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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

This will be the first time I have sex, and I'm worried he'll compare me to other girls!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - ok before i ask this i want to make it clear tht i dont want ppl to tell me not to do this coz i already made up my mind, id just realy appreciate the advice :) basically me and my best guy friend have agreed to have sex, hes had sex befre but i ...

Virginity and how can I make my body more ready for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - ok so i am in need of advice.i'm a virgin and last night i tryed having sex for the first time.i've been wearing tampons for two months now, so obviously it's broken.but when we started to have sex, my hymen was stretching and i could feel it, but ...

Advice on sex please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - hi. ok i need some sex advice. my and my boyfriend are going to have sex soon, we both know its right and we love and trust each other very much. we have been together for about 5 months, but we havent done anything sexually yet! its because i ...

My gf wants sex, but I don't feel I'm ready ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - Okay, I'm gonna be 15... and my girlfriend wants to have sex... I'm a guy of course I want to... I have been dating her since 7th grade (I'm a freshman now) and I don't know what to do... She means the world to me... and in the past I'...

First-time sex help needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok im 17 and I've started using tampons like about two months ago.So obviously my hymen IS broken.But deffinatley not stretched out enough for sex.Last week i attempted sex with my boy friend and when he tryed to go in, it just hurt WAY too much. I ...

We're 18 months into our relationship, and suddenly our family and friends are predicting when we'll start having sex! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Allo peoples! My girlfriend and I are over the year and a half mark in our relationship. She's 18 I'm still 17 but 18 in a month. We love eachother very much, and although we're virgins, many people, friends, our mums, have suddenly been pr...

Our first attempt at sex was difficult...but is she still a virgin now or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hello everyone I'm 21 and my girlfriend is going to turn 18 soon, we have been together for about 8 months now, I've never met such a wonderful girl that is open to talk about anything, yesterday we decided to "try" as we are both virgins, We ...

I didn't have sex with her because she was a virgin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I started dating my ex when i was in year one in the University. We where so much in love. As time went on i became physically abusive but i didnt want to have sex with her partly because she was a virgin and i believed sex is not love. In my fourth ...

I lied about losing my virginity to a girl I met over the Internet, and when we meet she wants to have sex with me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - So I am dating this girl that i met online...yes i know a long distance relationship blah blah blah. She told me she has a sexual past and just so she wouldn't think I was a loser I told her I wasn't a virgin. I really love her and we have been ...

Is there still a point in saving it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - I hope I don't get made fun of for this. I've only had one girlfriend ever, so not much relationship experience. Im 20 years old and I'm still a virgin; and I'm saving it for the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. It's difficult though, ...

Should I ask my best friend to have sex with me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - Okay. When I was in a part relationship with this girl we were having a bit of "play" on webcam and she ended up going completely naked for me. She is 2 years older than me but I have very strong emotions for her. Unfortunately, she now...

Unsure about dating and feel really cold..don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I find myself in a bit of a dilema and would like some advice/help. I'm very nervous around guys and never feel good enough for them, but there is a guy I really really like and he is really keen on me for some reason, we have kissed but I felt ...

Is there a way to fake your virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - hi i would like to know if there's any women out there that have lied about being a virgin (especially if anyone's married a Muslim guy) but really they were not and have had to come up with a way to fake loosing their virginity to a man on their ...

I am a virgin, but an ex took the "cherry" from me in another way, should I tell future boyfriends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - So, I know there's lots of posts around here about men and women being uncomfortable about their partners sexual history, and usually everyone just says to either not ask, or not give out details. I've never had sex before, so I am a virgin. I h...

Not sure if my girlfriend was a virgin or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - I know that some girls bleed and some don't when they have sex for the first time. However before i could have sex with my girlfriend for the first time it took a while mainly because even if she was aroused i could never penetrate her, it even hurt ...

Does he not care if I have sex with someone, or is he hiding his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - My guy friend told me that he likes me, and he knows I like him. I also told him I'm a virgin and we plan on having sex sometime. Recently this one guy wont leave me alone about wanting to get together, I told my guy friend about it, and I asked him ...

