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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

New Flatmate Is Already Causing Trouble. How To Deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

30 June 2017 (F) - I'm a working professional, returning to uni in October and as my previous flatmates were moving city I found a room for the summer. Basically there are three international students who usually live in this flat but two of them went back to their ...

He lied to my face, only admitted it after I told him I had seen proof

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2682 days ago

30 June 2017 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. We broke up for about a month or so in between, in which he admitted to kissing a girl. That's it he says.I don't care about any of that, we were broken up. However, I found a condom in his backpack. We ...

I was comfortable with him despite one or two disagreements again. Does that mean I still love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2686 days ago

30 June 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend five years but have been apart for two as he was sent to work far away from home. We lived together for a few years before that happened but during those two years apart I feel like our relationship has been affected a ...

Help me move on from family drama! How can I look back on my wedding day without feeling so negatively about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

29 June 2017 (F) - For a bit of backstory, I come from a large Italian family. My mum had over 300 guests at her wedding, and she had no desire to repeat the same experience for my wedding. So when I got engaged, she was quite understanding in my fiancé and I's desire ...

How do I react to my boyfriends passive aggressive comments about fitness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2701 days ago

29 June 2017 (F) - I weigh 42kg. I used to be a previous model however always been naturally petite. My boyfriend has naturally a slow metabolism and he can gain weight quickly. While he does talk quite a bit about him getting fit as he's definitely on the ...

My boyfriend always admires other women, its been going on for years. Am I over the top?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

29 June 2017 (F) - Sorry this is kind of long. When I go out with my bf, he seems to scan the restaurant, grocery store, gym, wherever, for attractive women. He has a couple of signature looks he gives when he sees an attractive woman. Sometimes it's the excited...

He broke up with me but now is sending messages with hearts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

29 June 2017 (F) - Hey i need help, My boyfriend broke up with me recently because he thought we were drifting apart after we got out of school. He told me that we should just be friends and after that he stopped texting me. Now he is texting me a lot and putting ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

29 June 2017 (M) - why do people have friends and when you talk to them and you say you love them and I got a friend he got's a girl friend and I know them for quit some time they are in a relationship and me and my friend his girlfriend are friends put I would love ...

Boyfriend wants me to dress up like celebrities or people he knows?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

28 June 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been working to spice things up in the bedroom. He seems to really like the idea of role play. I tried it once with him, dressing up like a school girl. We talked about it more since then but now he's hinted around a couple ...

Things changed when my BFF got a girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2701 days ago

28 June 2017 (F) - I'm really hurt. My best friend C and I have been bffs for 5 years. We've had our share of ups and downs, but always managed to get through it and remain close as we were before. He'd been into me, like, majorly into me for 2 years. He said he was ...

I'm always the gateway girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

28 June 2017 (F) - OK, I don't know what I'm asking here, maybe hope from people in / or were in similar situations. Basically, long story short, I'm the gateway girl for guys to find true love/marriage/happily ever afters. I'v never had a relationship last lo...

2000 messages after and my interest has not waned in one particular man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

26 June 2017 (F) - I am a little sad as I write this and would appreciate this question is posted. I am new to online dating. A guy from the dating site started talking to me. I wasn't interested in him but after a few days of talking. We exchanged numbers, did skype ...

Boyfriend did nothing for me on my 21st birthday and says I'm stupid if I expect things to be romantic

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

26 June 2017 (F) - so i dont want to sound like a nag or like im being selfish but here it is. 25th june was my 21st birthday i had a meal and a night out planned. on the 24th my boyfriend didnt want to spend it with me but i told him if he doesnt try its over bec...

He's a slob but I'm afaid to let go

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

26 June 2017 (F) - I don't know what to do any more. My relationship seems like it's going nowhere quickly. I use to be really happy with my boyfriend, but now he constantly blames me for everything. He's never happy with anything. The other night I called him o...

My partner will not admit that she uses a vibrator and its making me feel inadquate

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

26 June 2017 (M) - I've recently discovered that my partner if 6 years is secretly using a vibrator when she thinks I'm asleep. This has been ongoing now for 5 months and every time I ask her she becomes very angry and denial sets in. We have a very open relationship ...

Why do these guys act so weird around me? They don't do this to anyone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2712 days ago

25 June 2017 (F) - I am friends with a few guys from my church. They will act like friends one day but then another day they walk by me like I am not even there. When I say hey to them they say hey back in a fake surprised way like they didn't see me when I know they ...

