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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): I lost mine last week, and I told my mum. She would have been so upset with the idea that I wouldnt tell her. She was with me whn I made the appointment to get the pill, too. She was just very supportive and checked that I was OK and had been safe, etc.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (25 March 2009):
Yes you should tell your mum.
Then she can tell you that at your age it's perfectly normal to crave sex and crave growing up.
But she can also tell you what a BAD idea it is and how you will feel worthless for the rest of your life if you do it.
Plus, get her to tell you exactly what happens during childbirth. Did you know that when she had you, she probably pooed herself in front of everyone?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): honey you're so young!have you thought this through,are you sure you're ready?i think that you should definitely tell your mother,no one knows you better than she does and it's very important to have a close and trusting relationship with her.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (25 March 2009):
 Basically it depends on what sort of relationship you have with your mother...I wouldn't have told mine that in my 20's let alone at your age! If you have a good relationship with your mother then you should talk to her about it.
Whether you tell your mother or not is entirely your decision, BUT you must know there is a bigger, far more important issue at stake here. You are young to be starting a sexual relationship. You are asking for help on this website to make a decision to tell your parent. I would say to you that if you don't feel able to communicate with your mother and make up your own mind about that, then you are not emotionally mature enough to have sex. That is not a criticism of you, as you are clearly very young and many young people feel confused about sex. Of course some girls do begin having sex young for all sorts of reasons but if you are uncertain about telling your mother, does that not mean you are uncertain about having sex? I truly hope you are not being pressurised by some boyfriend into this. You only need to read some posts on this board to hear of the tragic consequences to hearts, minds and bodies of teenage girls who have got into a mess from early sexual experiences. Take care of yourself!
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