Why won't she give me her number?
Q. I tried to get this girls number off of myyearbook.com, here's how the conversation went: Me: You have really pretty hair :) Her: Aha,thank youuu Me: You're welcome :) Her: :) Me: Can I have your number? Her: No Me: Ok. Why w...
A. 18 June 2012: Many people have replied and you're still asking...! Read the replies again.
You approached it wrong by going too fast. A couple of messages and then asking for her number is too fast. You could've struck up a bit of conversation first, had a bi... (read in full...)
Why won't she give me her number?
Q. I tried to get this girls number off of myyearbook.com, here's how the conversation went: Me: You have really pretty hair :) Her: Aha,thank youuu Me: You're welcome :) Her: :) Me: Can I have your number? Her: No Me: Ok. Why w...
A. 18 June 2012: Many people have replied and you're still asking...! Read the replies again.
You approached it wrong by going too fast. A couple of messages and then asking for her number is too fast. You could've struck up a bit of conversation first, had a bi... (read in full...)
Would you let this person back into your life slowly?
Q. Lets say you love someone and they are the love of your life they disappear for 9 months nothing involving you but rather cause they were messing up their own life and they had to leave cause they were doing stupid things and they didn't want you to ...
A. 17 June 2012: I would only let him back in to my life if I knew that he'd addressed the heavy drinking, if I knew exactly what lead to him being imprisoned and whether or not I felt it likely that he'd do the same again. People don't go to prison for nothing - I ... (read in full...)
Why won't she give me her number?
Q. I tried to get this girls number off of myyearbook.com, here's how the conversation went: Me: You have really pretty hair :) Her: Aha,thank youuu Me: You're welcome :) Her: :) Me: Can I have your number? Her: No Me: Ok. Why w...
A. 17 June 2012: You asked for her number much too quickly and she was wise not to give you her number (nothing personal - she should not be handing her number out to anyone she doesn't know). Yes, this is confusing given what she wrote on her profile. Maybe she'll ... (read in full...)
Why did he disappear? I haven't heard from him in a week
Q. Dear friends, I hope you can help me out with my problem, I met a man 2 months ago at some friends house dinner and we started a beautiful friendship, he doesn't live in the same country but visits it quite often almost every month. He's 23 years ...
A. 17 June 2012: It's only been 8 weeks and there's so much drama?! And he's 23 years older than you and lives in another country...This doesn't strike me as being much fun. Seriously I think you can do better than this disrespectful man and I wish you well. ... (read in full...)
Is there a way for me to repair any damage that I may have done by sleeping with him too soon?
Q. I met a man on an Internet site. We talked that way for about a week before speaking on the phone. We got along great and after speaking several times a day on the phone decided to meet. A few days after our first date, I made the mistake of ...
A. 17 June 2012: You say that he is still telling you that he's crazy about you and still texting several times a day so in what way is he cooling off? Are you sure that he is cooling off or is it possible that you're reading too much into things?
You know wha... (read in full...)
I told my bf I loved him, but he didn't feel the same. Now he's backtracking. Am I wasting my time?
Q. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we see one another every fornight. We get on very well I've met his family been invited on their holidays next January, he treats me, taken me on holiday an...
A. 16 June 2012: You can fall in love in 6 days or 6 weeks, let alone 6 months. I think it might be an idea to give him some space so he can sort his head out. It's hard to do when you love someone but it's better to find out where you stand sooner rather than ... (read in full...)
Why are straights more curious about whose gay than the gays?
Q. All "straight" and "gay" answers are appreciated. Why is it that my coworkers (females) are constantly asking me about my personal life? They're always curious to know whether the person I'm dating is male or female. In my head I'm like who the fuk ...
A. 16 June 2012: I think they are just inquisitive, and not necessarily judging you being negative. I am very open minded about homosexuality with lots of gay friends. A new girl started at work a few years ago and I wondered whether she was gay. I wasn't ... (read in full...)
My BF says he doesn't need to wear a condom because he smokes.... is this true?
Q. My boyfriend smokes so should he wear a condom when we start to have sex because I've heard it's more difficult for a girl to get pregnant from a boy who smokes cigarettes?...
