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writes: Am 22yrs old guy and have never had sex with a girl, but i do go through romance. But recently what all my friends talk about is their sex life. So i decided to disvirgin myself, so i met one girl and decided 2 sleep with her, but the girl has seen many men. So that day i was feeling very nervous, but i had full erection. So when i put my penis inside, i feel as if her virgina is hot, so under 5 seconds i remove my penis from her and it went flaccid. We try all our best but i didn't get any other erection. So am i still a virgin? is a girl private part usually hot? Pls help.
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reader, tonik +, writes (1 September 2009):
I'm also 22 years old and I recently had sex for the first time, and believe me! It wasn't that exciting as both of us were virgins, when I put a condom on, my penis couldn't be hard again, at some stage I managed to put in for a few seconds but I couldn't feel that I'm doing her, so I took it out and it was the end of it. I think next time will be much better and each time you have sex, you will improve until you are totally fine. (That's what I believe as I'm also frustrated about this thing) You're not the only one. First times are difficult.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, thanks. I appreciate your writings and advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): i would say that you aren't a virgin if your penis entered her vagina and yes they are usually pretty warm.
although i would say it was a pretty sad way to lose your virginity if the only reason you wanted to do it was so you could discuss your sex life with your friends. next time dont choose a girl who's been with loads of lads as you put it and try to pick someone you really love.
anyway dont worry about it to much- your first time is like the first pancake- its your first time so your going to be rubbish so next time you'l be able to do it better
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