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Archived questions from: April, 2018 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How do I cope with insecurity while he's abroad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - I've been in relationship almost 2 years with a man of 60 year old, we have 16 year of age difference. We used to work in the same work place. 2-month-ago he was relocated temporarily to a country where his ex lives permanently. He is a ...

If I make him feel better why did he inbox his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2430 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - Is my boyfriend being genuine about his feelings? The other day, my boyfriend was a little sick, not dying sick, but sick. I went to the hospital with him and he made a post on Facebook posting a picture of his hospital band and captioned it say...

We've broken up but why does my heart still hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2435 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS COMBINED My head is in a spin . My ex broke up with me a few months ago. At first he sent nasty texts and then texts saying he loves me and then I heard nothing for over a week, the texts dwindled to odd 1 or 2 and then not...

My best friend tried to kiss my girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2435 days ago

27 April 2018 (M) - Hey guys. Last night my best friend (of like 8 years) tried to kiss my fiance (of 10 years). We were all out drinking, but I had left early because i was feeling gross. I had no trust issues leaving them. They didn't know i was there, as i had ...

Is it fair to let past experiences influence tis relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2434 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for about a month now and we started to talk about the future and what the relationship is and he tells me that last summer he was accused of raping his ex. At the time he was telling me with I had just had consensual sex w...

Should I trust her on birth control?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2434 days ago

26 April 2018 (M) - I'm 32 years old, dating my 22 old girlfriend for 3 months and days ago we had sex without condom and it was amazing, I almost forgot how good it feels lol, last time I had unprotected sex was with my ex wife who I divorced three years ago. Since ...

Married man damaging my reputation.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2434 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - Previous Post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-out-of-this-relationship-with-a.html About a month ago I ended an affair with a married man that I was having. We texted and called daily and we slept together on the weekend but I told it ...

My confidence is shot, I know I'm better off but I want him to realise it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2433 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - My ex of 8 years dumped me 4 months ago, he was and still is an alcoholic and takes heroin and crack and blues and pregabs plus antidepressants ( bought of the streets) I tried helping him and loved him so much , in the past year before the break up ...

I cant get the "cloud 9" feeling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - hello dear aunts! Don't want to go too long or detailed about this. I'm going to cut it short. I 'm seeing someone who is great. He is known to be an honest and decent guy. I've known him as a friend for a long time but we started seeing e...

He earns three times more but wants to split the bills 50/50

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2433 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - my boyfriend has recently asked me to move in with him. we had a conversation about our finances and his expectation of what i should contribute to the household expenses. He wants to split everything 50/50. We got into an argument over this because ...

Boyfriend upsets me then gets mad at me and ignores me instead of making it better.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2436 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a LDR for a year and 2 months. It started out slow but now we have spoken about marriage, a child and me moving to his town. Trouble is - in 2 is our most recent fights - he did something to upset me, I got upset, and then...

Why the mixed signals?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2436 days ago

25 April 2018 (F) - Me and this guy have been casually seeing each other for a year; he would come over from nights out etc and we would just cuddle and kiss and act romantic even though we were not together. We got close in the sense that he started to trust me and we ...

I want out of this relationship with a married man but he is making it difficult.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2438 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - In September I moved to a new area for work, shortly after I started my job i had a coworker that started flirting with me. He is really cute and sweet only problem is he is married. He like me moved to the area for work, his family is actually four ...

I'm tired of being the other woman but love him too much to let go.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2438 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - I have been seeing A married guy for nearly 8 months. He spending every free moment with me we do things we go away sometimes, we talk on the phone multiple times a day every single day. He has been great fI me, He’s caring, attentive, Generous ...

I offered an adult student help, now he constantly contacts me.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2431 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - I would like to preface my question by saying that this isn't exactly a "relationship" question, but I am reaching out for advice because I know that some of you are really qualified to give advice about interactions with people, in general. I te...

I have feelings for my ex but he just wants to be friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2436 days ago

23 April 2018 (M) - dear cupid i have recently got back in to touch with an ex boyfriend we Broke up on bad term yrs ago but as i said we got back in touch and we are friends but i have realised i still have feeling for him and he said he just wants to be friends ...