A. 16 June 2012: Yes of course he should wear a condom. You are so naive - I suggest you go to a family planning centre or to your GP to get some facts and advise on birth control. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
Are my anxious fears about my future ability, to satisfy her, valid or invalid?
Q. I'm 19 years old, and my girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years. She and I are both virgins, and we both want to wait until we are married to each other to make love together. My penis is 6 inches long when completely erect. S...
A. 12 June 2012: I agree with the other advise you've been offered, and just remember that it's not all about the penis and penetrative sex.
Being realistic, the first few times probably won't be amazing but it will get better and better!... (read in full...)
How can I kick her out?
Q. I broke up with my partner about 3 weeks ago as her behaviour has been awful and disrespectful in the last few months getting worst up to the day we broke up. I then discovered she was cheating on me. I caught her once before and forgave her 2 years ...
A. 10 June 2012: I suspect you have already had words with your wife about this but does she know how seriously you are taking it, i.e. thinking of locking her out and taking legal advise? If not, you should tell her. Not as a threat, but to make her see how serious ... (read in full...)
How can I kick her out?
Q. I broke up with my partner about 3 weeks ago as her behaviour has been awful and disrespectful in the last few months getting worst up to the day we broke up. I then discovered she was cheating on me. I caught her once before and forgave her 2 years ...
A. 10 June 2012: Are you on good terms with her parents? Can you ask them for some help/ advise (without telling them about the "whoring" stuff)? It sounds like your wife could do with some support, but I appreciate that your priority is the well being of your ... (read in full...)
I looked in my boyfriend's email and guess what I found!
Q. I am 21 and have been with my current bf for over two years. about six or seven months ago I found a questionable email in my bfs email. it was dated at least two years prior to meeting him and it was from a guy in the email my bf asked this guy to ...
A. 10 June 2012: Hmmm well he certainly sounds bisexual if not gay.
Do you think he's done anything physically with the guy or is it only flirting/ emails?
He's not being honest with you. That much is clear. He might be confused about his feelings if he's... (read in full...)
He said porn was better than me, now he finishes too quickly with me!
Q. Hi all, got quite a long story to tell and i want your advice. I'm 25 and when I met my boyfriend he was a virgin, he's 36. Well, he has been masturbating to visuals for nearly 20 years. I entered into a relationship with him not really thinking ...
A. 9 June 2012: Probably a man needs to answer this but this is what I think:
He got too used to using porn to get off and was almost fully dependent on it to get aroused etc. Hopefully the 'too quick' thing will even itself out - maybe it's because he's not mast... (read in full...)
Baggage from the break-up is getting in the way with new guys
Q. My boyfriend and i split up 8 months ago but he wont stop texting me abusive texts, leaving abusive messages (still after this long)etc. He calls me such horrible names and makes me feel like its my fault that he got depressed because i broke up ...
A. 9 June 2012: OK regarding your ex: his behaviour is totally, totally unacceptable. It is harassment. You could go and talk to someone at your local police station about this. I know from experience what happens. You will write a statement of what's happened. A ... (read in full...)
My six yr old son doesn't want to meet my new partner
Q. split with my ex 2 years ago and we have a lil lad of 6. When we split we agreed if we got with any one else we would meet the person b4 letting lad get involved. Ive met a lovely woman and have been with her 8mths. The ex and lad know bout her. ...
A. 9 June 2012: Try suggesting it again and make it about something that he would really enjoy, and tell him that she is coming along as your friend (*nothing more* - he doesn't need to think about her as anything more than that at this stage and he doesn't have to ... (read in full...)
I've had 3 kids and b/f says I'm tight. Is he just saying that? I don't quite believe him
Q. I have 3 kids and I'm engaged to be married. I've been with my fiance for almost a year now and one thing he says really bother me when we have sex. He always says my vagina is really tight and how he loves having sex with me. His average size down ...
A. 8 June 2012: I wouldn't want to have sex the same way each time either, it gets really boring and if it's always rough then you probably crave a bit of tenderness now and then. That's normal and reasonable and you should tell him. I once had a partner who always ... (read in full...)