My ex boyfriend had me arrested for harassment charges! Has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

25 June 2017 (F) - I need some advice please. I was with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and the relationship was great, we had so much in common and were lovers but also best friends. I have abandonment issues and eventually started to self destruct until, after weeks of...

My boyfriend says I'm harder on him than on anyone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2687 days ago

25 June 2017 (F) - So my boyfriend complained and said that I'm harder on him than I am with others or our friends. I don't deny that, but I feel because he's my boyfriend and I have higher expectations of him, that that's okay. Am I wrong? He says its unfair. Case...

My boyfriend doesn't appreciate all that I do for him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

25 June 2017 (F) - I'm wondering if I can get any help and advice. My boyfriend and I, have been together since January. We met on tinder and have been a strong unit since. He had a good-ish paying job, a nice car, a very sweet and cheeky nature, and is just plain ha...

His history has me worried

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

24 June 2017 (F) - If you hear a guy beat up his ex' and you're kind of seeing him what would you do? I talked to him about it of course, yet it keeps bothering me... At first, though he admited it and said he took two years alone to fix himself i was okay. Yet i ke...

Why is he still looking for me? He's married now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

23 June 2017 (F) - 9 years ago (15-16yrs old)I dated a guy in H.S. But we only dated for about a month before he broke up with me over the phone. In that month we were together we had sex and seems like all the guys were talking about it..Well next school year he ...

How do I make the break for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

23 June 2017 (F) - I just read this article about having to let go of a true soulmate; that certain brands of soulmates come in fast, passionately - like a tornado only to be the impetus behind the ultimate crash and burn. So you love someone who also loves you b...

Why is he becoming distant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

23 June 2017 (F) - Why would a man pull away just because the relationship can't go anywhere? Why can't he just live in the moment? I'm asking because if a man really likes a woman, how is it so easy for him to pull away? It seems backwards. If I really like someone, ...

My man has lost his libido

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2587 days ago

23 June 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been together with my partner for 6 years now. The problem is my man has gone off sex and I don’t know what to do about it. I have talked this through with him and he just says that it’s not important and he doesn’t feel like...

My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2715 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - Hello, I met this guy online, nearly 2 years ago. He's korean and I'm polish. There are quite a few things that my parents refuse to accept about him and they constantly try to make me break up with him. The main arguments are his short height, th...

How to make someone who doesn't like you fall in love with you ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2715 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - I know a man who fancy me sexually but doesn't like me personally. This is odd I know, please open your mind. This is a player, someone who sleeps around and goes from a girl to a girl like a bee in the spring lol. He is good looking, char...

I met him online, lied about everything and now 4 years later I know I need to tell him the truth but I don't know how

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - I met someone online 4years back when I was 17 - 18, so I joined in just for fun..members were not really serious about relationships but everyone was there after a breakup or divorce. And I decided to hide my identity and just to have chat with ...

I don't get his on-off attitude

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 1 and a half years. He asked for space. He asked for space and then said sorry the next day, and again stopped contact with me for a week. Suddenly he texted me again when he needed me and now again has cut off contact ...

How can I get hime to be more romantic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - I'm dating a guy for almost a year and he isn't the romantic type. He's said he's not a mushy type about 6 months in so I pulled back a lot and decided to move on. After two weeks apart he texted me and called wanted to try again. Still the same no ...

Family puts too much stress on me. Should I end it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - Hi, I’m sorry if this going to be a lengthy question, I just want to give you all the facts to better explain the situation. I met my current live-in boyfriend almost 5 years ago while I was on the rebound from another relationship. I...

Told my boyfriend I got a new job at a hotel. He was concerned men would look up my skirt.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - I told my boyfriend I just got a new job! It will help me pay my bills and I really needed a job right now. It's in housekeeping at an upscale hotel. The first question he asked is what will I be wearing? He was concerned it would be a skimp...

My boyfriend still hasn't told everyone that he is gay or about me. How should I proceed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

21 June 2017 (M) - Hi there, I'm an out gay man and have known my boyfriend for 8 months and been with him 6 - he was in the closet when we got together and is still partly so. He recently came out to his parents and has said during every conversation on the topic ...

Am I selfish or is he trying to guilt trip me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

21 June 2017 (F) - I feel my boyfriend has the most unrealistic expectations of me and it's really pushing me away. Hr told me this evening on the phone that his back went out of place so he had to take the day off work to rest as well as see a physio. He also ...

Does her telling me to move on really mean its over?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

21 June 2017 (M) - Hello i was in a relationship with a woman for 17 months , she ended it because we argued, quite a bit , as she wanted to settle down,and i did , but not yet , she said at begining of april ,can,t say goodbye , so i,ll say goodnight, that was the ...

