Did he take advantage of me?!
Q. I was making out with my boyfriend tonight and he decided to take things further by putting his hands up my top while he lay on top of me kissing. I kept pulling his hand out of my top but he just kept going back to sneaking up my top! I kept ...
A. 29 August 2008: Yeah, this is the third time he's said he's sorry and won't do it again.
When he does be sure to remember that we told you he would and then dump him and cut contact straight away. I hope he doesn't go too far and you don't get raped.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
Is my mom's friend acting strange or am I reading into things?
Q. My mom has a guy friend Jeff (not real name) and hes nice and all but something seems strange about him.....when im home alone he'll call and ask what im doing for no reson and he always ask me "is any one there with you?!" then he'll tell/ask "ok ...
A. 29 August 2008: I'm so glad this weirdo is out of your life.
I'm glad your big brother and mum took your side immediately and protected you.
Big brothers are useful sometimes.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I think my family hate me, I don't want to stop visiting them, but I don't want to see them either...
Q. I think my family hate me. I've been through years if abuse from my mum. It got worse on my 17th birthday, which was last December and I didn't expect to wake up from it. I was meant to go into care at 12, but they somehow managed to stop it. I g...
A. 27 August 2008: If you are self harming then stop seeing your family and seek medical help.
Nothing you do will make your family care. They are horrible people and will get their cumuppence one day.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I am addicted to looking at perfect men, and can't stop fantasizing! It's upsetting my boyfriend, how do I stop?.
Q. I have a problem.. I cant seem to stop checking out other men... whenever a handsome man enters my field of vision I am transfixed. I love the look of a strong toned torso, muscular arms, a nice butt, and a handsome face... I am like a drug addict ...
A. 27 August 2008: Well you are not a freak, we get so many questions from people about porn addiction, although they are usually from women who are very upset about their men doing it.
It is a serious threat to your relationship though so I would really try hard... (read in full...)
Tell me...why does he run off to the bathroom after a handjob?
Q. I have been giving my boyfriend handjobs for his pleasure. I noticed that recently after I stop moving my hands. He ends up running to the bathroom? Did I do something wrong? I always ask him if I'm hurting him or not while giving a handjob, but he ...
A. 27 August 2008: If he's not come then that's what he's up to. If he has then he might need to loo.
Some guys find they need to go to the loo after they come.
Ask him more specifically why he dissapears after you do that for him. Asking him if he is Ok is obvi... (read in full...)
I don't feel "that" special person is my ex, as she has emotional baggage and I am not ready for an exlusive relationship just yet. What do you think?
Q. Okay, I'm seeing this woman who's a bit older than me (I'm 24 she's 31) and she's also my ex. Things seemed to be going well enough, until she revealed to me that she's looking for an exclusive (as well as sexual) relationship with me, something ...
A. 27 August 2008: If you are not ready to be in this kind of relationship with this woman then don't be.
Be polite and tell her you can't give her what she needs and will hurt her if you tried and failed.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I think my family hate me, I don't want to stop visiting them, but I don't want to see them either...
Q. I think my family hate me. I've been through years if abuse from my mum. It got worse on my 17th birthday, which was last December and I didn't expect to wake up from it. I was meant to go into care at 12, but they somehow managed to stop it. I g...
A. 27 August 2008: I truely believe that just because some one is a blood relative, it dosen't mean they have a right to be in your life.
If they are not making you happy then cut them out. You have a partner, he is your family.
Friends are more important. Leave... (read in full...)
He tells me he doesn't like relationships, then continues to flirt intensively; I don't know how to read this guy?
Q. Ok last night i was hanging out on my porch with my "the boy next door crush" There was alot of flirting, touching,cuddling kind of stuff going on. I mean we were like hanging out for like an hour and a half and it was like non stop flirting. Well...
A. 27 August 2008: Well he's told you up front that he doesn't want a girlfriend.
So if you continue to flirt cuddle and anything else then it is just fun. He will not want to be your boyfriend and may also be going cuddling and flirting with other girls too.
... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might be infertile because unprotected sex did not lead to pregnancy...
Q. me and my boyfriend had sex and he cummed in me, i didn't get pregnant which was a good thing but now it's got me wondering how come? and is it because i might be infertile? im so paranoid, please help...
A. 27 August 2008: No you just got lucky.
If you are not old enough to understand your own biology and about cycles then you are not old enough to have a baby.
