A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I met this guy a month ago but the night we met he went on holiday the next day, when he came home he asked to meet me so i went round to his and we ended up having sex, a week later (friday just gone) he asked to go and see him again this time he was being very sweet and kept kissing and hugging me but after he said i dont want a relationship but would like to see you every friday and then he called me his sex buddy!! so i asked does this mean you will sleep with other women and he said yes but i will tell you if i do. and now he doesnt text much and if he does its just a smiling face, not sure what to think or do??? even worse cos he was being so lovely.. he said he not long broke up with his long term girlfriend and thats why he doesnt want another one. any advice would be great. Amy
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 August 2008):
Well if you want a sex buddy then great - keep seeing him, go round and have some fun.
If you want a boyfriend then tell him you can't be his sex buddy and that you risk falling for him if you try. Then stop seeing him and find someone new.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): He's only using you for sex! If you are happy with that fine but if you are finding yourself falling for him and wanting more, walk away.
He could easily meet some one else that he wants to be wiht and that leaves you on the side line then with nothing!
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