Is my son over-reacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

21 June 2017 (F) - My son is 20 and my older son 27. They started college around the same time. My oldest is going to a for-profit school for culinary arts; meanwhile my youngest is attending a community college on a full pell grant.. my oldest needs the car to attend ...

I even left my daughter at home for 4 days for the sake of my affair and now he's disappeared. I feel so lonely!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

20 June 2017 (F) - I met this guy in Vegas over two months ago. He approached me and my friends at a club. I told him from the beginning I was married and he respected that . The night went on and everyone was having a great time. He would dance next to me because he ...

I'm being bullied. How do I stand up to these girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

20 June 2017 (F) - I had an argument with this girl, let's call her Nelly. It was about 2 months ago now. When we were arguing I told her to "peice out" in other words go away. Now every time I walk past her in school, her and her friend always shout at me "peice out ...

How can I stop being so jaded ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

20 June 2017 (F) - How can I stop being so jaded and angry towards men - a little background I grew up in a disfuncfional home my dad was physically abusive to my mother and we do not have a relationship - I'm 29 and I've been with two men that well they have been ...

When I say I love you, he says thank you. Should we be in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

20 June 2017 (F) - I just want to know a thinkg ....my bf is a kind not intrstd in marriage he just says we will be in relationship for how long we can be.and if I say love he just says thank you...wat does it mean...I INA confused statsle now..should I finish this ...

My partner and I have a business together, the relationship isn't working but I don't know if I want to end things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

20 June 2017 (M) - Hello, I've just stumbled upon this community and felt compelled to ask for advice. I am currently in a relationship with my partner and we've been together for almost 3 years. We're not married and don't have children. We're in our mid thirties...

I can't have sex too often because its so painful but my partner feels unattractive because of this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

19 June 2017 (F) - I am 28 and have been with my partner for nearly nine years now. I get cystitis almost every time we have sex. I have had extensive tests to find out why without conclusion. It has been happening for six years. We have also tried everything to ...

Why am I so jealous ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2718 days ago

19 June 2017 (F) - I would like to know as I am trying to attempt the dating game at 31 to stop being so possivive-a little background - I have honestly been with three men and two in a relationship - one was long term and he was very manipulating and control- the ...

Why did he give up his trip with the boys?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

18 June 2017 (F) - My boyfriend turned down a golf trip with the guys next weekend. It's out of town and they go every year. He said it's because he knows I worry and he doesn't want to upset me. In the past I have given him grief. Many of the guys go to strip club...

My boyfriend wants me to buy a cheap car instead of one I can actually afford

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

18 June 2017 (F) - So I'm in a conundrum. My bf and I have been dating on/off for 5 years. We were friends for years first before dating. Currently, we disagree on a car, to understand the struggle, a lil history is needed. In the very beginning of our relationship...

My girlfriend dumped me because she thinks I watch porn

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

18 June 2017 (M) - Long story short my girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me cause she thinks I'm lying to her about not watching porn. It's rediculous if you saw how beautiful she was you'd understand. We've been exploring our sexuality together and I went o...

I'm tempted to punish him by cheating on him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

17 June 2017 (F) - Hey all!! I'm in need of some good solid advice and know this website would be my best bet for non sugar coated advice. I know I'm not the only person going thru this type of stuff, so please help me thru it. I've been dating the same guy for...

What could be going on with my new coworker-friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

17 June 2017 (F) - There is a new coworker at my job that came to work for a few months. He seems fun. He acts gay, but seems bi. Nit sure how to put it. I am a girl. We kind of been getting along well from the moment we met. Talk and joke a lot at work. But I have ...

Girl friends 'very low sex drive' and says she never feels horny

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

17 June 2017 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 and a half years now give or take and we had allot of sex in the beginning now in te last 6 months it has slowly been declining it's down to about once or twice a month now. I know she is not cheating on me ...

Married to an abusive man, 5 kids and I think I'm falling in love with another man

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

17 June 2017 (F) - Ok so I'm married going on 4 years this month. We've been together for 5+ years. I was abused in a previous marriage emotionally and now am putting up with physical and emotional abuse from my current husband... he's a disabled vet and things ...

I've been cheated on in the past so I have trouble with trusting someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2720 days ago

17 June 2017 (F) - I started seeing a guy who was a bit older then me (11 years) last year after we met through online dating. He was great, really funny, kind, good looking, good in bed, seriously he ticked all the boxes. Then I found out he was still texting the ...