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writes:Is penis size a major deciding factor on if a women will stay in the relationship, or leave?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): I think if it's average, no woman is going to be worried. Once, I was with a guy who wouldn't stay hard throughout our activities but was able to come. He even said he felt tingly all over his body because he was so satisfied. A guy who isn't hard when he's turned on? Now THAT was a deal breaker.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (26 July 2010):
 I can honestly say that I could not care less about penis size. By the time I see a guy's penis, I'll already love him (I hope) and if you truly love someone, then your feelings won't change just because he has a small penis. The other poster nailed it; what matters is that her emotional needs are fulfilled.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): To answer EbonyBlossom's question my penis is 7.5 long by 5.75 around.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Well, I can tell you this: I am not married.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (26 July 2010):
Your penis is not the only tool in the shed. The penis should be use to finish what the other tools started.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): Not a decent woman, no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): Absolutely. The duration of any relationship is directly proportionate to the size of the man's penis. Invariably if it is three inches long the affair will last for maybe three minutes, long enough for her to grab her coat and say 'I have to go now'. If it's six inches, it might go on for six months. If it's the whole ten inches, a lifetime of eternal bliss awaits (especially for her)
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reader, Starmonster888  +, writes (26 July 2010):
 I sure hope so!
(Checks himself)
I sure hope not!
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reader, Zoe-louisexx +, writes (25 July 2010):
 Noo! any woman who would leave a relationship for the size of her boyfiends penis would be totally out of order. It doesnt matter how small or big it may be, all that counts is that you're both happy. Relationships aren't just about sex, its about caring for each other and loving each other. :)x
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reader, Sandman +, writes (25 July 2010):
 Absolutely not. Penis size has nothing to do with the strength of a relationship nor will it be the glue to bond a broken one. I can attest to that.
During an open and honest conversation my ex wife told me (when our relationship began to turn sour) that one of the reasons she pursued me so aggressively during our dating years was because I was the biggest she had at that point. Not only that, she enjoyed the sex better than with her previous partners (to her credit she had only had two partners before me).
But that didn't stop her from cheating and that didn't stop her from leaving when things got bad. Even though we had good sex and I (according to her) had/have a large penis, she still left. So no, penis size will NOT determine if a woman will stay in a relationship.
What WILL determine if a woman will stay in a relationship is the foundation the relationship was built upon. A firm foundation of trust, commitment and respect are a few of the qualities of a good relationship. Unfortunately, our relationship was not built on these principles but upon other things which formed a very rocky and unstable foundation.
Penis size is a marker that men use to define their manliness. It is not a marker of if a man will be able to keep his woman.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 July 2010):
 Nope. Unless you are totally unable to perform/pleasure due to the big/small size.
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (25 July 2010):
 I don't think it's essential as long as it's not freakishly small or large. It's more knowing what to do with it than size. Knowing what to do with your hands and tongue can make up for a lot of it.
What is your penis size? Because I've seen plenty of guys on here asking if they're too small when really it's far from the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): A factor? possibly, if combined with other problems. A major factor, hell no. I can only speak from a guy's perspective, but I have had female friends who dreaded sex with very large boyfriends. well, not dreaded, but had to put a lot of effort into making it tolerable. My one friend bled every time. She called it "crime scene sex". She dumped him for other reasons, but later said she was relieved to be with normal guys after that. THe novelty wears off.I am average, and have wondered if GF's I've had who I knew were with larger guys, thought about being with them again. I suppose it's normal for women to long for some of the sensations. Heck, I had a GF with large boobs, and I do miss them sometimes. But leave my small breasted GF for a big rack? Hells no. To much other stuff to love. Think of it that way.Unless you're REALLY small...like under 4 inches, or over 8 or 9, I'd say don't worry.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (25 July 2010):
 Not for the women I know. I can't think of one who broke up with a guy saying his penis size was the cause. It usually is about his behavior, the way he treats her, the way he makes her feel about herself, the way he makes her feel about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): No of course not, and don't worry too much about this. A woman is in a relationship for FAR MORE than penis size I assure you. Females who want a relationship will be looking for a loving partner who is considerate in and out of bed, a considerate lover, and if he is all this, then size will certainly not be important.
You know, how you FEEL about someone, has a huge amount to do with what you think of them, and about them physically automatically. As I'm sure it does for you with your girlfriend. There may be women with bigger breasts, taller, smaller waist etc than your girlfriend, but when you make love to her, it's her you want, and these other things won't even come into it.
Try not to concentrate just on the physical (size) of the penis, as when it comes to relationships love, it what you FEEL for someone, besides LOVE comes in all sizes ;-)
Jilly x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): No. Girls want stability, faithfulness, and someone who cares for them. If you give her those things and fulfill her emotional needs then penis size is no factor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): Nope.
Not for me anyway.
Not for my female friends that I've talked to either.
Unless it's SOOOO BIG you will never be able to fit it in her without cripling her for a month, then I don't think you've got anything to worry about.
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reader, almc +, writes (25 July 2010):
Nope, its all on how you use it, as long as you both are having good sex,
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