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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I'm ready for this relationship but he can be unreliable. How can I fix this relationship so he's ready too?

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31 December 2010 (F) - I recently got back with my exboyfriend, he asked me out again. I feel as if he's not ready for a relationship yet. I really love him. Im ready for him, but i don't feel he's ready for me. I don't know how to make him know how i feel. I've been ...

Should I be the one to 'cave in'? We haven't spoken for four days

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - This is kind of a followup from my last question. I haven't spoken to my boyfriend in 4 whole days now and I don't know if I should be the one to cave or not? http://www.dea...

He feels like a 'keeper' but I'm finding it really hard to trust his sweet talking words

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31 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, almost 10. I love him, I think I'm in love with him. But I don't know, how can I be sure? How can I be sure he's in love with me? He tell me he's madly in love with me, and I'm the only girl he EVER ...

He may be confused, but now he's confusing me, and is he emotionally blackmailing me as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hey. I am 17. I met a guy on a gaming website 6 months ago. We played games and there was a chat box there too.. So we chatted and played for a month. He is 22. I told him where I lived after a month and found out that he lived in the same area as...

Is he just sweet talking me or is he in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend tells me I'm the only girl he ever thought was beautiful, all the time, he tells me he thinks NO other girl is even close to cute and I'm the only girl he ever found beautiful. Is this true? Or is he just sweet talking me? Or could this ...

My BF has rejected me because he has a 'mental bock' about my previous relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Currently my ex-boyfriend broke off with me as he says he has a mental block re my past relationship which lasted for 5 years. I was with a guy who was married and when the previous relationship started 5 years ago we were friends and then we had a ...

I love her, can't stop thinking about her, but she hates me. I need advice please

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31 December 2010 (M) - I'm 14 going on 15 and there's this girl i really like, only thing is she hates me, and i don't know what to do next. I think it's because first of all i got my mates to ask her out, and second when she said to them that she wouldn't go with me, ...

How do I earn my boyfriend's trust back?

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31 December 2010 (F) - How can I earn my boyfriend's trust back? I didn't physically cheat on him. I'm going through a VERY hard time right now. I recently lost my family. We were separated with foster families. The reasons don't matter, the point is that I went to a town ...

Troubled relationship has become perfect but should I trust him?

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31 December 2010 (F) - Am the one that told u b4 that had fight with my bf we were 2gether 4 2 years we fought and he scared me with msgs and said bad words but know am back with him i 4gave him and know hes totally different hes calm gentle and truly romantic cn he ...

Experiences with cheating boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

31 December 2010 (?) - Okay, so I met my boyfriend at work, we were friends for a while then got together. I know a lot about his past, he's been engaged before and such... Anyway, his ex girlfriend was a bit of a stalker, she would constantly text but he'd never respo...

Should I invest in a keylogger for his laptop and phone even though my heart tells me it will probably spell the end of our marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been together since we were 19, married since the age of 20. He's always been heavily into pornography and is constantly pushing me to engage in activities that make me uncomfortable. I understand that porn use is very comm...

Can u sleep with someone and have no feelings for them and still be in love with your wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Im lost...I've been married to my husband for over 8 years ( and we have 2 kids tog) and i found out 2 weeks ago from a womans husband that my husband had been sleeping with his wife for the pass 5 months while he was in kuwait..hes home now and ...

I'm telling the truth but she doesn't believe me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - me and my girlfriend got in to a argument and the first time we did i walked out and and got drunk and the first time we started talking i slept with a girl but it was nothing a one time thing. now She also dosent believe that i was at home in my ...

If your girlfriend had only a single 2 minutes' sexual encounter before you were in her life,would you let that effect you?

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30 December 2010 (M) - If you were a virgin before your gf and you knew that your gf only engaged in sex for a minute or two and realized it was wrong and stopped. And that was her only sexual encounter before you,would you let that effect you? I love my girlfriend but I ...

We have great chemistry. I like him. But what are your thoughts on fact he has no real friends?

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30 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a very close friend and we hve great chemistry. He has liked me for a while now he said, and he would love to go out with me. I told him I'd think about it, but I'm sure I'll say yes because he is such a great funny and cute ...

Compliments, more compliments. But then he told friend that 'I'm not his type' What's his agenda?