Every relationship ends the same way ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2440 days ago

23 April 2018 (F) - Hello, I'm 23 years old (f) suffering with anxiety and bipolar. In my childhood and teenage years, I suffered from emotional and physical abuse, and it's affecting my relationships with people right now. My dad was one of the people who made me feel ...

My well-connected but broke boyfriend has 4720 friends on Facebook but won’t add me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2439 days ago

23 April 2018 (F) - I probably know the answer to this question, but if anyone has some thoughts, I'm in a long distance relationship with a much older man who is very accomplished and well-connected (flat broke, but always has younger women chasing him). We see each ...

Why did he have makeup smeared around his lips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

21 April 2018 (F) - My husband is the most loving loyal husband, we never argue at all and we get along amazing, we are both just so madly in love, he’s always been very affectionate and he really is amazing in every way. However he went on a works meal yesterday a...

My boyfriend, I and his so called lesbian friend who's slept with him, fancies him and doesn't like me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Been seeing a guy for 7months now. Started off casually, us both not looking for a relationship, but it naturally progressed into one that we both are enjoying. We have had to redefine and communicate a lot about what our needs and expectations are ...

What can I do to make my Facebook account more respectable so that my boyfriend doesn't take things the wrong way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Hello. After a few years of being single minus one short relationship last year, I've found someone I want to get serious with. We've been dating a few months now and I've put a lot of thought into the type of partner I want to be. I've no problem ...

Why is my co-worker taking care of his female friend after she just had a baby? Does he like her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2428 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Hello there, I am 32 years old and my coworker is 41 years old. We starred to talk around January only at work then we found out that we live 8 minutes away from each other. Our days off rotate and march 16th him and I set the date to go to lunch an...

I'm still being picked on at school, one girl said its because I'm clueless.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - THIS IS WHAT I WROTE BEFORE: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/please-help-me-stand-up-for-myself.html These friends are the only friends I have and when they give me the silent treatment or start rumors it really hurts! I pretty much end up begg...

A guy I was seeing went quiet on me, he says he is following legal advise.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - Im just wondering what are peoples thoughts. I was seeing a guy who went quiet on me we had been seeing each other for 6 month. i heard from him a handful of times in 2 month and didnt get to see him . I didnt sit about waiting for him i got on with ...

My hsband left me for another woman but wont considera divorce.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2446 days ago

17 April 2018 (F) - My husband left me with other woman his (mistress) it's been 2 weeks now since he left. I'm 37 yr old My husband is 54 and his mistress is 45 year old she's older than me . I want to divorce him coz I don't trust him no more . But my husband ...

How do I handle my girlfriends past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

16 April 2018 (M) - I would like to start out by saying that I consider myself very open minded. I am divorced from a 6 year marriage and am on good terms with. I have even made good friends with my ex-wife’s boyfriend and we hang out occasionally. My current ...

My boyfriend doesn't tell anyone about me but wants me to move in with him ... what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2446 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 5 months and were exsclusive.. I'm finding myself in love with him he treats me well except for one issue he doesn't tell anyone about me, not friends which he only has a few not co workers not his family... He tells me ...

My girlfriend left, I want to fix it but she is ignoring me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

16 April 2018 (M) - My girlfriend of 12 years has just left me. For the last 4 years we've lived together in our own place after a spell living with her family, we moved in shortly after my father passed away. I really struggled to deal with my father's passing...

The man who was my companion contacts me through my daughter after 2 years!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2446 days ago

14 April 2018 (F) - Hello peeps I have a question that I'd like your honest opinions about - please...? I met this lovely, magic but crazy guy in 2016. We clicked. It was very strong whilst it lasted. But he liked his drink and we both got drunk a lot and that was...

We're having sex, he has another girl and I have feelings and a third girl is spreading nasty rumours.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2398 days ago

13 April 2018 (F) - This is a little bit long winded so i do apologise in advance. I went to the pub one with my friend and she introduced me to one of her guy friends and kept teasing us both that we are both single. That night i plucked up the courage to messa...

I'm having an affair wih my fiance's best friend.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

12 April 2018 (F) - I’m engaged due to be married September, I’ve started having an affair with one of his best friends. Now I don’t know whether I love his best friend. He’s asked me to not get married. My fiancé is a good man great father and stable. His frien...