Get yourself on the pill and use condoms.
You also need to get an STD test as you could have chlamy... (read in full...)
I don't know if he's just a bad kisser or if there is a problem with me...
Q. Okay iv been going out with this guy for just under 4 months, i think hes a really amazing guy and love him to bits. however i find kissing him a realy turn-off. He is my first proper boy friend, and i felt even the first time we kissed he dived ...
A. 27 August 2008: Some boys are just bad kissers. Especially at your age where boys things it's all about opening their mouth as wide as possible and shoving their tongue in.
Next time he does it just pull back and tell him sweetly to kiss you softly. Then get him ... (read in full...)
Pressured to a have child or lose my partner!
Q. I have been with my partner for 7 years since we were just teenagers. He has recently told me that he wants marriage and children within the next 2 or 3 years but I am not sure I do. Its not a flat no from my side but I just dont know (if ever) that ...
A. 27 August 2008: Well to demand that and put a time frame on it is a bit rough to be honest. Most couple discuss things like marriage and kids and work it out from there.
If you want to be with him forever then the marriage bit is no problem as you can be happily ... (read in full...)
Is this Turkish man trying to con me or is he for real?
Q. I met a Turkish man (A bar owner 20 years younger than me on holiday) He tried it on sexually with me but i told him i do not sleep with some one i do not know. Next day he told me he wanted a future with me and wants me to move to Turkey. He said ...
A. 26 August 2008: I think any man who probably chats to hundreds and hundreds of women in a bar every summer and decides he's in love after 6 days is either a nut job or possibly unique.
Keep your relationship long distance and see how he copes with that. Your dau... (read in full...)
Am I fetishizing foreign women?
Q. I am a white male but almost all the girls I date have been black, hispanic, asian, ect. I don't why I just like dating outside my race, but somebody said I was fetishizing foriegn women when I do that. Is it bad to date exclusively outside your ...
A. 26 August 2008: I'm tall and I really don't like being with a guy who is smaller than me. It doesn't mean I'm fetishing over tall men, it's just what I like.
As long as you treat these women well and love them for their personality as well as their looks then tha... (read in full...)
Love to be single, but love belonging to someone, too. What should I do?
Q. dear cupid, i have a problem, im 18 and im 90% of the time single and am a freshman in college now and i love to be single and go out every weekend and just have an absolute blast and im not really boycrazy (i don't die everytime a hot guy smiles at ...
A. 26 August 2008: It is nice to be in a relationship but you can be equally happy being single.
Why not NOT decide what you want to be. You don't have to be completely single or completely hunting for a husband.
Go out, have fun and if you meet a guy who you re... (read in full...)
He is going away for about 10 months. Can we be faithful to each other? Are we too young?
Q. Okaii...so here is my situation:I'm 16, and my bf is going to the states for almost a year, to see his family and stuff.He's leaving on the 7th of spetember or so, then coming back in july next year.He told a friend of mine that he's gunna be ...
A. 26 August 2008: I'm an army wife and my husband goes away for 6 months at a time.
It is incredibly hard, especially for one so young.
If I were you then I would agree that you will take it just one week at a time. As long as you are honest with eachother t... (read in full...)
How do I get my live in boyfriend to start looking for a new place to live for us?
Q. i live with my boyfriend, and he had asked me to move in with him. i am so tired of the place that we are living and i keep trying to talk to him so we can move. he tells me that he doesnt want to live there either, but he wont do anything about ...
A. 26 August 2008: Tell him that you are moving out.
When he complains tell him you thought he didn't want to move with you since he was putting no effort into leaving the place that he knew you hated.
If you hate something and he is too lazy to help you fix it ... (read in full...)
Poll Question: Would you rather hear a lie that brought a smile or a truth that brought a tear?
Q. im curious.. which would you rather?.... poll question :) a lie that brings a smile? or the truth that brings a tear?...
A. 26 August 2008: If I'm walking down the street then I'd rather someone told me a knock knock joke than pointed out my top and skirt didn't match.
I'f it's to do with a relationship then I pick truth everytime. Lying to someone is never ever the right thing to... (read in full...)
I think maybe I am depressed.
Q. Lately I been havin crazy thoughts on my mind... such as being bullied emotionally by others... I keep remembering my crazy pasts... Only negtive thoughts go thru my mind... I feel like im loosin it... I cry every night... I think I suffer ...