I've had 3 kids and b/f says I'm tight. Is he just saying that? I don't quite believe him
Q. I have 3 kids and I'm engaged to be married. I've been with my fiance for almost a year now and one thing he says really bother me when we have sex. He always says my vagina is really tight and how he loves having sex with me. His average size down ...
A. 8 June 2012: It's a compliment! Even if you're not as tight as you once were and he's trying to make you feel good, isn't that still a positive rather than a negative? You're obviously not 'loose' down there so it's not like he could be making fun of you. Enjoy!... (read in full...)
B/f has domestic charges and child endagerment against him. Should I be concerned?
Q. I have a new boyfriend that I have been dating for a few months now. He's really nice to me and treats me well. He recently told me that he has a domestic violence conviction. He tells me it was a male roommate who he got into a fight with. After he ...
A. 8 June 2012: The heavy drinking alone is enough to throw this fish back in to the pond! ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he'll go off with someone else if I don't solve this problem!
Q. Hey so I have been with my boyfriend stuart for 5 months now and we plan to stay together for a long time. However, we haven't had sex yet as it hurts me too much which I don't understand. I lost my virginity before me and stuart got together and ...
A. 6 June 2012: Hi. I think you need to go back to your doctor and explain that you tried the KY and it is still painful. I'm sure there's nothing seriously wrong physically but no one can really help solve this except your doctor. Did you see a female one? - if ... (read in full...)
It seems like his mother is deliberately interfering -- and he lets her
Q. I have been going out with a really nice guy for about a year ,i see him quite often and i go and stay with him for a while .The problem i have noticed is his mother seems to ask him to do jobs for her when i'm down and if he has made plans for us ...
A. 6 June 2012: Does he live with his mum and if yes, has he ever lived independently of her? Sounds like mum might be a bit jealous or feels threatened that she might lose him.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will be away for 2 weeks and I don't think I can cope with it
Q. Hi, My boyfriend of over 2 years is away to Europe for the next 2 weeks due to work commitments. We are extremely close, and best friends as well as a couple. This means that we see each other literally all the time and enjoy each other's constant...
A. 5 June 2012: It's the perfect time for you to make some friends. OK, that might sound like too much of a challenge so start with making one friend and go from there. Ask a colleague from work if they want to go for a drink after work or if they want to have ... (read in full...)
I just want an innocent relationship, but guys run when I say 'no sex'
Q. My boyfriend wants to have sex... But I don't! I'm only 14. I'm an attractive girl, but every guy asks for sex anywhere I say no they run.. I just want an innocent relationship. I we can touch, and kiss but not sex.. How do I get a guy I be ohkay ...
A. 5 June 2012: You sound very mature and I am really glad to read that you're standing your ground. At the age of 14, you shouldn't feel abnormal for not wanting to have sex. Don't let anyone make you feel that you're the odd one out because there are plenty of ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will be away for 2 weeks and I don't think I can cope with it
Q. Hi, My boyfriend of over 2 years is away to Europe for the next 2 weeks due to work commitments. We are extremely close, and best friends as well as a couple. This means that we see each other literally all the time and enjoy each other's constant...
A. 5 June 2012: OP, some people have been a bit blunt but no one has been rude of has set out to upset you. People are actually trying to be supportive. It can be a bit surprising to read your post without knowing about the depression. My own first thought was ... (read in full...)
How can I keep it a secret if I get involved with a married man?
Q. I posted a question earlier about a relationship with an older man who is married with children. I thought he was flirting with me and it turns out he was. We met to talk about the project we're both involved in and he drove me home (again!). I...
A. 5 June 2012: I don't think you can keep it a secret but that's not the point.
Think about this properly. You don't *have* to take things further with this guy. It's your choice, and you should make that choice based on thinking of all of the positive and nega... (read in full...)
Should I cheat on him?
Q. Ok ok I can do this _ SO! This is my first question on a site like this so... If this question is dumb please be gentle.. Sooo I have a boyfriend I love him a lot! The thing is it's long distance and things get a bit... lonely.. He's a total video ...
