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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Job interview coming up soon. Feeling stressed, worried and overwhelmed. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I feel that I need some advice re. my stress. I have a job interview in a few hours and I feel overwhelmed with stress and worry, that I'm in tears and feeling nauseous . I don't have time to go and see a doctor at the moment. But I don't know how...

Why do people do people act like they are in love so easily ? How do I tell him that he's crazy?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - So my friend and I just got done texting and he has known this girl for like four days and is already saying that she is his dream girl. I've been telling him that he is crazy and that he falls in love way to easy. Why do people do that? How do I te...

My ex boyfriend wants me to drive him to his work.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - so me and my ex have broken up but its only been about 1 month or so... he says in a another relationship already like he has a new girlfriend... now he has been contacting me saying that he loves me even when we talk on the phone its love you... ...

She invited me to church but doesn't want to go on dates.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - So I recently meet up with this girl I dated in high school and she invited me to church with her and we went together sometimes! So anyways at first I thought she lost all feelings for me but the first time I went with her to church I could feel ...

Am I wasting my time? Is he using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Okay so in march I started speaking to this guy, he's really nice and stuff. Anyhow we finally met in April at a house party and one thug led to another and well - we had what you would call a 'one night stand' however afterward due to him being in ...

When ever I have sex with my husband I feel dirty!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I love my husband and I am attracted to him, but every time we have sex I feel dirty and cheap afterwards. We only have sex about once a month and it's lights out him on top. I still feel dirty and horrible afterwards. It's affecting our marriage, ...

My boyfriend wont take responsibility for his actions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Hi all. When my boyfriend has had too much to drink he can be very argumentative, he misunderstands things I say. Last week he asked a stupid question and I gave a stupid answer, he got angry, when I tried to explain he said he never said that. Then ...

I lied about my age by one year. Now we're getting really serious. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - HELP, I met this guy online and he was really awesome. No we are not dating but I lied about my age when we met. And I'm scared he will be mad if I tell him but It will be weird if he finds out later on. We have a three year age difference h...

Why would my father suggest he could accompany this girl and I to the movies? Her reply confused me too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - i have two questions to ask.so i like this girl right and one day i had no one to go to the movies with and my dad suggested that i ask her to go with me. what i don't get is that she freaked out. so my dad says that he could come if it wasn't too ...

How can I overcome my jealousy and my fears that he might cheat and my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Please help guys. I need to stop being so insecure all the time with my boyfriend, I'm so scared im going push him away. I just get so scared he's going to cheat on me or whatever do something. He hasn't really given me a reason to doubt him he t...

I think I'm falling out of love. What can be done to improve the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now but it doesn't feel like we're dating anymore. we dont go out much, we never really did, but we would always go to each others houses and hang out have sex and chill. i keep urging him to do ...

Was I right to throw the creep out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - When your kids hate the guy you are dating....watch out. No telling what they will do. I had been seeing a fellow for about 6 months or so, and my two girls could not stand him. He was trying to play the concerned parent part. He never lived in...

Did I make a mistake in getting with him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - I feel I made a mistake in getting back together Hi guys, It's early morning and I really need a place to vent. I've recently got back together with my ex. It's been a week since we've been together. I broke up with him last time ...

LDR issues. Do I confront her over her Ex issues ? Do I insist on seeing her to work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - LDR issues.Do I confront the issues? Do I insist on seeing her next weekend? To try to work things out with her? For years I ignored the feeling in the back of my mind that I may be gay. However about 3 months ago a friend signed me up to a gay dati...

Four months of dating and he's giving me mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hello uncle and auntie's, I have posted a concern before regarding my four-month relationship with this guy. This guy and I have been together for four months and everything was going well it's just that he has and ask me to be his girlfriend. ...

My boyfriend hides couples photos of us on facebook but the ones with his ex girlfriend are there for all to see!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hi there, nothing major. just a quick question. My boyfriend keeps hiding photos of us together from his facebook timeline thing. This is going to sound very petty, but I'm just a bit worried that he's embarrassed about me or somethin...

Am I crazy to want a partner who desires me and finds me attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - I have been married 16 years and have been bothered by something that may seem trivial to some people. I am aware that all people will notice other attractive people but my husband seems to have a real issue with this and I have talked to him about ...

