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writes: My husband basically called me mental ad said please get help from a counselor.He also told me I am incompeteny. I have childhood issues about not being smart but I know from I.Q. testing I am way above average.What do I say as a boundary and how do I have him not speak to me? Married two months and bummed. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): do you act dumber than you are because of a lack of self esteem? your husband may have some issues, but also look at yourself. if you don't love yourself, you cannot love someone else. people are going to get fed up with someone who's always putting themselves down. work on building up some confidence and maybe things will get better in your relationships with others.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 August 2008):
Do you need help from a counsellor? Your follow up made no sense.
He may have been trying to get you some help because you need it.
You don't give any more details so it's hard to tell how he meant it.
You can't got someone "not to speak to you" if you are married. It would be childish to try.
Speak to him and tell him you found that really hurtful and ask him why he said it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question I guess I need more details but if he does not respect you he does not love you so.... if someone had that opinion of me I would not spend time with them.
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