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*athy James
writes:I had my 1st sex last year when I was 20 wid my ex-boyfriend. But according to him, I was not virgin. I actually didn't understand what he meant. As according to him, I didnt suffer any pain much, and everything went so smooth. I got a lil confused and upset after that and surprised too. As I convinced him that I am a virgin. And he agreed to me, as he told me that it would be because of your hectic job and your exercising. Kindly reply.
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reader, Kathy James +, writes (17 August 2009):
Kathy James is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey Guys,
I didnt waste any time with him. I just agreed to have it with him bcoz i Truly loved him. But the thing which was bothering me that he knew me for 5 years and me tooo but in between due we didnt contact each other for 2 years. He knew that i didnt have it before. But as he got confused, he asked me politely that i'm a virgin or not. And as I was too shocked i just asked him the reason. He just told me that he felt it. And when I explained him that no its my 1st time. He told me not to worry and sorry for asking the question and made me realxed. But for my satisfaction, i asked this question. He only adviced me that it could be because of your hectic work hours and exercising. According to me, he seemed to be polite. But actually i wanted to undergo that pain myself. But i didnt. :( Currently, I'm having a boyfriend and till now i Haven't been involved with him in such a way because i don't want it too. thanx anywayz guys.
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reader, beachbabe  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 He is a jerk! not every girls has pain while losing there v-card. Depends on how big the guy is.. or how gentle he was with ya.. Ur ex is a Jerk, he shouldnt be questioning you about ur virginity.
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (16 August 2009):
YOU KNOW who you lost your virginity to and when. Who cares if your ex agrees or not? Why is this even bothering you? You know the truth.
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reader, haley92 +, writes (16 August 2009):
well theres not much u can do. you did stand your ground and you know whether you were a virgin or not! thats all that matters in the end. some guys are just jerks.
i was best friends with a guy and we were dating for a long time, we lost our virginity to each other, 2 weeks later i got the stomach flu and the dumb ass thought i was pregnant i told him i wasnt and even took a pregnancy test but he still dumped me in a text message.
i know i sound angry but its life! guys will shit on you only if you let them! as long as you know you're right, thats all that matters . so he can go fuck himself in the arsehole!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): Maybe it's not what he wants to hear because he would feel more responsible over you. You stood your ground, so it would change his mind later as of a sort of confirmation statement he gave. It's also not your fault, but a lot of girls lie. He probably feels bad about himself now.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (16 August 2009):
 This guy is a jerk, he just wanted you for your virginity he probably went and laughed about with his buddies. i cant under stand why guys do this maybe they feel taking a girls virginity and leaving them makes them more of a man. It doesnt it makes them a jerk.he is probably just saying that maybe because hes been with virgins that felt pain and he wanted that experience with you maybe he enjoys inflicting pain on his partner he should hae been happy it wasnt painful for you.To bad you wasted your time with this guy hes a looser you deserve so mutch better. Virginity is important in the middle east but it should not be to this extent. This man should not be treating you this way. you need to forget him move on put him out of your life.He may be angry about the breakup but to call you a liar and disgrace an important moment in your life is wrong.I hope you wont hate all men after this cuse there are good ones just be more picky next time.
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