A. 5 June 2012: Yes of course it would be horrible to cheat on him and you know that. There is no such thing as a "small little tiny fling". A fling is a fling. And I'm not sure if you're a virgin or not, but I'd really advise that you *don't* lose your virginity ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will be away for 2 weeks and I don't think I can cope with it
Q. Hi, My boyfriend of over 2 years is away to Europe for the next 2 weeks due to work commitments. We are extremely close, and best friends as well as a couple. This means that we see each other literally all the time and enjoy each other's constant...
A. 5 June 2012: You didn't mention your recent diagnosis of depression in your original post, and it's relevant to your situation. I think that people such as N91 are trying to help you rather than attack you. You are feeling fragile at the moment, but I don't ... (read in full...)
All my boyfriend seems to want is sex
Q. I've ended my unhappy marriage of 20 years. Then I met this man 19 years older than me. He gives me all the attention I've craved for years. We live in separate houses. He's helpful in my house. But he always wants sex when I'm with him. Even if ...
A. 5 June 2012: I had a similar problem. A boyfriend who always wanted sex each time we met, and effectively refused to meet up if it wasn't on the cards, e.g. when I was menstruating or if one of us had a cold. On the few occasions we met up and I said 'no' he ... (read in full...)
She looks at me when I'm working out
Q. there is this girl that i know, she is really pretty and she goes to the gym. last week i told her that she doesn't need to wear the bib. under 15 at the gym need to wear a bib and there only allowed for an hour, i look a bit old so i get away with ...
A. 2 June 2012: Just think of another topic. You've done the bib thing - was that to work out her age? Anyway, just say "hi" and start chatting to her about whatever seems appropriate - it could be asking about what music she likes, for example "do you like the ... (read in full...)
He hurt me so much yet I still love him and want him back
Q. Hi there. I need some advice I have just ended a nine year relashionship and now five months on I feel it was the biggest mistake of my life, all I do is constantly think about him and realise just how much I love him, we finished because he had an ...
A. 2 June 2012: What kind of saunas did he go to that have him an STI?? I immediately thought of the saunas where people have men sex with strangers, but always assumed that was just a guy on guy thing. Are there saunas like that for heterosexuals?!
You describe... (read in full...)
I care for her but being in a relationship with her felt weird. Did I do the right thing by breaking up?
Q. I've been seeing this girl for over a year now and i've never really seen it as a relationship. Over the past couple of months I've started to feel weird and uncomfortable as it felt like it was getting too relationshippy. I'm quite a flirt bu...
A. 2 June 2012: This is quite confusing to read. What you descibe is a relationship... you get on really well, you care for her alot, you are intimate together and you are not having sex with anyone else. But something is missing. Have you chosen not to have sex ... (read in full...)
I don't want to know about a girl's sexual past. Why do women find that shallow?
Q. Why do women find my rule shallow? I have this rule when dating that I absolutely DO NOT want to know anything about a girls past sexually. I have this rule because I'm a virgin and I already know that everyone else has a past and to refrain from ...
A. 2 June 2012: Your rule is the very opposite of shallow!
I completely agree and never EVER discuss this kind of thing with men I date. If he brings up the subject of "how many" I change the subject.
I can't think why these girls want to discuss it with ... (read in full...)
B/f had 3 year relationship with me a baby, then I find out he was seeing another woman for 6 years!
Q. I was with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and 3 days before i gave birth to our now 2 month old son the 'other woman' knocked my door and i found out he was having a on and off again relationship with her for 6 years! Even though she found out ...
A. 2 June 2012: Of course you're hurt - what an awful situation. Listen, you can move on from this. You have to make the decision yourself whether you want to move on with him or without him, though. I think that you will be absolutely fine on your own, and yes ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my boyfriend but his mom will be my teacher next year! Should I go ahead anyway?
Q. i want to break up with my boyfriend because he has been talking with my emeny but the thing is that his mom will be my science teacher next year and tennis person, should i still break up with him?...
A. 29 May 2012: Well if you have good reason, or even if you don't and still want to break up with him, then break up with him.
His mother is teacher - a professional woman. She is not going to get angry with you or take it out on you - she would risk losing h... (read in full...)
He comments on everyone's FB pics except mine??
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for four months and we are friends on Facebook obviously. What bugs me is he has never liked or commented on any of my pictures but I see him commenting on my friends pictures saying things like "awww" and ...
