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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out for four months and we are friends on Facebook obviously. What bugs me is he has never liked or commented on any of my pictures but I see him commenting on my friends pictures saying things like "awww" and "pretty". He thinks that I'm pretty and hot and stuff but I feel like it's weird how he won't on my pictures but he does on my friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2012): Dont comment on his statuses then and comment on everyone elses. Eg. Johnny Pratt is going to put salt on his fries. You and 3 others like this. That will show him.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (28 May 2012):
 Why not talk to him about it? Personally I don't think it's a problem, but it is a problem for you or you wouldn't have posted, so perhaps you should bring it up in a light hearted way (don't make a big deal out of it).
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX +, writes (28 May 2012):
 Maybe he feels he doesn't need to comment on your photos as he sees you on a regular basis (and not your friends?), and tells you personally each time you meet up? If it really bothers you, talk to him :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2012): Its not your fault so u shouldn't have to remove your facebook, its a personal thing you need to take up with him, ask him why he feels the need to compliment other females knowing it makes you jealous. Its disrespectful behaviour, not just that he's in a relationship, but they're your friends he's complementing so he's aware you are going to see. Its like he deliberately wants to provoke a jealous reaction out of you for some strange reason.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (28 May 2012):
Just a thought, but maybe it’s got something to do with the fact that he’s your boyfriend, so he sees you regularly enough anyway and prefers to compliment you to your face. It sounds very much like you’re sulking that he hasn’t made his every thought available for all to see on Facebook-pretty sensible of him, I’d say. If you know what he thinks about your looks anyway, why is it an issue that he doesn’t say so on Facebook? Either you spend way too much time on the internet, there are more serious problems in this relationship, or you’ve got trust issues. Work out which it is and deal with it.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Cutless  +, writes (28 May 2012):
Hi dear,dönt get yourself worrying over that little things.he clearly wants to make you jealous and your falling for it.it doesnt matter if he comment or not.stop commenting on his own pics and start taking your pound of flesh by commenting on his friends pic,try it out and see how it wil work out cheer up ok
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