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30-35,
*unePoopay
writes:I'm 15, me and my girlfriend lost our virginties recently and now she's scared of being pregnant. I'm scared that she's mad or something, I need help. PLEASE I dont want to lose her. How can we stay the same like we used to be? We usually spend some time together at my house, we care for each other a lot. But after we lost our virginties, she is very scared of pregnancy and she's not acting like she used to be around me. I asked her if she wanted to lose it, she agreed, but she regrets it cuz I didn't use a condom. I didn't ejaculate, I only put my thing in and moved up and down a few times then we stopped. You guys might think it's too early and very immature, but I really love her, she loves me too. She would even talk about our future together but now I think stuff is going off the edge. I really need your guys help. I plan to be with her. I don't want to lose her. How can I make things better.
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 The penis emits a 'precum' which is a seminal fluid that can contain sperm. So even if you don't ejaculate, she can still get pregnant.
When you put the kind of stress that comes with unprotected sex on a young relationship, this is usually how things end up. Have her take an at home test in a few days. If she is pregnant, then you two have a lot to talk about.
If she isn't pregnant, then you two still need to talk about how you want this relationship to go. Do you still want to be having sex together? Or do you maybe want to wait and just enjoy your time together? These are questions you need to find answers to together.
I also suggest that she look into getting on birth control. This way, when you two decide you are more ready for sex, she will be able to relax more knowing that she has two methods of protection (her birth control and the condom) keeping her from getting pregnant.
Just talk to her and tell her how you have been feeling these past few days.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (8 March 2009):
 yeah i understand that you love her,and she loves you..that's great im happy for you
but i feel like you guys rushed into this kind of thing a little bit too fast..it was a really bad move to have sex at this age, an even worse move without a condom..see even thouhg you dind't cum in her..there's still a possibility, because there's precum that comes out when you're stimulated..and that could get her pregnant.....
so just tlk to her and comfort her so she knows you are there for her...and make her take a pregnancy test to see if she is pregnant...
from now on whenever you're with her make sure you've got a couple of condoms with you
and if you dont and you guys are in the mood..dont just do it because you have the urge..wait and go buy one, it wont take long
oh and i you guys are going to continue beying active, i sujest you get her on birthcontrol....be safe man
well i wish you guys luck, i hope everything goes alright-hope i've helped
gudd luck bro
peace
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