A. 28 May 2012: Why not talk to him about it? Personally I don't think it's a problem, but it is a problem for you or you wouldn't have posted, so perhaps you should bring it up in a light hearted way (don't make a big deal out of it). ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend stalks me by using fake FB accounts and it's getting creepy
Q. We've been together since 3 months. The first week we were dating I caught him writing to me from a fake Facebook profile (my friend noticed the profile's page on his Iphone). It was just a smalltalk so I asummed this is normal and wrote some stuff ...
A. 28 May 2012: Well done. It is totally over. It may take time for it to sink in to his stubborn (putting in kindly) head but you've said what you needed to say. If he starts being troublesome you will need to nip that right in the bud - you may have to be cruel ... (read in full...)
Everything was going so well but all of a sudden she started ignoring me and wont explain what has gone wrong! Help!
Q. I am helpless and dont know what should i do, Actually i was with a girl from last few years and she was more that a girlfriend to me and loved her with full devotion, Whenever we were together, She used to force me to get her introduced to my ...
A. 28 May 2012: It's really hard to say because there must be lots of cultural issues which I can't really be aware of (you are in India and I'm British) but you say her mother doesn't approve of the match. Can you think of any reason for that, and could your ... (read in full...)
Internet encounter ended after numerous suggestions of a three-way!
Q. I got in to a situation with a guy from an internet dating site. I am there to meet with guys to eventually find a boyfriend, and this guy was quite clear from the start that he was just out of a relationship and was looking for "a lover". I thought ...
A. 28 May 2012: Ladies, thanks so much for your replies. I agree, I think he's badgered his g/f into a threesome. I feel sorry for her. He is the one with the bad/ wrong mind. I gave him hell for saying that to me by the way (having a bad mind). I told him he sh... (read in full...)
Internet encounter ended after numerous suggestions of a three-way!
Q. I got in to a situation with a guy from an internet dating site. I am there to meet with guys to eventually find a boyfriend, and this guy was quite clear from the start that he was just out of a relationship and was looking for "a lover". I thought ...
A. 28 May 2012: Thanks for your reply. Yes I guess he may never have split with his g/f. I don't know. A few weeks ago he said he had a friend who wanted to have sex with a couple (him and me) and when I asked him who this friend was, he said he met her online. I ... (read in full...)
I have found out A LOT of dirty secrets about my boyfriend!
Q. My relationship has had it's ups and downs from the beginning.. now almost 3 years in, I have never felt more lost. Over the duration of the relationship, I have found out A LOT of dirty secrets about my boyfriend. For months, he would do nothing...
A. 27 May 2012: You are afraid to move on because change is scary and frightening. It will be worth it in the long run, though, and keep reminding yourself of that. You both deserve more happiness (you especially! - not actually sure what he deserves to be honest). ... (read in full...)
He is a good husband but a womanizer!
Q. about 5 years ago my husband and i had been not intimate with each other because he was busy with his married gf but the affair stopped 2 years ago. he got another young gf after that and told me three months ago she was pregnant.he is a good ...
A. 27 May 2012: I think that in the Phillipines, divorce is not permissable but annulment is. Well, get the marriage annulled. He didn't enter in to the marriage with the correct intentions. I can't see how he's a good husband - if he was a good husband he wouldn't ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend stalks me by using fake FB accounts and it's getting creepy
Q. We've been together since 3 months. The first week we were dating I caught him writing to me from a fake Facebook profile (my friend noticed the profile's page on his Iphone). It was just a smalltalk so I asummed this is normal and wrote some stuff ...
A. 27 May 2012: I hope you've split up with him and he's leaving you alone. Stay safe. Consider youself lucky to have only had three months of his crazy behaviour and move on..... x ... (read in full...)
Need some info and insight about having sex on a girl's period. Help?
Q. I'm in a real pickle about this one. My current girlfriend and I trust each other enough to have unprotected sex, and of course I get that feeling that I want to cum inside of her, although I can always control that urge. Me and her were talking ...
A. 27 May 2012: If you trust each other and are having unprotected sex, then why haven't you discussed her using the contraceptive pill? That way you can ejaculate wherever you like, whenever you like! Or you could of course wear a condom and come inside her that ... (read in full...)
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