My Dad trusts me abroad so why doesn't he extend my curfew at home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - I'm 21 and I live with my parents in a big expensive city in the U.S. I have a ton of loans from school that I have to start paying off in 6 months (I just graduated) so moving out of my parents place would not be a smart thing to do. I work part ...

Need opinions on situation with boyfriend and other women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Boyfriend (now ex) is mad at me for reading a facebook message a girl sent me outlining her relationship with him. This girl has been stalking me online for over a year. My boyfriend is incredibly funny, family oriented, loves his mom, nice at...

Would this be classified as cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hi everybody! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Me and my boyfriend were together for 5 years before the relationship ended. It was mainly my fault, I was writing my university dissertation, revising for exams, working to help my parents ...

My online boyfriend shouts at me and hangs up, but I am lonely without him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy. We came to know each other through online dating website. It's been 1 year we have still not meet each other. In the initial 2-3 months he was very loving. He made me feel true love. He has been going through ...

My Gf never initiates sex. Makes me feel I'm the only one who wants it. How can I encourage her to initiate sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - For the ladies, Ive been with my babe for 4 going on 5 years and we had sex about 2 months ago and both lost our virginity to each other. Awesome! But the whole time we have been together I always (if not mostly) initiate our intimacy and as her ...

What are your opinions on this close friendship my BF has with this long term friend who's a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, Ok so am new to this however I will appreciate the advice you guys give me. I am currently with a guy i am in love with. We celebrated our 3yrs anniversary of knowing each other earlier in June. He and I are very happy together now b...

I am primarily attracted to men who don't seem to find me attractive and it hurts. I'm well educated, articulate and curvy. What do I need to consider or do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I'd really value your thoughts and advice on my situation. First I'll give a bit of background to give you a better picture. I'm a 24 year old black girl from London and I am primarily (but not exclusively) attracted to white ...

It's seven years since my wife allowed me to touch her breasts. What might help to help her resolve her issues over this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - How can I get my wife to be comfortable with me touching her breasts? Ever since our daughter was born seven years ago touching her breasts has made her uncomfortable and its distressing me. It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong and I do...

How do I handle this situation? My mother in law and sister in law chose to get my son's hair cut without our permission. Am I over-reacting? It will grow. It's the disrespect that irritates me

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hello Agony aunts, I have a major issue that I need advice on. My husband and I have a 2yr old son. He is currently in our hometown visiting family. My mother n law and sister n law decided to get my son hair cut( this was his 2nd cut) without...

If we break up will he give up on our daughter too? I am tired of his abuse and his behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I know he treats me bad but sometimes some people re abusive because they love you too much, this is my baby daddy and he is emotionally abusing me. He left me pregnant and came back when baby was 3 months blaming me for making him leave. We ...

Am I in a hopeless position re my Bf and confused? I very lonely here, my family lives overseas

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Being with this Muslim guy for about 4 months. Is the second time he break up with me saying that he's a bad guy and I am too "drama" for him.. But he changes his mind 10 min after and is like everything is fine.. Then he says he wants to be only...

What's a 32 year old Virgin to do if he feels like a Nerd in his own community - if he wants to get girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - Modnote: I allowed 2 of the videos as I feel that they contributed important understanding. I did not allow the Fleshlight video. I watched all 3 videos before I allowed the 2 in. The rest below is from the Original Poster - - - - - --- Well..I n...

He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over. He's cold and distant. Is this relationship over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over? My bf was the sweetest, caring and very attentive when he had a job. But he's lost his job 6 months now and he's just so distant and cold. He hardly calls or texts me. We argue every time w...

Is this the right course for me? Disabled wife, no sex for years. Now I have a platonic female friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

27 June 2014 (M) - I am a married man with a disabled wife, and I suffer from extreme caretaker's depression because of it. Recently I ran into a divorced lady of about my age, who used to be friend of my wife's (they turned out to be very non-compatible a...

Serious relationship for 2 years. Yet he flirts. He says he doesn't want to be mean or hurt their feelings. But what about my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - As much as I love my boyfriend I seem to have a problem with something - the way he acts with other woman. My boyfriend is what most people would call a 'natural flirt' and honestly it bothers me a lot. We live in a small town and he knows a lot ...

