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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 Emily is right, you know.
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
Fool me thrice, shame on me for not taking the advice I asked for.
I sincerely hope we don't see you with a later question saying that you regret having gone too far with him. Or worse, as Emily pointed out.
Take care of yourself.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (29 August 2008):
Yeah, this is the third time he's said he's sorry and won't do it again.
When he does be sure to remember that we told you he would and then dump him and cut contact straight away. I hope he doesn't go too far and you don't get raped.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): he's an asshole darling. all he cares about is sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): lol haha dat took him by suprise
Well thats solved that problem =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNope we havnt been alone much but he tried to grab at me today and i told him that i dont like it, its not respectful to me as a person and if he doesnt stop things when i tell him to i will break up with him and he just looked shocked and said sorry he wont do it again =]ah well
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reader, JamieG +, writes (27 August 2008):
 What happened? hope you broke up with him..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk i spoke to him on the phone and he seemed really sorry for what he done but he said he has never pressured me into anything and never would.. But he did didnt he? Im meeting him tomorrow so i will let you know what happens im going to take all your advice and dump him if he ever does anything like that again. Thanks :)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 August 2008):
DUMP HIM!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is 18 and im 15 so its illeagle for us to even do any of that stuff but he told me he was sorry today and didnt mean it to be that bad but then he done it again straight after! Even though i was digging my nails into his arm saying "no!" he just kept going "please? Oh C'mon! Why not? :("whenever we start doing anything like kissing he gets really carried away and its asif he doesnt care if i dont want him to ram his tongue down my throat or shove his hand down my trousers. He came back from the toilets and had his belt, zip and button undone and when i asked him why he said it was because i love it.. Its really getting quite freaky but i do love him.. I dunno what to do!?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 August 2008):
Any guy that continues to do something after you have told him to stop is not only taking advantage of you but committing sexual assault.
I'm not saying you should call the police or anything as that would be pointless but technically, he did assault you.
Break up with him, he's dangerous. What will he force you to do next?
If you don't break up with you then he is going to learn that forcing girls to do things is ok, and he could grow up to be a really dangerous man. Teach him that is is NEVER ok to do that to someone.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ChaseTerrier +, writes (25 August 2008):
Yes, he was taking advantage of you. You should think about breaking up with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): You shouldn't do anything your not comfortable with, and you know that.
Taking advantage of someone is like, when they're drunk coming onto them. Or when they're really upset and vulnerable.
Or of course, a guy using a girl.
You should absouletly say no to anything you don't wanna do, and you should tell him that face to face but not when your actually doing that kinda stuff. You need to say it when you're just together and you need to mean it.
If he tries anything like that again afterwards then you need to make it clear to him, even if you break up with him. If he does actually do something worse, you need to take further action.
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reader, Tunsat +, writes (25 August 2008):
I think the answer is a yes. He should stop when you tell him to but if he persists you have to show him that its unacceptable. You either stop all activity or grab him and give him a firm No. If you actually don't want him to do it don't let him do it.
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