A. 26 August 2008: You sound very depressed.
Take up something new. Go for a walk bofore bed and do something physical to tire out your brain. Watch your diet as a good diet means a healthy mind.
If it doesn't get any better of if you start getting thoughts... (read in full...)
The "friend" I introduced to MY friends and helped acclimatise to MY uni, has stolen my friends and is spreading lies about me!
Q. i will try not to make this long! but basically i have had this friend who i have known for 3 years since college. during our time as friends the friendship began to get weak i noticed alot of flaws about her etc, anyway we both strted university ...
A. 26 August 2008: Well you need to talk to the friends you have lost and find out why they are suddenly so angry with you.
Luckily there are a million clubs and groups you can join and make lots of new friends, so you can always move into new social circles ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me because we can't have a future, as his parents are against our relationship...
Q. Hello!! Am rana from egypt need your help...I'm in a first year in my college i felt in love with aguy who loved me so much but he was younger than me i'm born in 1989 and he, in 1990....he told me to tell my mum about our relationship and i told ...
A. 26 August 2008: You don't say why his parents don't like you. Is there no way you can meet them and show them what a wonderful daughter you would be?
If he is chosing to stay under the power of his parents then there is nothing you can do. Find a man who can make... (read in full...)
I am having trouble being what he wants me to be. Help me before I lose him!
Q. I've been a single mother for 10 yrs.And i've been really hurt in the past from other guys. And now I've been seeing this absolutly wonderful guy for 5 mths.We are currently seperated though.Our current problem is that he wants me to talk more with ...
A. 26 August 2008: Well you just have to take a breath and talk to him about things.
I know I was terrified of tell my hubbie when he upset me for a long time because when I was with my ex, if I DARED to say I was upset, then it would all end up as my fault until I ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned for my mother's safety and well being, but I'm barred from any contact with her! Please help.
Q. Help! My Mum is disabled due to a brain tumour, she is unable to look after herself properly. I would visit everyday to make sure she is okay also take her to any appoinments etc. She lives with my sister and her family. My sister fell out with me J...
A. 26 August 2008: I agree with Tellulah, Social Services will be able to help. Tell them why you fear for her safety and if you think your sister is keeping her captive so to speak.
Is there no one else in your family that could act as a go between?
Good Lu... (read in full...)
I'm thinking because he replied to my email, perhaps he does still want contact?
Q. Hi i'm confused a little, I sent the email below to my ex b/f after several weeks of him ignoring my txts and not talking to me on the pc. I was surprised to receive a reply and am wondering, 1st - why he did reply and 2nd what action i should take ...
A. 26 August 2008: Well he's probably replied thinking "great she wants to cut contact." He just wants to say "Goodbye, so long and thanks for all the good times."
Leave it at that and move on. You've got your memories and being friends with an ex normally only hol... (read in full...)
I definitely can't move past my ex but I want to stay with my g/f, yet I want my ex to be interested again. Can you advise me?
Q. i am currently in a new relationship with a girl who i have known for 4 years. she is very sweet and beautiful and really cares about me. i am currently in love with my year-long ex girlfriend who i know is my soulmate. she is nine days older than...
A. 26 August 2008: You are basically staying with your current girlfriend because there is not a better option available.
You want to be with this other girl, but you don't want to be single. I'm sorry to be blunt but you are being REALLY selfish.
Have you cons... (read in full...)
I've become increasingly bored with our relationship and with my boyfriend, but I still love him. Please help.
Q. I love my boyfriend. He is extremely sweet and kind and we have been dating for more than three years. However lately I have become increasingly bored with our relationship and with him. I keep having these crazy thoughts like he's not good-looking ...
A. 26 August 2008: Well if you have tried breaking up with him then doing it again and again is just cruel.
It could just be that you've hit the 3 year point where people's feelings change.
It's a new stage and you just have to both put the effort in to spi... (read in full...)
Is it naive to expect a relationship to blossom after what she's said?
Q. I've been seeing this girl for 5-6 weeks, meeting for a date every week. She had just come out of a painful breakup a year before. It was going quite well, she's very shy, reciprocating all my texts and kisses. But often not initiating it, I put ...
A. 26 August 2008: I think she meant what she said. She just wants to be your friend.
If you want to be her friend then that's great, but don't expect anything more for a good long while. If what you want is a girlfriend then I think you should look elsewher... (read in full...)