My husband is in touch with his ex girlfriend again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

11 April 2018 (F) - Hi.... Big issue here is trust... I recently saw ( I was standing behind him while he was at the computer) that my husband has his old girlfriend on his bill payer.. we’ve only been married 2 years and we are not on each other’s accounts... He says ...

I'm falling for the new girl and my current GF is jealous.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

10 April 2018 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years, we live together and on the whole we're very happy. I've recently met another girl and just click with her so well- we've hung out as a three a few times and to start with my gf really g...

I want my boyfriend to stop paying for porn before we move in together.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

10 April 2018 (F) - I'm not sure if I am being extremely jealous or whether I am right to feel this way.. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we are even looking at apartments together however there are a few things that really bother me. First of all ...

My ex has said he would never marry me, but I want him back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

8 April 2018 (F) - Does my ex still have feelings for me or not?. I dated him for a year and a half from 2015 until 2017. Then I left him for another man that we both know, who I was in a relationship with for nearly a year ( he broke up with me three months ago). My ...

I would tell her I love her but don't want to risk our friendship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

7 April 2018 (M) - Hello readers, I am ashamed and embarrassed to admit that I am in love with a married woman. I am a 33 year old man, I am mostly sensible and don't want things I can't have. I live with my girlfriend of 10 years. She's everything I shoul...

I need advice, I believe my family are scheming against me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

7 April 2018 (F) - A great site....lots of commonsense advice. I am having a tough time with my siblings and not the first time. About three years back I posted that they were forcing me to pay bank my 9k inheritance from my moms estate. As executor and power of attor...

Did my boyfriend’s dad just sexually harrass me!? I’m crying

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

7 April 2018 (F) - My boyfriends dad just sexually harrased me?! I feel so embarrased to even write this! Please help I am in shock I live with my boyfriends parents and something happened I was eating late meal in the kitchen and he came in, we were having a ...

I am worried my boyfriend will assume the worst ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

4 April 2018 (F) - So I had posted about this issue previously, and everything has been fine since. However, I noticed a light pink bruise on my chest (above my breasts not on them) and now my thoughts are racing, I feel sick. The anxiety this brings is overwhelming. ...

How do I move forward with my new boyfriend after cheating on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

4 April 2018 (F) - Hi, I previously asked a question relating to the situation I found myself in. To be honest I had some rather rude and insensitive answers from one particular user but each to their own opinion. Basically I was in an violent abusive relation...

Was my husband lying about not loving the other woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

4 April 2018 (F) - is my husband lying to me when he says he never loved the other woman? I found messages and video with him telling her he loves her...

My old nemesis might sabotage my new life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

4 April 2018 (F) - I am seriously thinking of moving to a new city to start my life over. At 50, I know this won't be easy, and I want to think ahead and do as much as I possibly can to get things off on the right track. Partly this is because I have tried for 23 ...

My husband is disappointed because I didn't tell him about a job interview

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

4 April 2018 (F) - Hi guys I feel really terrible about lying to my husband about a recent job interview I had. Two weeks ago I applied for a job (he knew I had been looking) and got called for the interview and thankfully got it. However I didn't tell my husband ...

Is he telling the truth about the state of his marriage?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

3 April 2018 (F) - I’m seeing a married man for a number of years. I am in no rush to spending my whole life with but I do love him, he says he is in a sexless marriage, that his wife has no sex drive yet iv seen photos of them with her arm around him yet he doesn’t ...

Please help me stand up for myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

2 April 2018 (F) - I am sick of my friends not listening to me and then punishinhg me with rumors and the silent treatment. OK. Sometimes, it's fun for me, JUST TO HAVE A CRUSH ON SOMEBODY. It's fun and it's safe and I can feel all happy inside and I don't have to ...

I suspect my daughter in law is having sex with my boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2449 days ago

2 April 2018 (?) - I suspect my daughter in law who is married for 11 yrs to my son on having an affair with my boyfriend of 10 years. I believe this has been going on for sometime now. I have no hard proof,just what I see with my own eyes. My gut instant is so sure, ...