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30 December 2010 (F) - So im 19 and he's 30. My friend set us up to go out and everything. And it was nice. i ended up liking him, but i guess he didn't feel the same, because i am here and he is goodness knows where. So here's the thing, we went out and he told me, ''wow ...

I broke up with him and now he's with my best friend

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30 December 2010 (F) - I broke Up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago but 3 days later my best-friend started going out with him. And every time anyone brings up that it's horrible. What she did to me, she says that I did it to her, but I didn't. And I Was with him for half ...

My BF broke my trust, now he says he's worrying about my feelings. What's that mean?

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30 December 2010 (F) - My bf broke my trust this time last year by lying to me. And he told me his Christmas this year was sad because he missed me and was worrying about my feelings. What does the latter bit mean? ...

Does he really love me, even though in person he's different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for a while and I really do think I love him and when we text and talk and stuff he tells me he loves me very much. He tells me that he has never felt this way for a girl before in his life. He makes me feel ...

Should I go for this boy, or could he be a womanizer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy in high school. We only have one class together, but we hang out with the same group of people in every break, or almost. He is very nice, funny, handsome, sentimental, smart. And I'm not idealizing him; he really is, all girls agree, ...

Is this the end? He left my daughter and I stranded on the road.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I just let my boy friend move in with me because he didn't have a place to move to, so we agreed we would split everything 50/50. It has been 2 days and he works a lot so we don't see a lot of each other. We went to go transfer internet and cabl...

My husband is having an affair. How do I handle things now?

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30 December 2010 (F) - My husband is having an affair. I should just tell him to go but it all seems so ridiculous, we live in Berkshire and she's in Norwich! He texts her all the time - I first discovered it by finding a second mobile phone that he obviously didn't ...

Is she attracted to me? What does prolonged, intense deep eye contact mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - i met a girl at college and she seemed to be giving me signals of interest. anyway, we eventually exchanged numbers and began flirting and texting until almost 2am on college night (something i wouldn't expect friends to do on a college night). her ...

This boy is so shy, so did his Uncle lie to get this boy and I talking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I know this boy, he is around my age. His Uncle is good friends with my mother and he told me that this boy likes me which sparked an interest in me. After some time I too became to like him, but the problem is this boy (After getting to know him ...

To get access to his child, His Ex expects me to absent myself and I'm sick of it

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30 December 2010 (F) - my bf has an ex wife who doesn't allow their child to come over unless i am not going to be home. This has always been like this. fr day one, but i put a stop to it and told them i no long was goin to hide from her.but its been along time and still ...

Should I forgive him? Or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Wednesday the 15th I had a date set up with a guy. We were going to go for supper which was his idea. Then last night came and he said he was really tired cause he had to work a bunch of night shifts, which I understood and he said another time. ...

I had a bad experience in the past and now I can't trust him!

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30 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year.. i do have trust issues he hasn't cheated on me or anything just stuff that has happened with me make me have this. how do i get rid of this? should i go talk to someone? im just so scared he will do ...

Jealousy and trust issues without any reason for them?

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I broke his trust and don't know how to make things better.....?

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30 December 2010 (F) - Hi. So I've been seeing this guy for just over 3 months now, but we got together when he still had a girlfriend so had to keep it all a secret from our friends. They broke up a couple weeks later and since then we have still kept everything quiet. ...

Does my baby's father really love this Probation Officer or is he using her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I am 5 months pregnant with my boyfriend of a year. I broke up with him at 9 weeks. He was layed off from his job and I was working 2 jobs at the time. I would come home and he was never there, claiming to be looking for jobs (at 9pm at night). I ...

He always accuses me of cheating, but I didn't!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hi... I would really appreciate your help, because i am really desperate now... My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now.. i never done anything that could make him think that i like someone else, except going out a few times, and ...

Why he acts like we're dating if he doesn't want it??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5068 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - so i have a friend who i've only known for a week and a half. well the first time we hung out he was blowing up my facebook to hang out, so he came and picked me up and took me to the club he works at (also a favorite club of mine) well that night ...

Am I being realistic? She wants to wait for her cheater. I want to wait for her

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30 December 2010 (M) - I came out of a relationship about 3 months ago. And since then I've been chatting to friends and such, and my one friend was going through a break up/being messed around by her ex who is basically a womaniser. Anyway, through my friend and through ...

