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female
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anonymous
writes: Im under 16. i had unprotected sex around the 25th of March. its now may.. I Took the morning after pill the 2nd day after sex, i then had my period (In March) but in april i missed a period. Ive taken the pregnancy test and it said Not Pregnant.What Could Be Wrong? Please Help
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reader, Joyblossom +, writes (3 May 2008):
Well the only thing I can say is that only time will tell. You might have to wait for a few weeks to see if your period will come back on but you may not be stable yet so it may be irregular. Hopefully you didn't catch anything from that guy like AIDS which is not curable and is like digging your own grave due to your foolish actions. They say that it may take years for the signs of AIDS to show up so this might haunt you for a long time. Hopefully everything will turn out alright and I dont mean to scare you even worse than you already are because I'm around the same age and I understand how scared you must be. But if all turns out ok, I hope this will teach you a lesson and maybe you'll use protection next time. What I always say is that if you can't afford to take care of a baby, or if you dont want to mess up yourself for life then DONT HAVE SEX UNPROTECTED!!!
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reader, Andrew83 +, writes (2 May 2008):
I agree with Emilysanswers and also why did you have sex way under the legal age?
You both can be in alot of trouble for this plus it was unprotected sex... what was you thinkin?
What if you have an STD? (sorry Emilysanswers but you put an I not a D), it would be alot harder for you in the future to meet someone and have a family of your own if you do have an STD..
Always think before you do something not do it and then deal with it later.
Anyway, Get a check up done and hope you dont have an STD and please remember the legal age is 16.
I hope you have learned your lesson in what you have done.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 May 2008):
Being stressed can delay your period.
It says you are 10 to 12 - if that is true then they may not be regular yet anyway.
You took the morning after pill in time and you have had a period since so you should be ok.
But if it doesn't come in the next couple of weeks then you should maybe go to the doctor for a blood test to see if you really are pregnant or not. You should also get an STI check to make sure you didn't catch anything from the guy.
I hope this scares you into not having sex again for a long time, or if you do then use condoms.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008): In my past experiences if I personally was over worried about being pregnant and had also taken a pregnancy test results were negative, my stress levels from worrying I was pregnant made my period take longer to arrive.
Once I relaxed and took my mind off of it it would come,
If you are not still sexually active and have taken a test than try giving it a week of just taking your mind off of it (you are probably very scared). See what happens,
The morning after pill was very good thinking,
No matter what a boys tells you about how it feels better or how much he loves you, ALWAYS have protection , carry it yourself. Your future is important.
best of luck and I hope you can work this out
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008): In my past experiences if I personally was over worried about being pregnant and had also taken a pregnancy test results were negative, my stress levels from worrying I was pregnant made my period take longer to arrive.
Once I relaxed and took my mind off of it it would come,
If you are not still sexually active and have taken a test than try giving it a week of just taking your mind off of it (you are probably very scared). See what happens,
The morning after pill was very good thinking,
best of luck and I hope you can work this out
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