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I'm attracted to a guy who has a g/f

Q.   I'm attracted to this guy, but he's currently off-limits (ie has a girlfriend). what can i do? can i start building any kind of a relationship now? please help!...

A.   14 January 2009: Nope. I have a boyfriend now and i hate thinking that girls might like him and try to build any kind o frelationship with him when i know they like him.It really just breas my heart thninking about it. Think about the girl please and respect that ... (read in full...)

He cries, writes poems, and is a pansy - and he want me to have his baby!!

Q.   Hello, I need help, ive been going out with a boy, im fourteen and he's fifteen, hes normal looking but... he writes poems, LOVE poems, he wears wastecoats and ties and says he's got the "italian look" he calls having sex "my expression of my love ...

A.   13 January 2009: he isnt gay, he is just emotional. Just because he isnt a jock/jerk doesnt mean that he's gay. he seems to really like you, give him a chance. and about that thing he said aotu sex,that should be how it is. not just trying to have bang you. and ... (read in full...)

What does "All is fair in love & war" mean?

Q.   This is just a general question, and the internet doesnt really help so i thought i'd ask it. Ive heard the saying "Alls fair in love and war" alot lately and i just wondered what it actually means. Lol i feel a bit dumb asking people who have said ...

A.   13 January 2009: Its actually means exactly what it says ALL IS FAIR, in love and war. It means that you need to fight for the one you love. It is comparing love to war kind of. Sorry its really hard to explain. haha but i hope it helped! ... (read in full...)

Wanna break up a 2 year relationship..need advice

Q.   I've been seeing a girl for the past two years who i now believe is to young for me to date, i went home on a christmas vacation and met up with another girl who i have had a crush on for more than 6 years,and am now in love with the old flame and ...

A.   12 January 2009: I hate boys. You're going to break her heart, that's the answer. She loves you and trusts you and your off having feelings for an old crush. Poor girl. Two years down the drain for someone you have liked even longer then her. That's going to give ... (read in full...)

She's still in love with her ex but wants things to work out with me

Q.   So my relationship is basically classified as rebound, because my girlfriend is still in love with her ex, but she is not using me for emotional stool , and already has told me she doesn't want to hurt me and she wants to make this work out, she ...

A.   10 January 2009: Let her clear out her head and et over her ex. Its not easy to start going out with a new guy when your so used to being with your ex. She will eventually get over it. Just give her space for a while and let her clear her head. Thats really all you ... (read in full...)

Do guys make passes at girls who wear glasses?

Q.   Do guys makes passes at girls who wear glasses and have plaits in their hair? needy type girls...

A.   10 January 2009: I think that guys immediatly turn their attention to girls with glasses. They usually set themselves apart from everyone else because most girls just wear contact lenses these days. Lots of guys think girls with glasses are cute and prefer them.... (read in full...)

He says its not cheating when he sees a prostitute!

Q.   my husband of 17 years at the time told me two years ago that he had been with a few prostitutes, he estimated about 20. We went to counseling and he went to sex addiction anonymous. This past fall I found a diary that noted two more sexual ...

A.   7 January 2009: Cheating. He is disgusting pig! Leave, don't care about what he has to say about it. Clearly, there is something wrong with him. Just get the divorce and move on. It's harsh but I'm just trying to help. I'm 15 and I already know the ropes on men. My ... (read in full...)

Confusion as to continue the relationship or not??

Q.   I have a big doubt about what I am doing, is that right or wrong. I am a 20 years old and my BF is 26 years old and we are in love with each other but a future together like marriage is not sure. We are sexually committed to each other since the ...

A.   7 January 2009: Why cant you get married? Do his parents not like you? Maybe you should talk to his parents or impress them in a way so that they will change their feelings on you marrying their son. I wouldn't necessarily stop having sex with him, I would still ... (read in full...)

Sometimes its like she's flirting...

Q.   Hey, I know lots of people ask this about their teachers but this is literally driving me mad. I am a 18 yr old lesbian from nrth england and i am madly in love with my 28yr old business teacher. and i have been for almost a year now. She is appr...

A.   7 January 2009: Hm. Well first of all, I wouldnt want want to flirt, or have any type of relationship with a teacher that is anything borderline flirting. It can get the teacher in a lot of trouble or worse, fired. If you really think she likes you then i would ... (read in full...)

How to pop the question about living together?

Q.   my girlfriend and I have had a whirlwind relationship! we have fallen in love and everything is great I want to know how I can go about asking her about living together?...

A.   7 January 2009: Aw:)Well congragulations! I would just flat out ask it.If you two love eachother, obivously you want to be with eachother all the time. Just say something like "How would you like waking up next to me every morning" haha thats funny and cute. Good ... (read in full...)

My GF loves giving oral sex, but she's horrible at it - how can I tell her?

Q.   Hi all, im jo and im 22 years old. i have a very beautiful Gf AND She is 19. We have been dating for 3 months or more. My problem is that my gf is crazy about (Oral sex) i mean we have never spent more than 3 days without doing it for at least 1 t...

A.   7 January 2009: The PERFECT thing to do is say something along te lines of "you know what would be really hott when you blow me?..." and then put something in like use more tounge and lips hahaha. and then share stories with her andn say somethinglike "yikes this ... (read in full...)

Broke up because of my mom but we still care about each other

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been broken up for the past 6 months. However, im still crazy about him and i know he still loves me too. We have been broken up for 6 months we have never gone without talking for more than a month. He either calls or i ...

A.   7 January 2009: The greates thing in life to learn is to love, and be loved in return. WHAT ARE YOU THINKING/DOING!! You just said you love him & he loves you! Thats all you need! Go to him,stay with him, be happy. If your so crazy about him and love him so much, ... (read in full...)

Broke up because of my mom but we still care about each other

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been broken up for the past 6 months. However, im still crazy about him and i know he still loves me too. We have been broken up for 6 months we have never gone without talking for more than a month. He either calls or i ...

A.   7 January 2009: The greates thing in life to learn is to love, and be loved in return. WHAT ARE YOU THINKING/DOING!! You just said you love him & he loves you! Thats all you need! Go to him,stay with him, be happy. If your so crazy about him and love him so much, ... (read in full...)

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