I have a real problem and it's time I admitted it. I'm worried it will ruin my marriage. Help me before it's too late, please.
Q. I have a real problem and it's time I admitted it. I’m obsessed with chatting to people on the internet. Before I met my 'now' wife I used to use the chatrooms on AOL and meet women. I would sometimes end up meeting them. I met my wife at ...
A. 26 August 2008: Well you are already doing well so keep doing what you are doing. Get real life friends and do things with your wife, get romantic so you can get HER to make you feel sexy.
You've deleted a lot of sites but here is a bit of a suggestion. Most int... (read in full...)
No one will be around when I want to socialise, I'm going to be lonely, what could I do?
Q. I don't know what to do, as soon as all my friends go back to Uni in September - I wont have no one to hang out with. I don't have a boyfriend either, so I'll be lonely. I'll probably get more into my job, but there's only so far you can go in my l...
A. 26 August 2008: You say there is only so far you can go in your libe of work... well now is the best time to find a new line of work or take a new qualification at night so you can find a job that you can climb as high as you want.
What do you want to do with you... (read in full...)
I want to lose weight by christmas, please help!
Q. Hey i wonder if you can give me some advice. I have been wanting to lose weight for some time now, i am 23, 5'6" and weight 11 1/2 stone. I have never had a problem with my weight before, until i met my partner got comfortable and had our beautiful ...
A. 26 August 2008: Joining a group is great as you feel motivated from that and there is extra peer pressure when you have to go and admit you've eaten cake all week.
Also try and change the way you eat. Only eat it sitting down, and take a sip of water between ... (read in full...)
I stopped taking the pill... is sex without a condom ok?
Q. hi all im on the pill and when i was taking the pill i was having sex with my bf then when i stop taking it , cause i start taking the packet on a monday and continue the course till the packet runs out which is a sunday , then the following we...
A. 26 August 2008: It could go either way, but to be honest I really don't think it is worth taking the risk.
It's only 4 or 5 days a month so I am sure your boyfriend won't mind using condoms for that time.
It's always better to be safe than sorry. Just keep... (read in full...)
She still admits that I am the one for her, yet won't return to me, as I have betrayed her trust. Any hopes for me?
Q. I was with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, the reason we broke up is becuase of general male ego. I started flirting with her cousin and we also talked about each others sex lives. No way did it go any further nor did i want it to. But she did, I ...
A. 26 August 2008: You have to give her more time to regain your trust, but in that time you have to show her that you really want her back. Spend time as friends and show her how great you are together. Remind her of the connection you had explain properly about why ... (read in full...)
When I ask about a baby she says she wants to get married first...
Q. me and my girlfriend are to gether for 6 years i want baby from my girlfriend, my girlfriend told me she wants to have some fun first,in august of 2008 my girlfriend sent her son to ny with his aunt, and her daughter is with aunt,when i ask about ...
A. 26 August 2008: Well marry her then!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should we break up for a while or should he schedule better and make everyone happy, me and his friends?
Q. For the longest time my boyfriend would spend every waking moment with me and not his friends, these days its the other way around. In a way I'm jealous, but I don't think he's spending as much time with me as he should. He plans on going far away ...
A. 26 August 2008: You need to tell him how you feel but it shouldn't be a matter of just him having to do all the scheduling. Call him and arrange to do some quality things in advance.
Like next Tuesday arange to have dinner and see Hellboy 2 at the cinema. ... (read in full...)
She is already cheating on the guy I caught her with, what can I do to heal?
Q. I know I shouldn't care, but it is unbeleivable. I Thought I knew the her. I have lost faith. She has no heart and is only an unfaithful woman. She is already cheating on the guy I caught her with. What can I do to heal? I know i am better off w...
A. 26 August 2008: You can look on this and realise it is not your fault that she cheated. You just happened to be one in a live of people who were simply collateral damage to her.
She obviously has some deep problems that she needs to deal with. You were just cau... (read in full...)
What is Englands Policy or law on teenaged immigrants?
Q. An american teenager somehow finds a way to get all the way across the pacific ocean to england and lives there for about three weeks before being caught. Figuratively, what would happen to him or her once caught? Does England have a policy or law ...
A. 26 August 2008: If they had a fake passport it's very unlikely they would get in to the UK in the first place. We are almost as bad as you when it comes to letting people come through arrivals.
