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writes:My boyfriend and I, are/were both virgins. I'm 13 and He's 15. We did "doggy style" tonight for the very first time, No protection was used. So did I actually..lose my virginity? That's the thing I'm confused about.
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reader, lipgloss  +, writes (2 April 2009):
well im glad your happy with him. and yeah it is your choice to do what ever you choose with him so dont let anyone put you down or make u feel stupid just because youve had sex. have fun chick :) x
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (27 March 2009):
 Sorry hon, I hope I wasnt coming off as rude. I'm just concerned. Perhaps I shouldnt be so much, guess it's a weakness of mine; an over concern for others. My intention was to answer your question and inform you on some other very important factors concerning sex. I don't believe you are entirely unschooled when it comes to sex, but I am 26 with 2 kids and I am still learning! It's good to be open to learning anything to it's fullest. I'm sure there is much you are curious to know about, right? Stupid? Not at all. Just young and ready to learn;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLipgloss, Thank you. Yes I'll be sure to use protection next time. He actually did get condoms and I'm getting on Birth Control next week, so we won't be expected parents anytime soon. A lot of the answers I got were rude and Like Lipgloss said, Its MY choice. If I regret it in the future, Its my fault, nobody elses. But I do know for a fact, I love this guy to death and I know he loves me. That's why I let him take my virginity, not because I was curious to "do it". So hopefully a lot of the people that posted answers, read my response. Oh and Yes I am sex Educated. I know more than you all think I know. So thanks for calling me stupid:D Very appreciated.
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reader, lipgloss +, writes (25 March 2009):
gawd.. i think ever 1 should give you a break.yeh your only 13 and to be fair quite young to have sex but its your decision. who are we to judge? i think you lot should ease up on her a bit and try to be more understanding.You did lose your virginity. if you plan to do it in future just make sure you careful.dont let people make you feel bad abooout losing your virginity though because its your life chick and you live it the way you want!have fun!BE SAFE! X X X
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reader, nina203 +, writes (24 March 2009):
umm first off you and him are little to young to be having sex. if you dont know anything about it then why would you even do it??..yes you did loose your virginity sweeti everytime a man or boy is inside of you is called not being a virgin...where are your parents shouldnt you be worried more about boy bands and shopping??...ugh and your didnt use protection may i say young mother too be...your should really get educated about sex. i hope years from you dont regret the way u lost your virginity and whom with...you should of thought throughly before taking action. but then again your are only 13 and still oh so very young..is sad
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 Its a question of what you mean by Doggy Style. Did his dick actually go inside you or were you flat on your front with his dick between your butt cheeks or upper thighs? If the former then yes, virginity gone but if the latter then you should be more careful but you are probably still a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): both virgins?
oh, he probably came within thirty seconds of penetetration. you need to get to the doctor quick, and maybe you know-get some education.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (22 March 2009):
 Yes to both, you lost your virginity and you could be pregnant, you could also have a long list of sexually transmitted diseases.
You need to speak to a Doctor as soon as possible. And NEVER have sex with out a CONDOM!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 March 2009):
Ok, so your parents don't want you to be safe and haven't told you where babies come from....
YOU HAD UNPROTECTED SEX.
This means that yes, you have lost your virginity at 13, well done, and also you may now be pregnant.
Go and get the morning after pill. You'll have to go to a family planning clinic or a doctor. Look them up on google as there is always one open somewhere.
You have 72 hours to take it after sex.
While you are there, ask them to explain about how sex works and give you some condoms as you need to get some sex education from somewhere.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (22 March 2009):
Crash corse, then. He most likely did cum, and if he didnt, there is a such thing as precum, which every male does. It is a small amount of ejaculate that occurs just before he orgasms. Pre cum has more sperm count than an ejaculation (which is why the "pull out" method dosnt really work.) I'm sure you probably told him not to "finish" inside of you, but most boys his age just can't help themselves. It is very rare for a boy or guy to have sex and not finish. You'd hear of his poor, painful testicles the next day. So, yes hon, you very well could be pregnant. Please, use protection every time. It is important. Go to a gynocolagist and let them know you are sexually active and would like to be put on a pill. This is crucial babes. If you have any questions, and can't talk to your mom about it, please ask us here. We will all do our best to help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm homeschooled. And he didn't cum. Atleast I don't think so, so I doubt I'm pregnant. I just want to know if I actually lost my virginity.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (22 March 2009):
If he was inside of you, yes, you lost your virginity, no matter how it was put in there, your virginity is gone. Not only that but you may be an expecting mommy! Thats right, no protection=baby. Havnt they taught sex ed in school at your age? If not, guess they ought to start sex ed much earlier than they do.
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