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Why is he nice only when he needs me?

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Question - (19 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i was very close friends with a guy at work and we got on so well and were best friends. ive helped him through all his work tests and helped him through personal stuff. lately he barely calls. hes got very cocky since his confidence has grown and i dont recognise him anymore. im so hurt because i genuinely care for him and he said he did me but when i asked him why he barely calls he said theres no need ? but now hes got one more work test to get through and wants my help. whats happened to him im so upset :(

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A female reader, Shiro Kenya +, writes (20 July 2010):

He only wants you only when need arises and its a high time when this got to stop,let him sort out himself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010):

I really don't want to put it this way, but I have to.. he's using you, plain and simple. Try not to give him the satisfaction of reading into it anymore than that, because he'll just end up walking all over you.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (20 July 2010):

BrownWolf agony auntHe is only nice when he needs you because you give him what he wants...That simply.

You feel bad because deep down you know better.

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