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41-50,
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writes:me and my girlfriend got in to a argument and the first time we did i walked out and and got drunk and the first time we started talking i slept with a girl but it was nothing a one time thing. now She also dosent believe that i was at home in my room watching T.V., she thinks now after she asked me to leave after a argument i got drunk and slept with another girl I didint and iam telling the truth. Any advice and how should i handle and say is this situation.
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reader, Crazylover +, writes (31 December 2010):
Well if course she's not going to believe you! She's prolly very hurt.. I would be to. I bet she dies believe you. She prolly just wants to prove a point and make it so you never want to do that to her again. Just remind her how much you love her and how sorry you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): If you believe the relationship is worth saving then i suggest you stick it out and give it what you've got, talk to her. Honesty makes a relationship and women love it when men offer that up front! so do the right thing and really show her your telling the truth.
Once tust is broken its hard to regain and after hurting her once maybe shes just lost that trust in you? In order for this to work and get back to normal you need too work together, its no good just one of you. If she continues not to believe you then theres only one thing you can do, walk away and never make the same mistake twice, trust is everything! and without it your nothing, best of luck :)
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