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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

He asked me do I want to lose my virginity to him... but I'm not sure what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I really need some help, my boyfriend asked me if I wanted to lose my virginity to him and I said I'm not sure. The reason I said this is because I ready but I don't know what to do with myself down below and what to do during... Please help ...

Can the gynocologist tell if I've been sexually active?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I'm going to a gyno tomorrow to get an exam, for me to get Birth Control. I'm freaking out because my mom told me to be honest with the doctor and I am but I'm not a virgin and my mom would freak if she found out I've been sexually active. She said ...

Could anyone possibly tell me why sex didn't hurt the first time but hurt when I did it again today?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Last weekend, I lost my virginity to a guy that I'm deeply in love with. Well, it didn't hurt the first time we had sex (We did "Doggy style" then had regular sex) but just today, we had sex again (Yes we used protection) and it seriously hurt. He ...

I'm wondering if its an STD

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Right, so... where to start. Well, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend at the beginning of this month. We've had both protected and unprotected sex (stupid, yes i know). I started my period 2 days, 1 day early. Normally when I'm on, the blood i...

How do I tell him I'm a 40 year old virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 weeks is 23 years older than me and very experienced in bed,well thats what he told me the problem is that i am 40 year old virgin whose previous boyfriends have never goto the bedroom stage, how do i tell him that i am virgin ...

Lost interest in guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - hi i am going on 30+ years old.i have never had a first boyfreind never got my first kiss and still virgin. because guys always treated me badly even a guy who i though like me said i was total bitch to him.now i have lost interest in guys complete...

What should I do about my friends pressuring and harrassing me about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I really need help. My last attempt at getting my first girlfriend failed in a really odd and stressful way that has yet to end fully and conclusively because she keeps telling a few of my friends random messages to me saying that she still l...

Fingering & virginity!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - After my boyfriend finger me, i had been pleasuring me with my fingers and i had introduced them to my vagina, i had never had sex before so i am wondering if i am still a virgen or if when i decide to have sex my bf would be able to notice it?...

Still a virgin at 33...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I am a 33 year old virgin. I have never had a boyfriend, only dated casually. The reasons for this are several... the most important one is that I am overweight so I feel too self conscious to get close with a man. I have had several men try and ...

Virginity is nothing to play around with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - Ok so i have a girlfriend that i am truly in love with anyway we were talking and sex thing came up..i am 16 and shes 14 it even might be illegal but anyway we dont live in usa and i never heard any law that says that here anyway.. My g...

Should I tell my mum I want to lose my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - should i tell my mom that i want to loose my virginity?...

I havent had my period for about 6 weeks

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I havent had my period for about 6 weeks and im a virgin and never been with a boy more than a pull whats wrong with me ? (im only 15) and had my periods for about 18months...

Doggy style...did I lose my virginity?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I, are/were both virgins. I'm 13 and He's 15. We did "doggy style" tonight for the very first time, No protection was used. So did I actually..lose my virginity? That's the thing I'm confused about....

How can I make areas of my body lighter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Im 26 years old and im still a virgin. The problem i can't go out with a guy is....im very fair in colour but my buds and my vagine is dark in colour which makes me shy to have sex with anyone. I also have dark spots on my bud. How can i make my ...

Fingered..no bleeding

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - i was fingered by one finger couple of times and i didnt bleed am i a virgin?? i'm really confused...

Will a dildo do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Okay um where to start... I started masturbating about a year ago and I mostly like the clit stimulation. But lately I have been craving something in me. If you know what I mean. I am a virgin and I really want to, no WILL stay that way until I'm ...

Did I make a mistake thinking that he had changed his mind and wanted more than just a quickie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice. I am 26 female (virgin), I work with a bunch of Army guys, I have never really bothered with any of them until a couple of years ago, when this corporal started, we started talking and flirted all the time, we arranged to go ...

I've never taken a girl virginity before

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about two years now and I recently asked her to marry me. She's the same age as me (25) but she's still a virgin. She said that she has always wanted to wait for the right guy. I've been with her for two years and ...

When she came out of the bath she said that her bits were hurting.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Hello. The problem is this. My daughter is three and the other week I bathed her before bed. When she came out of the bath she said that her bits were hurting. I looked and her hymen was gone. I had been with her for two whole days so don't kn...

25 and have never been in a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I am a 25 year old female who has never been in a relationship. I have not had sex of any kind or been naked in front of a guy. The furthest I’ve made it is a bit of clothes on grabbing while kissing. I tend to run from intimacy, and ca...

Should I or shouldn't I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Last weekend, I went to a dance with my boyfriend at his school(I'm homeschooled). He's in 9th grade and I'm in 7th. I'm 13 and He's turning 15. Anyway, everytime I Met one of his friends, they looked at me in a funny way, like they didn't like me o...

My boyfriend doesn't turn me on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years doesnt turn me on! We are both virgins and want to wait until we are married to have sex.We do other things like oral sex and masturbation but the problem is i cant "come" when we fool around together through masturbation. I ...

Points to ponder on advise against teenage sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Out of curiosity, I was recently browsing through the advice I had given in the past 9 odd months I've been on this website. What struck me is how much "stern" I seem to be when giving advice to teenagers under 18 about sex. I frequently adv...

I don't think I'm big enough...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - Ok I know this must get asked all the time but Im worried that im not "big" enough I've been seeing this girl for a while and we've got a party coming up this weekend and shes been hinting that she wants to were both 18 and im just really inse...

Is it possible for my vagina to become tight again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Hiya. I'm a virgin and wondering... If i was to have sex now once evry month.. then did not have sex or anything for 5years in a row. would my vagina become "tight" or still stay loose. thanks...