I'm a virgin but I told him I'm not

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - ok im turmoil here :( Im seeing my bf, we both in love, making future plans together ect... thing is im lying to him. Im still a virgin! even tho i've told him im not. Infact im lying to everyone about this, im like the 40 yr old virgin. i hate it, ...

I lied and told him I'm a virgin and now I can't tell him the truth!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - hi i need advice from anyone out there. im engaged getting married in a few months he thinks im a virgin i told him that i had a medical procedure and they kind of broke my hymen so i dont think i have a hymen told him its easy for me to insert my ...

My husband lied about being a virgin and I feel I cant move on from this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - After 25 years of marriage, and during a horrible row, I found out that my husband had lied to me when we were young and told me that he was a virgin when in fact he wasn't (only 1 other partner). This lie has really put a strain on our marriage. I ...

Do you think I could be sexually frustrated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - i got a question. am i sexually frustrated? im going to tell the truth. when i was 16 i went out with a girl she took my virginity. woopty-doo right. well i broke up with her. and now i miss her. im 18 now and still miss her and havent had a ...

I want to be sexual with him, are his morals holding him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - So I love my guy to death even though it's ling distance. We are both from good Christian families and have the same morals and beliefs. However I went through a slump a few months before I met him and lost my virginity and had occasional sex. We ...

Threesome with her virgin friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - i have have been dating this girl for about a year that i care strongly for and she cares for me the same but i was wondering if it would be okay if we had a threesome with her friend? there is only one thing her friend is a virgin what should i do? ...

How can I make the next time we have sex less painful? And how far inside is the hymen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I'm 18, and have been with my boyfriend 2 months. I'm a virgin, and until him I hadn't done anything sexually. We tried having sex last week but he only got in a couple of inches before I could take the pain no more. How can I lessen the pain? We ...

7 days pill break equals no sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are starting to get closer in bed, im still a virgin but I know he is the right guy and we're going to be togeter forever. But the only proble is im on my 7 day break on the pill. Ive heard that you're not supposed to have sex for ...

Have I lost my virginity or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Hi. I am a 19 year old female. I have been with a guy now for a little over 8 months and We both know that we will be together for life. We play around sexually like 3 or 4 times a week. I was a virgin when I met him. At first it started off just ...

Should I set aside tradition and family and just go for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - Should I go for her? She's my first girlfriend and the girl I ever truly loved. We broke up about 4yrs back because I didn't want to cause problem in both of our families. She went into about 4 relationships that didn't work out and she is now n...

Please don't let me be the next 40 year old virgin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - I am 16 and a virgin.. my girlfriend is the same age however she has had sex with one person. She said it was a mistake. We have been dating for a little over 2 months. Every thing is perfect except for every time we try to have sex I go limp. We ...

I'm a virgin, he wants to make love but I'm so scared!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - Well, I am really akward when it comes to boys, but there is this particular one who is sooo sweet, and he is just beutiful inside and out, but one day when we were alone, he began to touch me, it felt so good, but as he began to try and unbutton my ...

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - Am 22yrs old guy and have never had sex with a girl, but i do go through romance. But recently what all my friends talk about is their sex life. So i decided to disvirgin myself, so i met one girl and decided 2 sleep with her, but the girl has...

Men: Do you like clingy women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I've read a lot of advice from females, but i really want to know what males think. Apparently, males don't like clingy girlfriends. That true? What if the male was clingy, wouldn't he want a clingy girlfriend? What do you think about clingy girlf...

If we got together, would he expect me to have sex straight away and think I'm frigid if I don't? He's had 8 people and I'm a virgin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - Well theres this guy and he has just turned 20 wheras im 16. Anyway I've known him for ages through family but we didnt really talk much, I usually hung out with his younger brothers. Anyway it was exams this year and he tutored me and hes a great ...

Is being fingered considered as losing your virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - is being fingered considered losing virgin? please answr me,i really need the answer...

Have I lost my virginity? The hymen is so important in my culture and I'm worried I broke it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - sos!! I am Indian girl..i just fingered myself yesterday..n bleeded..have i lost my virginity? is it possible to loose virginity with just using middle finger to masturbate? how deep is the hymen? please help me as hymen is of astronomical imp...

