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I love both my ex and my girlfriend. They give me ear ache about eachother. I need to pick one.. but which one?

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Question - (25 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

The Girl I Am With Now Is Called Tasha I Bin With Her Nearly 2 Month Now But I Was With Her A Year And Half Befor The Ex [ Natalie ]

When I Was With Tasha For The Year And Half

Tasha And Nat Were Best Mates But Then They Fell Out

And I Become Closer To Nat And When I Were With Tasha I Told Nat I Like Her

Things Between Me And Tasha Got Worse And We Split Up A Few Months Later I Got With Nat And Tasha Got With Ben We Both Finshied Them And A Month After That Started Getting Close And Talking And Then We Got Back Together

But While We Are Together ... Nat Told Me Shell Wait For Me .. So When Me And Tasha Finish Me And Nat Get Back Together.. I Still Love Nat But Tasha Doesnt Know This... Tasha Knows Me And Nat Still Talk

But The Point In

They Both Give Me Ear Ache About Each Other

And I Need To Make My Mind Up Who I Want

But I Cant

Its Hard

I Love Them Both

But I Love Tasha More

Because Of The Time We Have Bin Together

I Guess I Want To Be With Tasha

But All We Do Is Agrue

What Can I Do ?

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man +, writes (25 August 2008):

bubbloo24 agony auntI agree with Emilysanswers - you need time alone to find out who it is you want. You may discover that it's less hastle to not be with either of them! Or that you want to be single.

If I were you, I'd be single and not see either of them for a while until I got my head sorted.

If you love them both, you'll stop messing them about like this - leaving one hanging and being with the other.

They were two good friends and they've fallen out over you - I think you should leave both of them and then maybe one day they'll patch things up.

You need time to think about this on your own and so do they.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2008):

From the way You Talk Like This, I would say that you are very immature for your age. And I think you need to be single for a while and not lead them both on.

Only you can decide who you like more, but the fact you think you like both of them says to me you don't really like either, as if you really cared about either of them you wouldn't be in this position.

Good Luck!! xx

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