Can a girl get back their virginity back?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - can a girl get back their virgin after she stop having sex for 3 yr? i had sex my ex bf, and i about to marry with other man after 3 yr. can he know that i am not virgin?...

My gf wasnt a virgin but I was, and it bothers me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Ok. Ive been with my gf for over 4 years and we have a 1 year old baby. Ok my problem is that I was a virgin till I meant my gf and she was my first and only. But come to find out i wasnt for her. its kinda hard to explain but the guy who had sex ...

If I marry, will he accept I lost my virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - i am not American but i had committed myself as an american by having sex before married. i feel insult and afraid that one day when i married to another man he can not accept what i have done coz i lost my virgin to another guys. can any body help? ...

First time sex hurts my girlfriend too much, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - I need some urgent help on this matter. Me and my girlfriend just started having sex (mind you we are both virgins) and we there are some obstacles in the way. The first couple nights we tried I was really nervous and having performance anxiety so ...

Still a virgin but wants to lose it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - Hi:] I'm a 15 years old and I really want to lose my virginity. I believe i'm ready mentally and physically, but i'm still scared about the pain and the bleeding. I'm on birth control already and i've had many chances to have sex but i've always ...

I want to still be a virgiin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - Hello, I have had expierences in my past life and I can not stop thinking about them. when i think about them i reallize how stupid i was and wish i could go back and change it. I am a straight male and awhile back me and a friend humped eachother ...

Will this make sex easier? Or more painful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I've been going out with my current boyfriend for nearly half a year now, and lately we've been discussing having sex. I love him so much and i'd be willing to give my virginity to him, i just worry, will it hurt? he was fingering me the...

What does she classify as sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 1 year and we dated for 2 years before we got married. We were both virgins and we were saving ourselves for marriage. We both cherrished our virginitys and think its something special. We gave our virginitys ...

My girlfriend wants to make love but I'm not ready yet.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - Im 13 and my girlfriend is 14 and she says lets make love i said i want to wait what should i do? a=Do it b=wait Please help...

We lost our virginity together but now she's terrified she's pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

7 March 2009 (M) - I'm 15, me and my girlfriend lost our virginties recently and now she's scared of being pregnant. I'm scared that she's mad or something, I need help. PLEASE I dont want to lose her. How can we stay the same like we used to be? We usually spend some ...

Her past doesn't add up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

7 March 2009 (M) - hey guys, I have been seeing this girl a lot and we recently became boyfriend and girlfriend. We are realy comfortable around each other and can talk about anything. She is a great girl and has been through a lot especially with her dad dying on ...

What can I do? I'm so confused, guilty and regretful for having sex so early. Would telling him this help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - I'm 16. I just had sex with my boyfriend for the past year. I love him and I'm lucky to be with him, but I feel so bad about sleeping with him. It was my first time and I feel like I gave up a part of myself. I'm scared people are going to find out ...

Do guys like being a girl's first?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - Do guys like being a girl's first? I'm a virgn. my boyfriend isn't and I'm just wondering what it's like for the guy. In general, however, do guys mind being a girl's first time or is it something they like? By the way, my age is wrong, I'm 16. I'd ...

I am 16, going to have sex for the first time, how can we make it special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I'm 16. My boyfriend is 18. We've been dating for almost a year now and we had a long talk and I decided that I was ready to give up my virginity to him. He's done it before and I want it to be special for the both of us. Does anyone have any ...

26 year old virgin needs help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - I'm a 26 year old male... and I'm a virgin. Not only have I not had sex, I've only kissed a girl once. I've never had a girlfriend. I'm the guy that always got caught up with liking girls that just want to be "friends." But, I was a moron and just ...

I would love to have sex with her but I don't want to lose my virginity just yet.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Hi aunts, I need some advice. I have a girlfriend and I absolutely adore her, she feels the same way about me, and I'll never do anything to pressure her or hurt her. See I'm a pretty nice guy (14), really sensitive and caring, I'm not like those ...

Is it possible to have a surgery to get my virginity back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I am not a virgin and for the past two years I have been sexually active. I would also like to know if it's possible to have a surgery to get my virginity back?...

23 year old male virgin needs your input

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - Hello. I am a 23 year old male, heterosexual virgin with no relationship/intimate experience. My problems in these areas resulted primarily from social anxiety and an overall lack of self-confidence. Simply put, I have never taken the initiative ...

How can I see if I am still a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - i wonder weather i can find out if i am still a virgin or not by myself ?...

Views on virginity

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I was just wondering what age did people lose their virginity and having lost it at that age do you wish you had been younger/older when it happened? I'm not thinking of having sex or anything quite yet, I'm just curious :) Thanks x...

Is there any way to tell if a woman is a virgin? How can I ask without offending her or sounding stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - I am a virgin and i am going to wait to have sex until i meet that right woman. But my question is, is there anyway to tell if a woman is a virgin? there is a woman that i don't know all that well but I am interested in dating her. Is there any way ...

How do I reassure him that he hasn't ruined my first time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Me + my fwb i told him i was a virgin + b4 we i told hin we did stuff + now i told him he feels bad + that he has ruined my first time by doing what we did we havent slept with each other what can i say 2 him 2 reasure him that he hasnt ruined any ...

Lied about virginity 12 years ago..trust has been lost

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I had Posted my question yesterday under the headding He found out I lied about my virginity 12 years ago! Hey guys thanks a ton for all your inputs and thoughts. Well just to add further clarity for a few of you yes he very clearly and spec...

Virgin who didn't feel tight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hi there, I recently lost my virginity at the age of 28. I had always wanted to wait until I got married but as the years have gone by, it's just gotten harder and harder to wait. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and have k...

Being used just for sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him came to me a condom and ready to go amd i said no because i'm a virgin now he said next week he want's me to suck his penis.but he want's he's friend there to.is he using me just for sex?should i do it?...