Questions about sex and dating from a lovesick virgin...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - i have 3 questions. first say there is a girl who wants to have sex with me and i want to also, how do we consent i'm 15 male but i want to be ready when the situiaion comes up. second there is this girl i've know since i was 9 and i like her a...

Is it too soon after getting back together to lose our virginity to each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - im a virgin(17yr) and so is my bf and The thing here is ive been with my boyfriend for a month.i met him a yr ago on aug.2008 and he asked me to be his gf so i said yes then after 1 mon and a half i broke up with him because of some personal ...

Can my virginity affect my growth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - hi, I am 22 and I am a virgin. I am slim, I want to ask can my virginity affect my growth? because people say that if u are a virgin that u will not be fully developed. ...

Do you think she has feelings for me despite being in a relationship with another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - hi there, i am a 23 years old virgin never have a gf in my life, i love women but for the reason which i don't they know, and sadly, they have never entered in to my life. i have been with this girl for more than a year, we have been very close, we ...

Is masturbation ruining my sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Hi all, Lately I have been in a relationship with a 41-year old woman. I have known her for a few months already and we get along wonderfully, there's a lot of chemistry and fun being together. We have great compatibility too and want more or les...

I want to lose my virginity but how can I stop being nervouse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - im nearly 15 and i havent lost my big V yet and my gf whants to have sex with me i want to do it too but im nevrous what can i do to not be nervous?...

I lost my virginity to my now ex-boyfriend, but according to him I wasn't a virgin before him! What do you make of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I had my 1st sex last year when I was 20 wid my ex-boyfriend. But according to him, I was not virgin. I actually didn't understand what he meant. As according to him, I didnt suffer any pain much, and everything went so smooth. I got a lil confused ...

I have always wanted to wait until marriage. Now I'm having second thoughts...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I've always wanted to wait until I was married to have sex... but recently I've been really wanting to go further with my girlfriend. I want to now (or soon, at least), but at the same time I want to wait. I really love her and I really want to have ...

I lost my virginity and its totally forbidden! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - well...i live in the middle east in a country where sex before marriage is a sin worst then killing i've been with my bf for almost 6 months and we already had sex nobody knows about it...not even my best friend i'm so affraid of telling anyone b...

After strip club experience I can't think of being with women now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - I got a question, whats so great about sex all my freinds talk about sex all the time that and how to get more money im so tired of hearing it they make it seem like its the best thing in the world basicaly they make it sound liek water or air. ...

I am considering losing my virginity to a prostitute. What do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - Should I sleep with a prostitute? Well I’m new to this site and thought it might be able to help me with my problem: you see I’m 23 and still a virgin. The thing is, I don’t mind that so much because I’ve always valued my virginity and se...

One of my ex-girlfriends keeps trying to get back with me because she thinks I took her virginity, but did I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - One of my ex-girlfriends keeps trying to get back into my life because she keeps claiming that we are destined to be together because I took her virginity. But I really don't think that what I did with her really counted. Sure, we had all sorts of ...

Will I still pass as a virgin when I get married even though I've had sex 3 times?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - had sex 3 times not planing on having sex for 2-3 years will i still pass off as a virgin when i get married? (all 3 times bled)...

Confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - Hi, Basically a straight forward question. I'm confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time. I've heard it loads of times about 'breaking in' etc but still don't get it, is it messy like a mate of mine said years ago? what ...

Is my boyfriend's penis too big? It will be my first time and I'm scared of the pain!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I am a 19 virgin and ready to lost my virginity to my bf. When we want to have sex last night and found that his penis is too big. I don't think he able to fit inside me without hurting me a lot. I ask him to measure it for me and is 8.5" long and ...

I just want to have sex to get it over with.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - I am jealous of sex because, I have not had sex yet. I am 17 years old and I never had a girlfriend before, or even kissed a girl. I am forced to lie to everyone that I have had sex so I will not be embarrassed of my virginity. I don't want to wait ...

My ex BF wants me to take his virginity

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Okay, am ex-boyfriend of mine, who is a virgin, wants me to take his virginity. I wasn't a virgin when we were dating and we fooled around but never all the way. He's always told me that he should have lost it with me. The thing is now, I am not ...