prior to that, I had intense sexual dreams, I get turned on during the day by anything, is this a part of PMS, and will this continue, it is embarrassing?
Q. Okay kind of an embarrassing question but... I just got my first-ever period yesterday and for three nights beforehand, I was having intense sex dreams and I'd get turned on during the day by just about anything. Lol is that like part of PMS? Is ...
A. 24 August 2008: Yes, some women find they go a bit sex mad before their period because you are at your most fertile then.
It should get better with age and will change if you go on the pill or something.
It's embarrassing but no one knows except you so en... (read in full...)
If you have sex once, and your hymen is not completely torn, will it heal with time?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if it's possible for like, if you have sex once, and maybe don't tear the hymen completely...after time and time goes by, can the hymen heal??...
A. 24 August 2008: No, it's like tissue paper. You can't glue it back together once it's torn.
You may bleed on your second time if you bled a lot on your first time but you can't replace a hymen.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My Fiancee doesn't want to have sex with me!
Q. I'm 21 and have been with my fiance for 4 years. My Fiance doesnt want to ever have sex with me. and I feel like he always has excuses. like: too tierd, legs hurt...ect. I think its all BS. Yes we both work a lot at our age but I'm so depressed. ...
A. 24 August 2008: If you are not having sex then really you are just good friends.
Make him talk about it. Tell him you can't marry a man who does not find you sexually attractive, and that you think you should break up.
Once you've talked about it then you may ... (read in full...)
How do I ask her what noises she makes without being crude?
Q. I know this very beautiful woman. I would like to have sex with her at some point. However, I don't think it is going to happen now. I am courious as to the sounds she makes when receiveing sexual pleasure, during the sex act, during intercou...
A. 24 August 2008: There is no way to do it without sounding like a pervert.
You do not ask sexual questions like that to women. It is very rude to tell them you want to imagine having sex with them unless you are in a relationship.
Either date her and have sex... (read in full...)
My husband basically called me mental and said please get help from a counselor
Q. My husband basically called me mental ad said please get help from a counselor.He also told me I am incompeteny. I have childhood issues about not being smart but I know from I.Q. testing I am way above average.What do I say as a boundary and ...
A. 24 August 2008: Do you need help from a counsellor? Your follow up made no sense.
He may have been trying to get you some help because you need it.
You don't give any more details so it's hard to tell how he meant it.
You can't got someone "not to speak to... (read in full...)
I will accept her invitation, so how can I tell her that I want to have sex with her?
Q. Not too long ago after graduating from college I went to spend a vacation at a resort. It was planned to be a trip that a few of us were going to do together. In the end none of the others made it. I went alone to the resort. I thought ...
A. 24 August 2008: Are you saying that you ONLY want sex?
If you do then I think you should just tell her that you do not want a relationship at the moment but are happy to come and see her on a casual basis.
You can offer to stay at a hotel so the children do ... (read in full...)
I'm over it, why is my ex acting so horrible? It is unfathomable to me.
Q. I need some advice. There is a guy I had a short relationship with last year. He got scared, backed away, was really hurtful and rude. Okay,I got over it. Since then his behaviour has been really weird and it is bothering me. It's been eight mont...
A. 24 August 2008: Who knows what is going on in his head. It makes no sense.
I think you are doing exactly the right thing by being cordial and saying Hi. As you say, people all see that you are making effort and that he is the one with the problem.
You say... (read in full...)
My parents are against my boyfriend and will disown me if I don't listen to them...
Q. i am 24 years old and very soon will be 25. i love my b/f and wants to marry him. But my parents are against it and they wil disown me if i go aginst them. i m in dilemma what should i do? let me explain in detail. we are in relatinship for ...
A. 24 August 2008: Well it really comes down to a choice between your own happiness and your family's happiness.
In my opinion you should marry your boyfriend. You would be joining his family and leaving your own.
But could you manage without your family? Wha... (read in full...)
Any good ways to tone up my tummy fast?
Q. i feel really embarrassed in front of guys about the way my tummy looks. its kinda fat and i wanna get it looking good for summer so i can comfortably wear bikinis, spesh in front of guys. are there any really good ways to tone ur tum fast? thx xx...
A. 23 August 2008: Cut out the burgers, bring in lots of fruit and porridge.
Do some sit ups and body twists. Don't go crazy though as you'll be in too much pain to go on holiday if you pull something.
You can do it when at work / school too. Just pull your s... (read in full...)
Why would he lead me on in a long distance romance?
Q. I met a guy(we'll call him Pete) two months ago at my friend's wedding. We were both staying there the week leading up to it, and hit it off...even though I have a boyfriend. The night before the wedding he kissed me. Nothing else happened because ...
A. 23 August 2008: Well he's hardly going to put all the effort in the world in to a relationship where you have a boyfriend and live a million miles away.
He's being nice and flirting because he enjoys it and probably likes you. But he's not in a relation... (read in full...)
She said she cannot commit to a relationship, why then was she flirty? How to progress with this?
Q. I have been going out with this girl for about three months, although we have kind of paused twice whilst we each went on holiday about a month of that. We are both 33, and it has been a year since we both broke up from long term relationships. We ...
A. 23 August 2008: She's discovered that she's happy being single.
If you are wanting a long term commitment then she doesn't want to mess you about when she is happy just dating and going out and having fun.
She's let you know that she doesn't want marriage or... (read in full...)
I don't feel like he has given me any alternative about flying to see him and I think he is being cold and cruel... any thoughts?
Q. Hi - my problem is that my boyfriend that I love went to live in New Zealand 5 months ago now to work his brother also lives there. He loves it there and has no plans at the moment to come back to England. He wants me to visit and stay for seve...
A. 23 August 2008: "You may only date me if you prove your love by spending huge amounts of money and going through an ordeal of fear...."
Who the hell does he think he is? Only Princesses in magical kingdoms have the rights to make demands like that, and then it'... (read in full...)
Contraceptive implant...are there any age restrictions?
Q. hey, i was wondering if there is an age restriction on the contraceptive implant for women? thanks xx...
A. 23 August 2008: I'm not sure, but I think the family planning people would rather you were protected so they will always help you.
However, at your age you should always be using condoms so the implant would only be a back up. You could always go on the pill fir... (read in full...)
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