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writes:I have always believed that if a romantic relationship is to be formed between two people, it must happen quickly.If things go slowly and drag out, then usually someone ends up "friend-zoned".With this in mind, is it reasonable to expect that I will be able to woo this young lady I know after and who I have seen only twice during summer?Are there women that truly go that slowly when starting a new relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (25 August 2008):
The feelings can come very quickly, I agree with you there, but that doesn't mean that everything else has to come as quickly as well.
You can see her not very often but when you do then keep it romantic and not friendly. Hold her hand, put your arms around her, kiss her lots and lots.
If it is meant to be then it will be.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, les  +, writes (25 August 2008):
I think it differs from person to person, some people like to get into relationships quickly (I personally agree with you) other people like to take it slow.
But as a general rule, a lot of women will be much slower with the physical aspect of the relationship than other parts - it can be any where from weeks to months.
And the reason for that is that we realize that alot of guys have too much tunnel vision when it comes to having sex and often lose interest in the relationship if it happens too early. How long it takes for your lady friend to overcome that will depend on her personal experience, dating history and what kind of guy's she's dated before.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (25 August 2008):
 If a woman REALLY likes a guy she will often take it slow. Why?? Because she knows he may be the one and doesnt want to appear to easy. So if she is taking it slow she either really really likes you or she's not sure. Allow her this time to get to know you, if she is the one she will be worth waiting for x
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reader, the love express +, writes (25 August 2008):
relationships work in number of ways. you can never predict th best way for a relationships..if you like her and she likes you than that is all! if your been persuaded to be more friend like and slow it down than i wouldn't even bother with the relationship. There are no plans to construct relationships they just happen over time, the more you design it the more you wury about it
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