He used to like me. I really like him but he has a Gf. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend. He used to like me but he hasn't given me any signals or anything! I don't know what to do anymore! I love him and I don't know if he will ever even like me. Have any suggestions?...

He's 18. It feels right but wrong. How should I handle this considering that I live in a very closed community?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - Hi i really need advice on this,i feel so confused.. I recently met my best friend's cousin and i knew the minute i saw him that i liked him,i feel so attracted to him It's like nothing i have ever experienced.. The problem is he is 18!! A Also i...

My mother seems to undermine me ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I am finding that every time I have a telephone conversation or see my Mother I am left either slightly bewildered or depressed and down. This situation has gone on for years and I have tried lots of different approaches. She lives with my Dad ...

This married woman thinks she is a beauty queen!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I would like to have your opinions on this woman. She is married but because she is unhappy in her couple, she feels she can cheat her husband. Well, she thinks that she is a beauty queen even though she is not. She says that she can have any man ...

Don't give me a lecture because I am only in it for the money!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - We dated for two years and he was a lovely person we separated because of me...i was not reliable. However his back, wants back... I dont really mind him being around because he is good to me. And doing financially badly, i wouldnt min...

I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...

My boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a little less than two years. We met at work and were friend for a year before getting together. I moved to another town for grad school 7 months ago, but we still see each other at least once a month and ...

Am I really going too far our of my way just to hang out with my friends once or twice a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

26 June 2014 (M) - For the past 3.5 years after college graduation, I've visited my college friends 1-2 times a year which costs me a $250+ round-trip flight every time. To be honest, friends have been a rare thing in my life, so I'm glad to call these two my close...

My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl and he had the audacity to tell me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl. When I confronted my boyfriend he demanded who had told me. I ever gave him the name. He then told me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over ...

I called off the wedding. But how do I get past the guilt if I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I was until recently, engaged to be married. I called off the wedding because my fiancé yells a lot, is very stressed (life choices, poor planning, disorganization, plus regular stresses of job, kids, etc.), blames me and others for everything, ...

He's showing no remorse and says my insecurity is the issue. Am I over-reacting over the video?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the past 3 years. Within the past 5 months we have finally decided to get serious. We've been living together for 3 months. In the past out relationship has majorly been unstable because of his lack of ...

Just broke up with gf of 2,5 years for lying.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

25 June 2014 (M) - Hey everybody, So my gf and I went on a vacation last week. On the third day of our (up untill this point lovely) vacation I noticed her recieving a text message and her acting shady. In all these years I have NEVER allowed myself to be jealous. S...

He brought an 18 year old home and wanted a 3some. What to do to cope with my bad feelings over this?.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - I am dating a guy that I am crazy about, I am not what you would call a woman that has had the greatest track record with men, two divorces and several lost relationship problems in between with men and woman. Needless to say, been single for a wh...

Is she worth it? Or should I stay away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

25 June 2014 (?) - Perhaps it is my age, given that I am a sophomore in high school, or that I am just flat out stupid, but my ex girlfriend has caused issues yet again. I will not use names, so let's call her.... 'K'. And me as, 'A'. Freshman year of high...

How do I tell him that enough is enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - Hi and thanks, I am confused about my relationship status because my bf breaks up ALOT and on Monday he said technically we're friends. I questioned him but as usual he was being cold to me. We were off and on for over 2 yrs, in this time I f...

How can I trust my boyfriend when he promises he won't cheat on me again?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - I want to be able to trust my boyfriend, I really do but at times I can't help but doubt what he says when I know he has cheated and lied to me before. We have been together on and off for four years, nearly five. He cheated on me after about a ye...

I'm worried that my on/off boyfriend is leading a double life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - It's been about 10 months of a on again-off again relationship on his part. He comes up with reasons to break it off. I have yet to be invited to his home. He swears that he's just a private person that does not let every girl he meets into his life ...

Dating for 9 months. Now she's decided that she's not ready for a relationship? What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

24 June 2014 (M) - She told she is not ready for relationship, I've been dating her for nine months. Now and all of the sudden this happens. What do i do ? Do i wait ? We headed off since we first met everything was good we had great conversations we wen...