I will accept her invitation, so how can I tell her that I want to have sex with her?

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Question - (24 August 2008)

1 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2008)

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Not too long ago after graduating from college I went to spend a vacation

at a resort. It was planned to be a trip that a few of us were going to do

together. In the end none of the others made it. I went alone to the

resort.

I thought it still would be ok not to mention the sunny weather. On the

first evening at the evening party I met a woman who was older than I was. She

was still really attractive. We enjoyed talking and hit it off well. We ended

the evening dancing. We then planned on meeting the next day.

The next day I met her and she introduced me to her two children. They

seemed nice. She mentioned that she was a single mother. After meeting the

children she took them to their activities. They have activities for children to

do.

Then we spend some time together. We enjoyed talking and swimming. I have

to say that she looked really hot in her bathing suit.

In the days following they had day activities for children which her kids

loved doing. That left us to do other planned activities that were more

geared towards adults. We had a fun time spending time together and doing the

activities. We went to the evening parties together and enjoyed talking

and doing some kissing.

On the afternoon before the day that I was to leave her children went to

their activity. We were walking towards our planned activity and then she asked

if I would rather go to her room and have a drink and talk instead of going on

the group activity. I said that would be fine. We went to her room and ended

up having sex.

It was really good. I enjoyed being with her. It was passionate. When I

left the next day she gave me her contact information. Now I would really like

to see her again. I would like to go to visit her. She said that I was

invited to visit her. She did not say anything about what we would be doing or not doing if I visited her. In addition to spending time with her I would really

like to have sex with her again. How should I be clear about what I would like to do if I visited her? How can I tell her that I want to have sex with her

again?

Should I write her a letter, note, e-mail, or call her? What could I say

that would be a sexy way of expressing my desire?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 August 2008):

Are you saying that you ONLY want sex?

If you do then I think you should just tell her that you do not want a relationship at the moment but are happy to come and see her on a casual basis.

You can offer to stay at a hotel so the children do not have to see you and get confused thinking you are Mummy's Boyfriend.

Good Luck!! xx

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