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writes:I need help, i'm scared and i can't talk to my friends.If i told them about my opinions maybe they would lough at me.....so i decided to ask for help to unknown people.in a month i'm going to get merry, i love my boyfriend and he loves me,but marriage is too difficult for me....when i think about it i know i'm not ready :( all time i think that i will lose my little universe,my home. i don't know what to do,how get relax myself...... Reply to this Question
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 Is this by any chance an arranged marriage? Something your family expects you to do?
In any case, if you feel so unready for marriage, you definitely should not commit to it!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 If you feel you are not ready, don't do it.
Marriage is a risky business, about half of them end up badly anyway and this evenwhen the people is happy , enthusistic and gung-ho about geting married.
Imagine when they start already full of doubts.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (23 July 2010):
Could be cold feet as people say. However, this is the rest of your life you are talking about. If you don't feel right, then don't do it, wait until you are ready.
Your heart will let you know the right time, and when that comes, there will be no fear, just excitement.
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