Am I asking too much? I'm not asking to change, just more emphasis on an emotional connection.

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30 December 2010 (F) - So I’m not exactly sure where to turn, my friend uses this site a lot and he says it’s always a good help for him, so I’m hoping someone has some insight on my relationship problem. Sorry for it being so long. I’ve been in a long distance rela...

Should I wait or should I not wait?. I still love my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago, but we still hang out, and talk almost every night. We share lots of laughs and we tend to make out every time we go out. From time to time he'd invite me over to his place and we would even have sex....

Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my st...

Is he drinking behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have a pretty big problem. My boyfriend is a former alcoholic. I have trust issues with him. The past few times we have seen each other he has smelt very strange. I thought maybe it was bad body odor. Then he came to my house and the next day my ...

Help! My girlfriend is too insecure!

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30 December 2010 (M) - hey. my girlfriend is so insecure because of what i have done in the past or so she tells me. i Am going to be compeltely honest and i need you people to tell me if its me or if its her issues. We have been dating for 11 months and we both do l...

Can you really alter a polygraph?

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30 December 2010 (F) - Ok, my question is I want to give my husband a polygraph test and I want to know that he cant alter the test. The reason I want him to take one is because well lets just say his work takes him to different places over seas for a year to a yea...

There's no sex in our relationship. Is she cheating?

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30 December 2010 (M) - Hello I have been in a relationship for 7 years with my girlfriend,and we used to have sex every day sometimes to the point where it was a little much.But now for about the last 8 months she has not had sex with me, and I mean NO!! intimacy at all, ...

How do I avoid temptation for him?

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30 December 2010 (F) - im in college at the moment and my boyfriend goes to uni a few hundred miles away so he's never home. when he is here its great because we are a perfect couple, theres no flaw to us, but when he's not here....its not the same. he's a popular boy, ...

Am I dumb for staying with my fiancee' if he has cheated more than once?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Me and my fiancee' has been together for 3 1/2 years but for a year straight he cheated on me and the 2nd year was shaky then the 3rd year we got right and he changed. Now we are going on our 4th year and I still can't get over what he has done in ...

He flirts online! Do I stay or do I go?

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29 December 2010 (F) - So I need advice, I have been married for 7 years now, and my husband has been looking at personals for about 6 years. not only does he look but he replies and his answers are very sexual. He has also registered at single's websites in the past but ...

Am I being paranoid or does it mean he has done sumthing?

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29 December 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend of 4yrs recantly had an argument which he left our home 4 5days, he spent most of our split in his mates sisters house with his mate. since we got bk 2gether he seems as if he is hiddin sumfing! when ive asked has anythin ...

He's keeping in touch with a "friend"

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29 December 2010 (F) - my best friend and i have taken it to the next level... we have been serious now for a while. he keeps in touch with a "friend" from his past by text and he has no idea that i know about it and that i know who she is. he says he hasn't been with ...

BF suddenly claims that he's commitment phobic! Where does that leave me?

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29 December 2010 (F) - I am a 24 year old woman and dating a 26 year old guy we have been together for a year now .suddenly he starterd acting up for me like not taking my calls and stoped me from coming to his place he said he has commitment phobia and says he doesn't ...

Husband lied about HIV

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29 December 2010 (?) - i have been with mt husband for 7 yrs got married when i was 21 we have two young kids. my issue is he did'nt tell me he was h.i.v positive when we got together and only found out after a year of going out by that time i had it as well he has lied ...

I'm paranoid about what could possibly be going on with my girlfriend...

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29 December 2010 (M) - Hello , i just want to know if its just my mind or if its actually happening !! im in a long distance relationship and believe me when i say my gf and i were soooooo much inlove , i still love her though like crazy but we had our ups and downs an...

What can I do to re-gain her trust and change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Okay so here is the background: I was with this girl for about a year when we broke up in October 2009, I ended it because I didn't feel the same way about her- I didn't love her anymore. She was absolutely devastated and plummeted into a...

Will she always be a cheater? How spot and avoid a cheater in future?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I just have a question about an ex. I met this girl through work, we flirted and it was as clear as day she was interested. But things were kind of weird, she was also flirting with two other guys at my work. I ended up leaving for a few weeks and ...