If you did get through then you probably wouldn't get caught as long ... (read in full...)
Are "Scorpio" women more jealous?
Q. I don't really believe in horoscopes or things like that, but being born under the "Scorpio" sign I do find myself being kind of jealous over my man. And I'm wondering if other women (or men) who are born under the Scorpio sign have problems with ...
A. 26 August 2008: Yes 1 in 12 of the population is incredibly jealous.
If you really believe that the entire universe and its start systems revolves around you and it's role in existence is to predict that you'll have a bad day at work, then yes it's because ... (read in full...)
Is my mom's friend acting strange or am I reading into things?
Q. My mom has a guy friend Jeff (not real name) and hes nice and all but something seems strange about him.....when im home alone he'll call and ask what im doing for no reson and he always ask me "is any one there with you?!" then he'll tell/ask "ok ...
A. 26 August 2008: You have to tell your mum but you don't have to be all accusing about it.
Just tell her that he came over without warning and walked in on you in the shower the other day, and could she please ask him not to come over when she is not there.
... (read in full...)
What is the difference between cum and pre-cum?
Q. What is the difference between precum and cum and how do u tell the difference? I had sex and the boy took his penis out of me after couple minutes and there were clear fluid. I thought cum was white but this were only clear. It squirted like 3 ...
A. 26 August 2008: pre cum is a clear liquid that comes out of his penis to lubricate himself. It contains tiny bits of semen so it is possible it can get you pregnant.
This is why the withdrawal method DOES NOT WORK.
Use condoms, or better still don't have sex a... (read in full...)
We're a sexually adventurous couple - could we make money from this?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been making some sexual discoverys together. We've tried anal together and sorry to put it so lewdly but I have to go into detail. He likes being fisted and we both like - if you would call it anal oral. We want to try more ...
A. 26 August 2008: http://watchme.com/
Yep you can get paid per minute watched on this site.
It's not a lot though so don't give up the day job.
Amateur porn stars are 10 a penny and that's roughly what you get paid.
Just consider what would happen in 10... (read in full...)
How can I get my man to have another baby with me?
Q. How can i get my man to have another baby with me. We have been married for 7 years have two great kids boy an girl. But i have something inside of me i cant explain that i need another baby.He say's he doesn't want another and thats it.any tips on ...
A. 26 August 2008: This question got asked yesterday so I suggest you go and have a look at the answers to that.
To sum up the answer I gave to it...
Find out why he doesn't want another one.
If it's financial then get another job so you can pay a bit more o... (read in full...)
My best friends boyfriend kissed me, I have no idea how to tell her.
Q. Sooo, I need some advice. The other night I got drunk with my best friend and her boyfriend. Me and her boyfriend have always had this unspoken tension between us. Well it finally came out when he kissed me. And then he kissed me again the next ...
A. 26 August 2008: He might have been the one to kiss you but you let him do it.
You have both betrayed her. But it was only a kiss. I think you just don't tell her and you agree that it DID NOT HAPPEN. Never speak of it again.
Then you need to spend less time ... (read in full...)
Did he take advantage of me?!
Q. I was making out with my boyfriend tonight and he decided to take things further by putting his hands up my top while he lay on top of me kissing. I kept pulling his hand out of my top but he just kept going back to sneaking up my top! I kept ...
A. 25 August 2008: DUMP HIM!... (read in full...)
I love both my ex and my girlfriend. They give me ear ache about eachother. I need to pick one.. but which one?
Q. The Girl I Am With Now Is Called Tasha I Bin With Her Nearly 2 Month Now But I Was With Her A Year And Half Befor The Ex [ Natalie ] When I Was With Tasha For The Year And Half Tasha And Nat Were Best Mates But Then They Fell Out And I B...
A. 25 August 2008: From the way You Talk Like This, I would say that you are very immature for your age. And I think you need to be single for a while and not lead them both on.
Only you can decide who you like more, but the fact you think you like both of them say... (read in full...)
Did he take advantage of me?!
Q. I was making out with my boyfriend tonight and he decided to take things further by putting his hands up my top while he lay on top of me kissing. I kept pulling his hand out of my top but he just kept going back to sneaking up my top! I kept ...
A. 25 August 2008: Any guy that continues to do something after you have told him to stop is not only taking advantage of you but committing sexual assault.
I'm not saying you should call the police or anything as that would be pointless but technically, he did assa... (read in full...)
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