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writes:Hey dealt don't no what to do as me and my partner who is 4mnts pregnant with our first are falling apart and I really don't want to loose her two days ago my partner got a text saying in sleeping with your boyfriend no name gave or evidence or facts to support it neither and I can tell you it's not true at all I love my partner more then anything and told her this but she kept saying she wants the truth so kept on saying and this made me mad she don't believe me I'm mad and she's royaly upset and it's just turned in to bitching between us and it just driving us apart I love her yet still mad and frustrated at her and even madder and apoaled at who ever sent the txt wish says she needs time but it's just making me worse bein away from her boing she is mad and upset to war can I do I tried ringing the no as have others plus tryin to find who it's registered to and got no were so how can I defend my self aigainst the acusstion I just don't no as I love her and want to be a family together and it's just getting worse any help or advice pls thanks
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reader, Myrrh +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Hi. You can tell her you would like to attend clinics with her and start asking what she will need for the baby. Just let her decide if she trusts you or not. You didnt really know each other that well before, which i didnt realuse, so give the lass time and be there if she needs you. Excercise patience. If you are reliable and she learns to trust you, things will improve. All the best to you both.
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reader, Cullz +, writes (20 July 2010):
Cullz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I've gone for the advice of myrrh thank you for that but worried now she won't get bk to me and I hate waiting bout hangin in limbo so to speak and worried I just gona ruin it by rushing her for an answ and brown wolf thanks but I not a believa that everything happens for a reason and worryin bout way will be in five years time isn't goin to help the sit now I but do tale ok board the bit bout thinkin long and hard is all I've done since and still am I should also mention we have only been tgetha round 6 mnths the baby was unplanned and she is a lot younger then me by 12 years and does have issues with self confidence thank you both ta
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reader, Myrrh +, writes (20 July 2010):
Hello. Well if you havent slept with anyone one else, then someone either doesnt like or is jealous of your gf. I imagine it will be a girl that she knows or used to know. Sims are so cheap and easy to get, that its probably not a regular number. So your chances of finding out who sent it are pretty remote. Someone with issues, obviously! What a shame it has spoilt what should be a happy and exciting time. And its also a shame your gf was so quick to believe the worst about you and wont accept your word that its all lies. You are quite within your rights to be offended by that! But arguing with her doesnt sound as if its working. And you have the baby to think.of. So if i were you, i would reassure her that you love her. Repeat that its a lie and you are upset that she automatically thinks the worst of you. Then retreat. Stop having arguements and let her make her own mind up. Tell her to let you know when she has decided if she believes you. While you decide if you still want to be with someone who doesnt trust you and calls you a liar! She may calm down and get sensible if she sees she is driving you away. All the best.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Well someone is jealous of you two.But everything happens for a reason. If you can not last through this, then it was not meant to be.Think about it 5 years from now. Married, kids, the whole works, then a text like that.If you are strong now, nothing stupid like that will break you. But weak now, and 5 years down the road..a whole different hell.So...think long and hard. This may not be what you want to hear, but maybe you need to hear.
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